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I'm Meg, I love the Art Deco movement and the time period all around, I love my Bengerman, I want a French Bulldog named Winston and a cat named Frou Frou and to be in Maine with my Benjamin forever. Oh, and I give great advice, ahah.

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I found this one person say...

~kinda wanna start playing WoW~

what is WoW???

It stands for World of Warcraft. A computer game that consumes your whole life because you make a new one in the game..

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OK theres this guy his name is Jason! really I dont know too much about him considering I've only hung out with him for like a total of 2 weeks, and I've only known him for a little over a month. The first day I met him I was with my best friend to go hang out with her boyfriend and this guy jason just stood out to me. well anyways we stayed that night at his house and his kisses (undescribable)! Everyday for the next week after that I was around him. My problem though is that at night when we're in his room it's like we cared so much but the next day it was like nothing. maybe it was cuz when his friends asked me if I liked him I would say no just because it doesnt seem like Im the type of girl that could ever be more than a careless fling for him and I am scared of rejection! so anyways after that first week or a bit more I went about 3 weeks wuthout seeing him and just a couple days ago on my birthday I was hanging out with my friend mario and we ended up at jasons house that night.
The things I noticed that night was that in the week he was around me he saw and remembered things about me I never noticed. He could tell me exactly what I was thinking. and he made me happier than I have ever been with a guy. Then the next day it was like it didnt matter. I have two problems here. First one is its like when its just me and him he cares almost more than me but when we're around his friends he says he doesnt care. My second problem is I want to see him even if we can never be together but where he hangs out I dont know anyone really well there and I dont want to just wait for one of my friends to go around him for me to see him but I dont want to go there and not be wanted so what do I do?

Well, it seems you are infatuated, m'dear. I would suggest to ride it out, but keep your distance until he approaches you and wants to commit. Get an entertaining hobby, that helps a lot to wait. I've been in that situation though..Just keep playing the field.

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so this friday is my dad's birthday. he REALLY wants the new iphone. my mom is gunna give me enough money to go to the store and buy it, but the thing is, is that i'm 15. and my mom is working all day friday, and she really wants me to go get it so we can watch him open it and stuff. i'm 15..and not driving yet..but my friend, who's a year older than me, 16..said that she would drive me to go get it for him while my mom is at work. BUT..my dad is gunna be home with me on his birthday during the day..so...i need to come up with an excuse of WHY i'm leaving..the only think i've thought of is i'm going to a friends house and she's coming to pick me up...or that were going out to eat or something..but i want to have a reason of WHY i'm going out, without him being suspicious..cause we really want this to be a big surprise..

so..any suggestions?? THANKS!

Well, if you have summer reading you can say you have a question and want to meet up with a group of your friends to discuss it, or that you are going to the school to talk to the counselor..

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hm; i wanna change the way
i put on my eyeliner to make
my eyes pop i have black eye
liner and my eye change from
blue to green to grey so how
can i shape it so it looks
different and it pops? &
most of all so it looks
pretty (: please help.
thanks

I suggest just lining as close to the lash line as possible until it is thick enough to your liking.

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15/f iv been with my guy for almost a year and we cant wait till we get married were going to at the end of high school, he gave me a promise ring that means the world to me, we are really in love and he knows me better than i know myself. All my friends love it that were together n say were the cutest couple ever, everything is perfect when I am with him. We do up to oral and sometimes r not to careful..
Things started falling apart about 7 months ago when I escaped rape. I now have severe post traumatic stress disorder, psychosis, mania and depression, chronic pain from my insides being ripped up and I get hospitalized a lot. It is very stressful on him because he cares the world for me and tortures himself when I am hospitalized or hallucinate. And he formed shared psychosis disorder from me.
i say life is great though ..But my questions are .1. I look pregnant, I’m skinny everywhere but the baby area on my stomach its like bam lol but I am a virgin and missed every period for the last 4 months but started today.. Even though iv jacked him he touched it then he fingered me.. My friends getting me a pregnancy test tonight. Could I be pregnant? Or maybe it could be my intestines? Since they are messed up big time.
.2. How else can I help him I feel so bad that he is like this since its my fault? And it seems like he is hurt even more since I almost got raped he wont forget the past. How do I help?
.3. I love him so much and I say only sex after marriage, but it seems like the time is so right, we have talked about it a lot and we might around our two year anniversary, should we? I feel like it’s the biggest decision ever and I want to but then I don’t since I am young.. He and my two best friends stayed the night Friday and I slept with him it was nearly impossible to resist.
If you could please answer any or all that would be great :D

I'm terribly sorry for what you went through, but with someone like that you can only go up. 1. There is nooooooooooo possiblity you are pregnant.. 2. Don't blame yourself, he probably feels helpless because he couldn't protect you from the incident. And 3. Just take your time and give a good thinking over. You have to love yourself before you can give yourself away.

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Where is a good site where I can look for decent priced apartments in Massachusetts perferably Boston but anywhere eles is okay. Thanks

I fancy rent.com. You can sign up and whatnot and I find it really useful.

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19/f

is it weird if i get kinda turned off if a guy gets a boner? i dont really care during sex, OBVIOUSLY! but if we're doing something other than that and i could feel it through is pants, i feel really turned off for some reason? is this normal of me? oh my god, i don't think it is?

You might want to slow down and think about things. Give your sexual orientation a once over and even test the waters with a girl! That will definitely help you figure out if you fancy one or the other, or even both!

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K, soo a few days ago my bf fingered me for the 1st time and it was the 1st time I've ever done anything sexual like that w/ a guy. So I tried to return the favor (if you catch my drift?) but I started and stopped after about 10-15 seconds because I freaked out. Like I thought I was doing it wrong and I got scared.

Is that normal? How do I get over my nerves and fears and just do it?

Oh and I told him I was really really sorry that I didn't do it and how I thought it was unfair, and he told me it was completely fine, and did it to me 2 more times that night.

From a guys point of veiw, is it like a turn off or something if you do it for a girl and she doesn't rtf? Or do some guys really not care much?

That is really normal, thank goodness your boyfriend reacted well. Sounds like a keeper. But just ease into it and take your time.

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Okay,


Well, my friend(i also REALLY like him) he's very sweet..and very flirty. ;) Well,after we met he told me that he liked me, probably a week after we met. We have a lot in common, and we pretty much have the same personality. It's pretty weird that we do..but it's sweet.Most recently we were at the pool and he got REAL touchy. I didn't mind him like..touching my shoulders or picking me up and things like that..but he touched me "down there".. like he was acting real flirty and it just landed there ha ha .Well.. it didn't really bother me..i liked it ;) Well.. I asked him out and he told me that he wants to but he can't date people right now (these girls were jealous of his girl friend & him and started rumors to break them up..so he's hurt by that.) one of the rumors was that he was dating someone on My space, it wasn't true though..because he's not like that..he's a great guy and he wouldn't do that. I asked him if we could ever date in the future, and he said we could. He told me that he's not playing with my heart, he's just can't date people right now..I'm not sure if it's because of what happened last or..something else. Well, what i want to know is..what should i do now?? Just wait or find someone else for now?? I really like him..and he really likes me..im just so confused!!

Thanks..don't be harsh or anything..

i'll rate fair!!!

I suggest just keeping your heart yours and keeping your eyes peeled. If he is actually playing you, you don't get hurt too badly and if you start dating it all works out.

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Mae (pronounced May, just a cooler spelling), Rena, Lynette, Jesirae, Amira, Kiara, Lena, Kaylee, Amina, Rose, Anissa, Liliana, Arabelle, Lilibeth, Ayla, Nikia, Ciana

I'm caught between Mae, Kiara and Rose. But I see Mae as strictly a middle name. Just fool around with them and picture yourself getting onto them or instructing them and so on. Personally, if my boyfriend and I have children we would name the little girl Adelaide Faye and the boy Henry Julian. Julian is my father's name and I fancy the tradition of passing on the name somehow. Good luck!

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i kinda wanna start playing WoW..and i have a few questions about it..

it it easier/more fun than runescape??

how much space does it take up on your computer??

Runescape is like the cheap version of WoW. It takes a lottt of space, but a desktop can usually handle it. My boyfriend is an addict, and I would be too if I had it. It really just sucks you in, plus you can sell your account for hundreds of dollars!

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okay this might sound kind of disgusting BUT i need to know!

girls shave the hair inbetween their buttcrack, right?

I personally do because I despise body hair..but it's just about what you prefer.

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