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hey again :)
okay so i'm going away on vacation to ocean city august 7th-11th (aug 11th 2008 was the day we started dating so it would be our 1 year, just throwing that out there) and i asked him if he wanted to hang out august 7th and he said yes and marked it on his calender, so hes free those days. i want to invite him to go with me but i don't really know how to bring it up...i also don't know if i should find out if he wants to start the relationship before i ask him to go on vacation or during vacation. and how should i go about asking him? i don't wanna come on too strong to be desperate you know? thanks lotss.
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you should bring it up like, hey, so I was going to ocean city, and was wondering if you wanted to go, and I would stick with asking himduring the vacaion! good luck!
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Okay.. well, thats a little while away, so see where things go in the next week or so ... if he keeps flirting with you and everything, and you guys talk alot, then bring up getting back into a relationship [if he doesnt do it first, he might be scared that thats not what you want or something, so turn on the flirt alert ;)]
If you want to invite him, i think you should do it ! I mean, what's the worst that could happen ? he'd say no, and you guys would STILL hangout the day you've planned to anyways, so either way, you can't lose. which puts you ina great position ! hahaa :] and there are plenty of ways to bring it up.. you could start off like this..
- you: "im excited to hang out with you on the 7th ! but it's only one day :[ i really wanted to spend more time with you, maybe you could come on vacation with me ?" OR..
- you: "i don't think we hang out enough, one day just doesn't do it for me, you should come on vacation with me!"
a combination of the two would suffice also :] just be creative, it could be arandom topic or you could just be talking about hanging out. whatever works, im sure he won't mind at all haha. and you should ask him about the relationship thing whenever you feel it's the right time. trust your gut instinct. I suggest that you ask him to go on vacation before, so it's not like all at once, yuh know ? and then if he does go with you, you could ask him when you're on vacation about the relationship thing. OR if he says yes then you could ask him like, "do you consider us as a couple?" or something along those lines, but if he can;t go down with you, just hang out with him and ask him about the relationship while you're hanging out. when boys feel pressured they tend to freak out, and coming on too strong or asking him all of this at once might push him away, yuh know ? so take it slow and take a deep breath. time is your friend, and you have lots of it :] so don't worry about it, just watch his body language when he's around you and make sure you flirt BIG TIME and see how he reacts to that.
If you do all of this, I guarentee a good outcome. have fun, hope i helped, and tell me how everything goes ! keep me postedd. oh, and if you need ANYTHING else, I'm always here. good luck :] xxo.
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