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Fight with long distance boyfriend!


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 7:49 pm

In a long distance relationship, basically we talk everyday & last night it was silent & I had to leave, when I left he sounded kinda mad. All day today I had the feeling he didn't want to talk to me, but I knew if I didn't call him, he'd be more mad.

So I called, wanting to fix the situation/ask whats up, and his brother answered. I talked to his brother for 2 1/2 hours, then it was time for my track practice again. My bf was there next to him the entire time, on xbox, and talked to me for basically 30 seconds said hey how are you, then left. Haha, so I left. I was furious, I've cooled down now.

But I dunno, should I just have no contact w/ him for the next couple days? He's told me before his biggest ...

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How can I tell him how I feel?


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 7:30 pm

There's this guy I really like,and we've been bffs for a few years.But in time I fell head over heels for him.He's very popular and has lots of friends(mostly girls).The thing is he just treats me differently.He's caring,gentle and always makes me feel right,he's always there for me,he knows what I need,what to say,do,and when...What's also a problem is his sexual orientation.One second he seems gay,then he's normal again.Btw,he told me he's a bit gay...but the things he does when with me just show the opposite.Should I go for it?I don't know what to do,I've loved him for so long and I have a feeling he loves me too,but I'm really afraid of getting rejected...I was extremely hurt in my previous relationships.I don't want to lose my best fri...

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erm...nonexistant.


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 6:18 pm

here is this guy who has had a crush on me for two years minimum. He got up the nerve to ask me to dance (at my Bat Mitzvah) and, as I was having a mental breakdown at the time, I said no. Even if I weren't having the mental breakdown, I would have said no, but without the snarl at the end. As I am thirteen, I think that relationships are stupid at this age. Most ages, really, since guys seem to be lacking in the intellectual department. Anyway, this guy is friends with my friends, and they have been nagging me ever since. That is a LONG TIME!!!! So how do I get them to shut up?

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birthday present


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 6:17 pm

im 15 (girl) and my boyf is turning 19 in december...
i have no idea what to get him... any ideas??

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Resolution with my ex?


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 6:14 pm

So, I got linked to this site and I'm basically on the last thread of my sanity, and thought ,"Hey why not." The bottom line is I cheated on my girlfriend. It was a terrible situation, where we weren't together, but turned into more of a blackmail when I got back with her, "If you don't sleep with me again I'll tell." After a few times of destroying my morals even more, I put an end to it, and sure enough, my girlfriend was told about what I had done. I have been with many chicks, had many heartbreaks, but this is one I can not leave behind. I have never been more sure about anything in my entire life, unlike a lot of people who ask advice on here. I have exhausted a lot of time and effort into trying to find resolution ...

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Sex


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 3:58 pm

What are good sex positions?

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Long distance relationship!


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 2:32 pm

I'm in a long distance relationship, and sometimes my boyfriend and I go silent. It's happened like 3 times during our 3 month relationship, and we'll both agree to leave the conversation and talk tomorrow when we're feeling more talkative.

But after we leave we both end up worrying that the other person is upset with us. And I'm tired of this. NOTHING is wrong, I've tried to explain to him, some days I am just quiet. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to stop (mainly his) our worrying? It's like we both know nothings wrong, that we're just being quiet, but we still worry hahaha. Please help, thanks!

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I am going out with this guy to get over my ex-boyfriend who I like, and don't like new guy.


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 2:27 pm

okay soooo i'm going out with this guy and hes nice and funny and pretty hot, but i think the only reason i might be going out with him is so i can get over my ex!! The reason y me and my ex broke up was because he was going out of town for the whole summer and we wouldnt see eachother at all. I think i still have feelings for my ex and not my new bf wat do i do??
plus my new bf is in Hawaii right now in a surf competition and im afraid if i break up with him he'll do bad!!

WAT DO I DO???

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act like a complete idiot around the guy i like!


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 2:26 pm

i'm 19 years old, female.

i guess i've always had it easy, in a way. i've always been told i've been a pretty girl, and i do have confidence but i think it hurts me a little bit when it comes to guys.

i've been close with this guy for a couple years now. and i still never have the courage just to text him and say "whats up" or anything like that, i always try to come up with a reason to text him.

for example. last night me him and my cousin were watching a movie. he took up the whole couch and i was like okay well i'll just lay on the floor then. and he was like no we can share the couch. and so his head was on one end and my head was on the other end. well i was on the awkward end wher...

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pregnancy


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 2:25 pm

I gave my boyfriend a handjob and he cummed and i wipped it off but i didnt wash it and about 40 minutes later i masterbated... can i be pregnant?

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Boyfriend going to jail.


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 1:51 pm

14/female, my boyfriend is 18/m

okay, well on august 13th, my boyfriend is going to jail for 6 months, minimum...and I decided I'm going to stay with him while hes in, anyone gone through this before ? any suggestions on how to make it work ??
thanks :)

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Taking a shower with my bf..


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 1:12 pm

Hey! I wanna take a shower with my boyfriend before he leaves for college.. how can i hint him into it? i don't like being too straight forward.

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ATTN: all 20 year old GIRLS && GUYS


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 12:33 pm

My friend is turning 20 in about 2 weeks...what are things that we can do for her birthday weekend?? She has a bf, he will be coming as well, so nothing that involve wat a single woman would do..thanks!

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Why is he still talking to me?


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 6:24 am

Ok...Me again..hah

In May I wrote this guy a letter pouring out every single feeling i have for him. We didn't talk for 2 weeks...and then talked again like nothing happened basically. And when I asked him what he thought about what I wrote, he say he was confused and I ask about what, nd he just say confused. (Hes never say anything about liking me, not liking me, or us just being friends ><)

And if you have read my other questions, we are really close...more close than we use to be ><;;

But i'm going to college out of state and i'm leaving in 2 weeks ><;;

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Jealous boyfriend


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 2:14 am

I've been dating this guy for about 3-4 months, and I'm absolutely head-over-heels for him. But one thing has got in between us, he's been jealous of my one friend, Alex.

Alex and I have known each other for a few years, but have just started talking recently. At first, he was very flirty and would say things like "You deserve better than what you get" when I'd have fights with my boyfriend, or if I was having a bad day. And.. I told my boyfriend about it and what not, and of course he got upset. Don't get me wrong, I understand that.

So, I told Alex to back off and that I was sick of his flirting, and he hasn't done it since. He even messaged my boyfriend and told him that he hopes we stay together...

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Lieing,club & college


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 12:34 am

18/f(me) 20/m (bf)

So I have a boyfriend who I have been with for about 2 years & 4 months. We don't go out much, but we see each other often. I know this is bad but I tend to lie about where I'm going to my bf and hear me out. My boyfriend doesn't have many friends and he doesn't go out much. He doesn't like me hanging out with guys and always complains if he goes along with me when I hang out with my friends. So I don't say theres guys there and I saw I'm at a girlfriends house. I feel bad but if I told the truth he'd flip. Also, he won't let me go to the club and I understand where hes coming from, but I offer him coming with me because if I were to go to the club it's not to get guys to hit on me and what not. I can't...

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Guys this is for you..help me!!


Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 10:41 pm

Do guys like it when girls play hard yo get or a chick thats shy or a chick that is straight up with her feelings for you??

im so damn confussed... cause i like guys and im always looking for someone to be with...most of them have been jerks...
im asking this question cause theres this guy i really like and i dont know what to do any more...

PLEASE HELP!!!

im so confused..............

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relationship issues


Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 9:39 pm

hi there! sorry this is a bit long..
me and my boyfriend have been together for 8 months. recently we frequently have arguments. i love him so much, so it makes me sad that whenever we see each other we end up arguing about stuff. we both work and dont get to see each other everyday. my boyfriend has been especially busy with work. i really would love to see him every other day at least.. but when i call him at work he would sound annoyed like im just disturbing him. whenever we go out and have dinner.. he just seems more focused on the time.. kinda wants to leave early to have enough sleep for work the next day. he goes by a plan and a schedule and wants everything done "the right way" as planned. sometimes i feel like goi...

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i'm too shy to talk to him


Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 9:39 pm

Age:13
Gender:Female


So i like this guy and yes we do talk online sometimes. but at school we never talk coz i think were both too shy. he`s one year younger than me but were both in the same grade. My friend (who is friends with him) told me that he only goes out with girls because theyre "HOT". [and i also think that too sometimes]i really like him and all but i dont want to be with him. It seems like i dont know what that means but i also fantasize of being with him. I wonder if he asks me out, .. should i say yes or no? I think about him everyday and night. But im not obsessed. i Hope this doesnt sound confusing and i hope you can help. please&thank you. [:

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Posted Thursday August 6 2009, 9:38 pm

I like 4 guys..A LOT! One guy is really athletic, good looking, nice, and we have soo much in common. Also, his sibling said he had a crush on me. The other guy is nice, not that good looking, but funny and fun to b around. The third guy I havent seen for a long time but he's funny, athletic, hot, and we share the same hobbies. The fourth guy lives in a totally different place and sometimes he writes letters to me. He said that I'm pretty, he's really hot, atheltic, kind, nice, and sweet. I like them all...WHICH ONE SHOULD I CHOOSE?! or should I just let them all go and pick someone else?

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