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Question Posted Monday July 13 2009, 1:45 pm

Hi guys.
I know this boy who I really like. I have told him that I like him before and he has told me he likes me. Recently he hasn't said it, but his friends have told me he likes me.
Anyway, he went into a mood with me when we were out one night with mine and his friends, and since then, when I have text him, he has ignored me. His friends says he does this a lot, but I still can't help feeling hurt.
He text me a couple days later and asked me if I wanted to go for a drink, but I couldn't as I was working, so I told him that. The next day I text him and asked how he was, and he hasn't replied.
Why is he doing this?! Should I just move on?


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pseudophun answered Thursday July 16 2009, 1:17 pm:
SIDEBAR!: Ignore anyone who says texting is lame. I function via texting.

Anyway. So, I'm not sure how old you are but it sounds to me that his guy might be in his early 20s? They tend to do this a lot. It's just how they are. Regardless, I think that you should move on, and here are some reasons I think are valid for it.
A) He's acting childish.
I'm sure he thinks he's being coy, but he's really just acting childish with all his "I like, but I'm going to ignore you"... stuff (for lack of a better word at this exact moment).
B) He's moody.
Moody men tend to be immature men. I speak from experience not stereotype. You don't need that. You need someone that's on your level and is ready for what you are.
C) He's playing games.
I've seen it before and it seems that he's seeing how long you'll stick around with him baiting you and then leaving. It's all a test to see how much he could get away with. Don't let him get away with anything, because if you do he'll walk all over you.

So... Like I said. Move on... There are lots of men everywhere... Import one from Madrid or something, but move on. ^_^ (I so wish I could import men).

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LoLL-i-PoP answered Monday July 13 2009, 7:09 pm:
Ugh, sorry dear, but texting is so lame. There are all kinds of glitches that mess it up. It doesn't send, your phone doesn't get the reply, you can forget about it if your busy and think to yourself 'oh I'll text her back later.' Its just so posh. Call your boo and schedule a hang out. If he rejects, uhm, screw him, so not worth it babe.

Goodluck!

xoxo
LoLL-i-PoP

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