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We Can't date yet..so what do i do now??
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Well, my friend(i also REALLY like him) he's very sweet..and very flirty. ;) Well,after we met he told me that he liked me, probably a week after we met. We have a lot in common, and we pretty much have the same personality. It's pretty weird that we do..but it's sweet.Most recently we were at the pool and he got REAL touchy. I didn't mind him like..touching my shoulders or picking me up and things like that..but he touched me "down there".. like he was acting real flirty and it just landed there ha ha .Well.. it didn't really bother me..i liked it ;) Well.. I asked him out and he told me that he wants to but he can't date people right now (these girls were jealous of his girl friend & him and started rumors to break them up..so he's hurt by that.) one of the rumors was that he was dating someone on My space, it wasn't true though..because he's not like that..he's a great guy and he wouldn't do that. I asked him if we could ever date in the future, and he said we could. He told me that he's not playing with my heart, he's just can't date people right now..I'm not sure if it's because of what happened last or..something else. Well, what i want to know is..what should i do now?? Just wait or find someone else for now?? I really like him..and he really likes me..im just so confused!!
Thanks..don't be harsh or anything..
i'll rate fair!!!
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I suggest just keeping your heart yours and keeping your eyes peeled. If he is actually playing you, you don't get hurt too badly and if you start dating it all works out.
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It could be that he is just not ready to date someone right now. The whole myspace thing does seem weird though...and I will agree with the last person pretty much all of it seems odd but doesn't mean it's a lie. If you think you should move on and find someone eles then do so, BUT here is the thing...I don't think it's right to find someone then dump them for when he IS ready to date afterall it hurts when people play with other peoples feelings. If you really like him and he really likes you well...you could also wait for him but again don't hold yourself back. If you want give him 2 months..if he is still unsure within that time then hey! maybe it is time to find someone new. If he comes around then YAY!!! Up too you!
Good Luck
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sigh* ok so what im getting from this whole thing is that he likes you but cant date you because of some rumors that some other girls started??? thats a bit sketchy if you ask me. okay so im not saying its absolutely not true and that hes lying to you, but it seems highly unlikely. if he liked you like he says he does, he wouldn't care about some stupid rumor. I'm not trying to be harsh, but i do think you shouldn't be completely naive with this guy. Dont believe everything he says. Look into his story, if you have mutual friends ask them or go on myspace maybe youll get some info. The best advice I can give you right now is DONT do anything with him if your not dating him. It's ok to keep flirting just dont take it any further than that. If this guy really likes you, hell be with you no matter what. But if you guys develop this relationship where you do stuff but he keeps telling you he cant date you, then hes only after you to do that stuff. So dont give in until your his girlfriend, his reason for not being able to date people right now is honestly sort of lame...
good luck =)
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