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Scared 2 go there
Posted Tuesday July 14 2009, 8:39 pm
This guy, well these GUYS~
His name is jason and damn what do I say, I realy dont get to see him that much because im scared to go around where he's always at. His friends consider me someone who should "hook up with the whole team" really they have no reason to think about me like that except that I do have this thing for jasons friend matt. its never meant anything just when he hits on me I cant help but to tottally want him but Ive never done anything about it. Jason I swear we're meant 4 eachother!
but how do I spend the time I need to with him if im so scared to show up around him and have no other way 2 see him except for going around him...
The only person that is my friend and his friend is always so b...
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Im going through breakup depression
Posted Tuesday July 14 2009, 8:21 pm
Ok...so me and my boyfriend broke up (again) and i usually dont go through what im going through right now. For 5 days now i have cried every night for no reason, and i have got talor swift stuck in my head!! The song white horse, its not the best song to have inyour head during a breakup! it feels like i have been punched in the gut and my guts were ripped out.
please tell me how to get over this.
olie D=
14/f
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I like a girl, how do I tell her
Posted Tuesday July 14 2009, 7:39 pm
There's a girl and we've been friends for about 6 months now, and recently we've been talking a lot, like every day, and I'm starting to have some pretty strong feelings for her. I'm just not sure the best way to tell her. I also have a little time, she's 4 hours away now but goes back to school in 6 weeks, which is less than an hour away. But she is sending me some pretty strong signals that she likes me too. Anyway, I've just never really had that conversation with a friend before and not exactly sure the best way to do it. What is the best way to tell her how I feel/ask if she feels the same way? Specifics would be helpful, thanks!
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Boyfriend broke up with me
Posted Tuesday July 14 2009, 4:05 pm
"Last week I had the strangest dream" that my boyfriend broke up with me. Last night that dream became a reality. I reacted to it monotonously, because in a way I guess I expected it, but I'm still kind of in shock. I didn't beg him to stay with me I just told him to do what he felt was best. The reason he broke it off was that we haven't been seeing a lot of eachother. The last time I saw him was probably 2 weeks or more ago. Normally we would see eachother daily at school but not so much on the weekends because my parents don't really allow me to be alone with him and because they don't approve of us. He told me that he thought my parents would never change and that he didn't want to but that he felt it best to break up. Now I f...
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Marriage, Health, and Financial Problems
Posted Tuesday July 14 2009, 10:49 am
Hello,
Earlier this year my husband's physician recommended that he stop working and go on disability. I am blessed to have a work from home position that is stable and I make $42,000 a year. We have two very young children, and I am 33yrs old. My husband is 11 yrs my senior. In the past we have tried to get life insurance and disablility insurance for him but no one will touch him. In a nut shell, my husband has quit his $55,000yr job and is tryin to make preparations for us to leave the state where we are currently to somewhere cheaper. Sounds like the solution...... except for a few important things. The heart condition my husband has can render him an invalid or worse sudden death. The place he has decided to move does no...
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We Can't date yet..so what do i do now??
Posted Monday July 13 2009, 8:10 pm
Okay,
Well, my friend(i also REALLY like him) he's very sweet..and very flirty. ;) Well,after we met he told me that he liked me, probably a week after we met. We have a lot in common, and we pretty much have the same personality. It's pretty weird that we do..but it's sweet.Most recently we were at the pool and he got REAL touchy. I didn't mind him like..touching my shoulders or picking me up and things like that..but he touched me "down there".. like he was acting real flirty and it just landed there ha ha .Well.. it didn't really bother me..i liked it ;) Well.. I asked him out and he told me that he wants to but he can't date people right now (these girls were jealous of his girl friend & him and sta...
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It's going to be so awkward!
Posted Monday July 13 2009, 7:55 pm
me: 14/F
him: 15/M
Okay. So I'm like super nervous to hang out with this boy. Here's what happened. I met him a few months ago and we swapped numbers, yadayadayada. Anyway, for like a month we just didn't text, and then a few weeks ago we started again, I don't know, we just did. Well, we really got to know eachother for the first time because I never see him (he is a year older and goes to a diferent school) and well, I think I really like him. He started to call me and we would talk on the phone at night, and then he asked me on a date... And I said yes.
Well now here's the tricky part. See, first off, he IS a year older, and quite a bit more experienced than me. He has made out, and I've never even be...
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questions
Posted Monday July 13 2009, 6:56 pm
15/f iv been with my guy for almost a year and we cant wait till we get married were going to at the end of high school, he gave me a promise ring that means the world to me, we are really in love and he knows me better than i know myself. All my friends love it that were together n say were the cutest couple ever, everything is perfect when I am with him. We do up to oral and sometimes r not to careful..
Things started falling apart about 7 months ago when I escaped rape. I now have severe post traumatic stress disorder, psychosis, mania and depression, chronic pain from my insides being ripped up and I get hospitalized a lot. It is very stressful on him because he cares the world for me and tortures himself when I am hospitalized o...
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need romantic ideas
Posted Monday July 13 2009, 4:52 pm
Ive been wit my bf for 7 months n i need ideas for romantic things we can do we live in nor cal n i wann find some natural hot springs or places we can stay that are romantic i always make him dinner so ideas other than that would be great plz help thanx
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Don't know what to do :-(
Posted Monday July 13 2009, 3:31 pm
Ok, so I'm 19/f and about to enter my sophmore year in college. For the past two years, I've had this thing for my best friends little brother, who just turned 17 and about to be a senior in high school. We have never hooked up, with the only thing being done is me kissing him while I was hammered and he was completely sober. I'm about to go back to school in about a month, and I don't know if I should pursue something or not. Last summer I left without doing anything because I was going to go to college, and didn't want to be tied down for my freshman year, but this year, I think I may be ready to try something
But for one, theres the age difference. I know its only two years, but hes in high school and I'm in college. While...
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What to do?
Posted Monday July 13 2009, 1:45 pm
Hi guys.
I know this boy who I really like. I have told him that I like him before and he has told me he likes me. Recently he hasn't said it, but his friends have told me he likes me.
Anyway, he went into a mood with me when we were out one night with mine and his friends, and since then, when I have text him, he has ignored me. His friends says he does this a lot, but I still can't help feeling hurt.
He text me a couple days later and asked me if I wanted to go for a drink, but I couldn't as I was working, so I told him that. The next day I text him and asked how he was, and he hasn't replied.
Why is he doing this?! Should I just move on?
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did he play me?
Posted Monday July 13 2009, 12:15 pm
okay so,
i go to a really cool place laureta and there is beaches and parties and everything, it's amazing. so this guy tye and me went to the beach around 10:30 and madeout it was amazzing we had been kissing and flirting all night. Then, the next day he was being all rude and shit and wouldn't talk to me or hug me.. and his friend said that it was cause he wanted to get rid of me because i go wherever he wants to go.. i know its gay. how do i win him back? were really good friends.. thanks for the advice , much appreciated<33
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what's a girl to do?
Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 9:55 pm
So I'm mostly on this site to give other people advice. But I could really use someone to tell about a little situation I'm having and I've read alot of other advice givers advice on here and alot of it is good, I'm sure some of you guys could give me some thing for me to think about.
Well, I have a boyfriend. Well, I'm supposed to.
I met him at the beginning of the summer, which was over a month ago. I met him at my apartments pool, and he was living here also, with his older brother. The very day that me and my friends met him and his brother at the pool, we went to their place that night to hang out. Me and my friend ended up hanging out more with him and drinking and went swimming and stuff. -Besides the point lol...
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guessing
Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 9:31 pm
how do you constantly keep someone guessing? because then whats the point of getting to know someone if you're trying to keep them guessing... i just dont get this whole mystery thing...
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if you love being crazy, i could use some advice....
Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 9:26 pm
okay so strange thing has happened to me. ive met this new guy and he is funny and cute. but the downside is hes not a good boyfriend at all and gets bored after a few months of dating. hes also very conceited. the thing is im not sure i want to be with this guy or even if i like him but something keeps making me want to hang out with him. He is the type of guy you can be best friends with and have lots of fun with, and thats kinda what i wanna do. except i also want to make him realize hes not all that. So he said hes into mysterious girls. that he doesnt like simple girls. and i have always wanted to do things differently. so my question is what is the most random, craziest thing any of u have done that was fun and that i could do with hi...
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hey again :)
Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 6:38 pm
okay so i'm going away on vacation to ocean city august 7th-11th (aug 11th 2008 was the day we started dating so it would be our 1 year, just throwing that out there) and i asked him if he wanted to hang out august 7th and he said yes and marked it on his calender, so hes free those days. i want to invite him to go with me but i don't really know how to bring it up...i also don't know if i should find out if he wants to start the relationship before i ask him to go on vacation or during vacation. and how should i go about asking him? i don't wanna come on too strong to be desperate you know? thanks lotss.
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cant stop thinking about him
Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 5:23 pm
Ok, me and my ex have been broken up for 4 months. we went out for about a year and a half. I dont know what to do. I cant stop thinking about him and i really miss him. The thing is hes changed alot and everyone says hes cocky and a jerk now. But i still miss him and everything we used to do. He was my BEST friend. Its kinda like there wasnt a second we werent together. Now ive done pretty good in not seeming pathetic and stuff but theres days that i just get all worked up and cant stop thinking of him. For example, i was doing pretty good keeping my mind clear of him but then he texted me and asked me how i was and all this stuff. Then i asked him why he requested this boy i went on a date after him to be his friend on the computer and he...
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She got there first, and I got struck down on the first time
Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 3:53 pm
I have never had a boyfriend, nor have I felt the desire. I wanted to wait , until I was mature, ready. Last week, at a party, I met a guy. I just loved him, maybe not loved him, but wow.
I never like guys, but this was different. He had all the qualities, I really liked him.
My best friend, HAD a boyfriend at the time. They were going though a rocky patch.
A couple of days after , my best friend's relationship ended. She was PRETTY gutted. She said to me, I still love him. The guy I met invited her round (cos he did get to know her, as well) and he turned round and kissed her. She didnt stop it - obviously I know she was on the rebound - BUT she didn't even like him - I mean she was making little rema...
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Can friends with benefits become something more?
Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 12:44 pm
Hey!
Well, this guy I like he's awesome, cute, funny, caring and i think he could be the one. He also likes me. He makes me feel like.. I'm perfect,like an angel. I finally feel better about myself now that i met him.(I had a lot of guy trouble) Now i feel like he's the one. Right now we are like.."friends with benefits", i asked him out and he said "Can't we just stay best friends". Than after that that he said i don't know. I told him that he can think about it, and i mentioned we can be friends wit benefits..we are pratically already are. ha ha. He said he really wants me, but i don't understand why he doesn't want to date me? I think it's because some jealous girls started, a rumor about him and his ...
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Tells Me He Calls...
Posted Sunday July 12 2009, 9:45 am
Hey,
I was just wondering;
what does it mean if myboyfriend calls other girls (like sisters and friends, ect) my name accidentally?
He loves me a lot, and i find it cute but why does he do that accidentally?
:) Thanks
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