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i think my boyfriends mom doesnt like me


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 4:38 pm

my boyfriend and i the first 5 or so months was very patchy it was very dramatic and we even brokeup once for less then a month. well his mom like loved me always asking me to go over for dinner and go watch a movie and all that. well my boyfriend started coming over to my house and being with me everyday and he doesnt go home til late like 1 or 2 am. well he doesnt even live with his mom but he will see her at least once or a day or something or at least every two days. well jus recently i guess he hasnt really been going to see her even tho i tell him to do it. he jus goes to my house then bak to his house. and now shes like telling me how im keeping him from her basically. and it makes me feel really bad. cuz i tell him to go see her and...

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Guy moving here.


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 3:11 pm

Well,I've never been the one to "talk" to someone i've never met before but I guess you could say im giving it a shot.
This guy is 19 and lives in Georgia but is moving here in my town ,right near me...tomorrow!
I've met his grandma,whom he is going to live with for the time being.We have been talking online and in texts etc and he's pretty nice and cute from what his pictures show.He seems equally as interested ,we both have been talking daily for a couple weeks and now he said we should meet.I really do want to meet him !I don't know if its a good idea or not..The only reason I even began talking to him to begin with was because I met his grandma and she was telling me about him.I don't know her personally ,ive just met her once randomly.
What should I do?

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I will be going to college next year...


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 2:38 pm

and i love with my boyfriend who i love very very much and he loves me very very much. we have even talked about getting married though we wont for aq few years lol but still. i am 18 and he is 19 and we both go to a community college. i am in my second year-he is in his first. i am going for my AA and he is going for a technical engineering certificate thing. his grandma works at intercil and he may be able to get a job there in the future--in fact he is set on that idea. i guess he is ignorant but he says his education does not need to go any further because his certificate is all he needs for his job. he doesnt think he needs an AA yest talks about getting a masters or bachelors. he loves school but doesnt have money to pay for it so he ...

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Thankyou letter: update


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 2:37 pm

Hey im that guy whio asked the question on how to get the girl at work's number, then i posted another question the day after saying how i had gotten her number and asking somthing else.
i then sent out thank you letters to the people who answer'd saying how we went to a club the day after and we woke up on my sofa which my mum found us both asleep on the sofa, well this is an update

She's leaving for uni and she wanted to spare me the pain and frustration of a long distance relationship and has decided to split up with me. Ill be honest i saw it coming a few days ago... but i didnt think it would hurt this much while wanting her so badly. i havent stopped crying for the last 4 hours.

we both still love...

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I think I like her


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 2:35 pm

Ok, I'm 17, and there's this girl in one of my classes, and I think I like her, I mean, I think about her a lot, and I'm always in a better mood after I see her, she seems to brighten up my day, and I had a dream that we worked together and then we kissed... I'm not sure that if likes me or not, but should I tell her that I may have some feelings for her..?

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She's leaving for university


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 2:32 pm

Hey im that guy whio asked the question on how to get the girl at work's number, then i posted another question the day after saying how i had gotten her number and asking somthing else.
i then sent out thank you letters to the people who answer'd saying how we went to a club the day after and we woke up on my sofa which my mum found us both asleep on... well if you one of those people this is an update and another question to all.

in short, She's leaving for uni and she wanted to spare me the pain and frustration of a long distance relationship and has decided to split up with me. Ill be honest i saw it coming a few days ago... but i didnt think it would hurt this much while wanting her so badly. i havent stopped cryi...

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stupid heart...


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 10:48 am

so i like this guy, but he likes this girl and shes preppy but really ugly. what i mean by preppy is that she is a label whore. how do i make this guy realize we are perfect for each other?

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Bf trouble, that's unusual?


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 2:11 am

Well, ok lets start off by saying I'm 16 female, and my bf is 18. We've been going out for abt 8 months basically...we've broken up three times. U.U Those three times due to my older sister, she's 24 and pure evil! >:T Well my bf and I have done the nasty (lol) ummm...shush I know I'm young and it's considered rape, but we love each other and blah blah, I'm not the only person who's done it I'm sure. So lay off the age thing yes? Well the first time we did it we protected our selves of course, but it broke...>//> So then we were worried the stress probably caused me to be late and he chatted it over with a friend on myspace, since we were both bugging about the chance of me being pregnant. (I wasnt just an f.y.i) Well both of my ol...

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A little different kind of friend trouble


Posted Sunday September 20 2009, 1:51 am

16/m
Well there is this girl who is my best friend, and she has this boyfriend who she's not so crazy about. Anyway, I hate the fact that she's dating this guy, and I think I would feel the same way about any guy who she dated. I want to se her happy even if that means her dating some guy, but it absolutely tears me appart seeing her enjoy being with a guy that isn't me. I just have no idea how to handle any of this, and just avoiding the situation and not having her in my life would be horrible because she is so nice and fun to be with. Any ideas??

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hot boy help!


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 10:39 pm

15/f
i like this boy who is a swimmer and he is a year older than me and he is really hot but the problem is, we have never once talked before. i'm pretty sure he doesn't even know who i am. i asked him to be my friend on facebook randomly, he goes to my school. he is not very social, and he has a twin brother who i hear is his best friend. sometimes i see him at lunch, he sits a table away from me with an asain boy (also a swimmer), and they barley talk. he is really shy. its really weird, we look at eachother sometimes and make eye contact, but thats all. we've never said hi. the people i sit with at lunch dont know i like him. i really want to say hi and talk to him or something but i dont know if he'll think im weird or something...

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What can we do together?


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 5:30 pm

My boyfriend and I will be dating for 9 months tomorrow. What are some fun things that we can do together that arent too expensive? We always do the same things like.. go to the movies, out to eat, fishing, bowling, minigolf. We're ready to change it up a litte bit. We want to get out of the house and have a good time together.

Any ideas is greatly appreciated, please & thanks!

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unsure whether he likes me or not- what should i do???


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 3:00 pm

basically i joined a sixth form college a couple of weeks ago and for the first few days this guy would look and smile at me all the time, would always make an effort to speak with me and seemed geniunely interested in what i had to say, would jokingly tease me all the time and would constantly try and impress me, plus all his friends would always tease him when i was around. then afterwards he just seemed to pay less attention to me, and he suddenly became really shy whenver i tried to speak to him- he's started hanging out in the same group of people as me but i now have to make more of an effort to sepak to him as he is always with other people.
i really like this guy, but now im really unsure as to how he feels about me right now, how should i deal with this???

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Am I taking this too fast? or the wrong way?


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 10:43 am

This summer I spent a month with my brothers friend on vacation, he came along with my family. I had already liked this boy for quite some time and naturally being with him for so long caused me to want him even more. Well the last week of the vacation we hooked up, I mean we got up to third base and all and I usually dont see myself as that kind of person doing the whole hook up thing I just feel kind of dirty I guess. Well about a week after we got back he asked me out and told me that he couldnt stop thinking about me and I was the happiest girl in the world. Now we've been going out for a month and a half and I've been super happy but he keeps pressuring me to...go back to third base and I know we've had the physical aspect of a relatio...

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i dont know what happened


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 3:56 am

The other day i was talking with friends and then my boyfriend came over and we walked over to the side of the building were no one was and then all off a sudden i froze and started crying :(. I dont know why. My friends say it might have been from all of the emotion over the last few days, but i dont know. Its like when im around him i mentaly crash but when im near my friends i can hold it in i dont know why.. it was awkward between us for the rest of the day because i walked off on him when i started to cry.. he thought it was because of him but i explained it wasnt and that i had no idea why i was crying.... (i walked off coz im self consious and i hate getting embarassed)i hate crying in front of people.... Can anyone help???

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arrhh kiss ??


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 3:33 am

I like this guy at school, and he likes me, he asked me out at the start of the year like 2nd day of school and i said no because im not the most confident person around guys. I gues is how i would put it. He told me a couple of weeks ago he still has feelings for me and that he loves me. Then he asked me what i thought of him i told him i do like him to and yeh from then on we got closer. He is now my boyfriend. Im a shy kind of person and im happy to admit that but it gets the better of me. The other day after we said goodbye and hugged, he kissed me, i froze, and kind of stepped back. I didnt expect him to kiss me. the next night he asked me whether i think of him differently because of what happened but i dont. i love him just as much. ...

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is he being short with me?


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 2:08 am

19 female. i like and HAVE liked this guy joe who is 18, for awhile now. we're pretty good friends too, so you wouldnt think it would be hard for me to ask him to hang out right? WRONG.

i'm always so nervous of getting rejected, who isnt? so i never ask him to hangout, i rarely text him first, it's how i am. lately i've been getting better. my friend gave me 4 free tickets to a major league baseball game sunday, so of course i think about asking joe to come. this was our conversation:

me: hey my friend is giving me four tickets for the baseball game friday. i'm going to find two other people to come, but do you want to come?
him: i have a football game.
me: on a sunday? werid. just thought id ask....

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too far


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 1:25 am

a guy asked me if i wanted to try smoking with him and i said sure because i like him a lot. and so we were walking to his brother's apartement and he started making out with me really randomly,,he was going a little too far and i told him to stop. he got really mad and started yelling and then he walked away. wht am i supposed to do, i dont want to ruin our friendship!!!

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butter boobs lol


Posted Saturday September 19 2009, 1:15 am

is it true that when you put butter on your boobs, they grow bigger???????/???//??//?

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everyday's a fight with my boyfriend


Posted Friday September 18 2009, 11:33 pm

Every day's an argument with my boyfriend, and it's only on ONE topic: my really good friend who happens to be a guy as well. I think that makes him uncomfortable. We've talked about it before, this has been going on for weeks. I've tried to make him understand he's strictly my friend and nothing else, and that's it.

Example: I went out with my guy friend & a few other girl friends, and we saw a movie my boyfriend wanted to see with me. He spazzed the fuck out saying that I went against my word when I didnt promise anything. Everyday's a fight over my friend. I can't do it anymore but I'm not gonna drop my friend over this since they didn't do anything to me or him.

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guy opinion.. dont talk and he will want me more?


Posted Friday September 18 2009, 6:29 pm

16f I have been talkn to this guy for a while now like over 6 months on and off. He did something messed up to me that we stopped talking. that was a while ago so weve been fine now and then he got mad at me and we stopped talking for like a few days and its been a week that were talking again but its like we never have a full conversation, he answers my texts really late, or doesnt at all. So i heard that to get a guy to want you more its good to act like you kind of dont care and dont be waiting by the phone or let him text you. So guys, does this work when a girl doesnt talk to you.. do you want her more and does it make you talk to her?

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