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hot boy help!
15/f
i like this boy who is a swimmer and he is a year older than me and he is really hot but the problem is, we have never once talked before. i'm pretty sure he doesn't even know who i am. i asked him to be my friend on facebook randomly, he goes to my school. he is not very social, and he has a twin brother who i hear is his best friend. sometimes i see him at lunch, he sits a table away from me with an asain boy (also a swimmer), and they barley talk. he is really shy. its really weird, we look at eachother sometimes and make eye contact, but thats all. we've never said hi. the people i sit with at lunch dont know i like him. i really want to say hi and talk to him or something but i dont know if he'll think im weird or something or i don't know. will he? is that weird to do? since we totally dont know eachother? were not in any classes together. i also wanna talk to him on facebook chat or something but i don't know what to say. any ideas? i saw him going into art one time and i'm in art too so i could be like hey i saw you holding a sketchbook, do you like art? but i don't know if that's weird to like randomly say. help please!!! anything will help.
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Next time, smile at him, if it suits you to do so, and say hello.
See how he responds. If he blushes, he is probably just very shy. If he doesn't react and says nothing, it may be something more profound --something that has nothing to do with you. But that will be valuable information in its own right.
If it suits you to do so, ask him a question. Maybe something like, "Can I ask you something? Are you an artist? I ask because I've noticed you carry a sketchbook."
Do not feel "weird." There is nothing weird about being curious or interested. Or friendly for that matter.
If he snubs you, don't take it to heart. A negative response would be more a reflection of him than you. And it will tell you he's probably not the person you had hoped. But no matter his response, don't allow it to scare you away from other opportunities or relationships that may await you, but lack only a curious inquiry or a simple act of kindness to get the ball rolling.
There is no shame in reaching out to someone, even when it feels a little scary.
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well you should def. write on his wall saying "hey i see you around school, you swim right?"..and then see if he responds..if he doesnt then dont worry, just go up to him and just say hi..confidence is everything..even if your not you can totally act like you are..so just have a nice smile on your face and act fun..if he doesnt respond to that, then he is a jerk..but you seem like a nice girl, so im sure all will go well :)..good luck, haha i am 15 years old too..and i have my own share of problems with boys..hope i helped a little
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what i do when i want to meet someone is i actually jsut go up to them and say "Hi I'm _____!!" and usually they get freaked out but thats fine. you will see them more often and just say "hi". and then when you think of something like "hey did you go to that football game last week" or something like that go ask him!! little things such as that help generate convos and will get yall as friends. and thennn.....the rest is whatever you make it :] Hope i helped :]
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Hey there :)
okay firstly get the idea that starting a convirsation with someone is weird because its totally not! he wont find you weird,maybe he will be glad someone is taking an interest in him and being friendly?since you said he his shy,think of it this way whats the worst that can happen?he wont say hi back? (i doubt that hed have to be really ignorant to not,and if he his well then youl know not to bother in future)
Just relax and remember to be yourself,talk about anything you want with him,maybe get the convo going by using the art thing,or ask him about being on the swimteam,think of him as like any other friend of yours and talk to him about the stuff youd talk to those with get to know him establish a friendship I know it seems scary but think about it youve been making friends all your blife probably without even realising! your pro at it think of when you were really little and youd just talk to anyone like in kindergarden if you get me lol :)
Hope I helped and hope you get talking to him he seems really interesting and a bit mysterious lol, :) good luck,anymore questions please inbox me & let me know how things go.
Much <3
Jess 16/F
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