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I will be going to college next year...
and i love with my boyfriend who i love very very much and he loves me very very much. we have even talked about getting married though we wont for aq few years lol but still. i am 18 and he is 19 and we both go to a community college. i am in my second year-he is in his first. i am going for my AA and he is going for a technical engineering certificate thing. his grandma works at intercil and he may be able to get a job there in the future--in fact he is set on that idea. i guess he is ignorant but he says his education does not need to go any further because his certificate is all he needs for his job. he doesnt think he needs an AA yest talks about getting a masters or bachelors. he loves school but doesnt have money to pay for it so he gets things like the PELL grant and such to pay for it.
my parents expect me to go away to a college next year. i live in Florida and have a scholarship. i can go to FSU, Flagler, really anywhere. we live together and i cant picture leaving him. i dont really want to go away to college--i like where i live beachside and will miss my friends and family-i am only 18 years old. i asked him and he doesnt want to go away to college and i have been asking him if he would moce with me if i moved away. the only place he said "maybe" to was Flagler college in St. Augustine b/c the beach--he is an advid surfer. i am an advid beach goer myself. oh what should i do?
is there something i can say to him to furher his education or make it move convincing to move?
he is a bit stubborn so i really need help!
<33 thanks to all!
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Don't force him to further his education if he doesn't want to. If he realizes he needs it for the job he wants, he'll either come around, or decide on a different job ;]
If you want to live together, go for it. (I can't judge your situation, so if you and your family think it would be all right, then go for it! Just remember that being roommates will probably change your relationship at least a bit ;] ) Try to get an apartment with fairly decent access to the beach and the college of your choice (making you both happy).
Also, go to a college that YOU want, not your family. Respect their opinon by all means, but they should respect yours too! Don't base your decision on your relationship, either, because you never know what could happen (in other words, don't pass up an amazing opportunity just to save your boyfriend from an extra 30 minute drive to see you... get my drift?)
Best of luck to you.
-LM
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