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I like 4 guys..A LOT! One guy is really athletic, good looking, nice, and we have soo much in common. Also, his sibling said he had a crush on me. The other guy is nice, not that good looking, but funny and fun to b around. The third guy I havent seen for a long time but he's funny, athletic, hot, and we share the same hobbies. The fourth guy lives in a totally different place and sometimes he writes letters to me. He said that I'm pretty, he's really hot, atheltic, kind, nice, and sweet. I like them all...WHICH ONE SHOULD I CHOOSE?! or should I just let them all go and pick someone else?
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Matt's answer is probably the best advice I've ever seen.
However...
3. If you haven't seen him in a long time, it's probably best if you don't go after him.
4. Long distance relationships are tough to keep up, unless you're willing to put in a lot of work.
I guess it comes down to 1 and 2. You have to decide who you see yourself with in a relationship. Don't base it off of looks.
--Jack
(17/m)
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Rule of thumb is typically if there are three guys or more to choose from, you go directly into a lesbian relationship. Do not pass Go.
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Out of the four short descriptions, it sounds like the first guy would be best. You like how he looks and you have a lot in common. Plus, there's a big possibility that he likes you too. The second guy seems like a good choice, except for the fact that you don't find him attractive. Usually, if you have a crush on someone, you find them attractive, even if they're not attractive by society's standards.
The third and fourth guy aren't good options. The third guy probably lives away from you too, considering the fact that you haven't seen him in a long time. And the fourth guy would definitely be a long distance relationship, which is hard work, especially as a young teenager (which I'm guessing you are).
Bottomline is, you need to do what you see best fit. From what you said, the first guy sounds the best, but if I knew them, my opinion might be completely different. Just step back and think about the pros and cons of each guy. Think of which one you would really rather have a relationship with. Which ones you think of as a fling and which one you think would last longer.
If you can't narrow it down to one guy, none of these guys are probably right for you.
Darby(:
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it sounds like number four wouldn't work, only because he lives far away, long distance relationships are hard to keep going.
guy number two, i wouldn't pick him you should like the way your boyfriends looks.
the third guy, you said you haven't seen him in a long time.. that would be a turn off for me, i like to see my guy all the time.
so if i were you i would pick number one!
THESE ARE MY OPINIONS THOUGH, DO WHATEVER YOU WANT JUST FOLLOW YOUR HEART =]
goodluck!
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