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i dont know what happened
The other day i was talking with friends and then my boyfriend came over and we walked over to the side of the building were no one was and then all off a sudden i froze and started crying :(. I dont know why. My friends say it might have been from all of the emotion over the last few days, but i dont know. Its like when im around him i mentaly crash but when im near my friends i can hold it in i dont know why.. it was awkward between us for the rest of the day because i walked off on him when i started to cry.. he thought it was because of him but i explained it wasnt and that i had no idea why i was crying.... (i walked off coz im self consious and i hate getting embarassed)i hate crying in front of people.... Can anyone help???
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what you need to do is sit down with him and just tlk to him if you can with out crie but i know how you feel i had to do this last year
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well there are alot of reasons it may have happen. such as are you scared to be around him. maybe you feel he could be cheating or you dont trust him. or you feel you are being dishonest with him. have you told him why you have been emotional the last few days trying talking to him about everything. let him know whats been bothering you.
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sounds to me your scared to be alone with him..is he your first boy friend?you may get nervous around him or scared. is there anything that happened to you in the past that may trigger this now? that may make you feel scared to be around guys alone?(just a theory). i think you need to let him in because hes going to over analyse the situation and as much as you say it was nothing hes still going to think he did soemthing wrong. let him in next time you cry dont walk away. the more you push him away the more he will want to stay away. just be honest with him.:)
PS SMILE!
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