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arrhh kiss ??
I like this guy at school, and he likes me, he asked me out at the start of the year like 2nd day of school and i said no because im not the most confident person around guys. I gues is how i would put it. He told me a couple of weeks ago he still has feelings for me and that he loves me. Then he asked me what i thought of him i told him i do like him to and yeh from then on we got closer. He is now my boyfriend. Im a shy kind of person and im happy to admit that but it gets the better of me. The other day after we said goodbye and hugged, he kissed me, i froze, and kind of stepped back. I didnt expect him to kiss me. the next night he asked me whether i think of him differently because of what happened but i dont. i love him just as much. But he asked me why i stepped back. i answered "i wasn't expecting it, i gues." he didnt mind. but since then we hug and stuff but we dont kiss. I Havent kissed any one ever before and it kinda freaks me out. He always askes me if we could kiss. I always say yes but i chicken out when it happens at the last minute. I dont know why. It gets really awkward. I want to kiss him but ive never kissed someone before and i just chicken out :( hellpppp...
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ok i think it is the point that you have not yet kissed someone before, besides when he kissed you. so you are nervous, nervous you wont be good? let him know that he would be the first guy for you to kiss so you always chicked out. it is perfectly fine to be shy. but to get over this. you have to suck it up sorry if that sounded bossy lol. just look your self in the mirror and say i am going to kiss "his name" next time i see him. walk up to him put your hand on his cheek tilt your head and kiss him. dont be scared he really likes you or else he wouldnt try so much. its a kiss its not like sex or anything like that.. now if you really feel you are not ready hold off.
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awww, everyone has a first kiss. just think, you're gonna have to get it over with sooner or later :] and it won't turn out badly, I promise. But I do HIGHLY suggest that you tell him you've never kissed anyone before, and that's why you shy away when he tries to kiss you. It will make it less awkward [believe it or not] and you'll actually feel less scared to kiss him when the time comes :]
you just gotta do it. close your eyes, and just kiss him. haha. you'll be fine! if you need anything else, or have any other questions, feel free to inbox me ! good luck, have fun, relaxx, and just go with the floww ;] hope i helped sweetie ! xxo.
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well maybe you should tell your boyfriend how you never kissed before..i know that when i first kissed i was so nervous because i dont want to kiss bad haha...but if your boyfriend is understanding, then he will get it. just take baby steps, maybe start a nice kiss on the cheek and move up from there. and when you are kissing him think about the time you were happiest together..that helps you get in the mood of just wanting to grab him and kiss him :) good luck
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I DID THE SAME THING!! the way i got over it is that when my bf tried to kiss me, i closed my eyes and just kinda charged my face at his lol. Or try to hold his hand first and when you guys get ready to kiss make sure you are holding his hand and then squeeze it really tight before you kiss him :] me and my boyfriends firts kiss happened this way n i kinda reccomend this also : we were just randomly saying "nyeh" and then we kept getting closer every time we did and then all of a sudden i kissed him and ran away XD try that :] hope i helped :] Good Luck!
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awww your totally cute!dont worry its natural to feel like that. have you told him that youve never kissed anyone before?i think you should tell him so that he knows its not him thats doing soemthing wrong. dont be embarassed k!theres a first for evrrything. next time he asks you to kiss me tell him not to ask you and to just do it then your job when hes does it is to not walk away or push him away and to just let it happen. you have to over come this shy thing!you be incharge not it!
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