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Thankyou letter: update
Hey im that guy whio asked the question on how to get the girl at work's number, then i posted another question the day after saying how i had gotten her number and asking somthing else.
i then sent out thank you letters to the people who answer'd saying how we went to a club the day after and we woke up on my sofa which my mum found us both asleep on the sofa, well this is an update
She's leaving for uni and she wanted to spare me the pain and frustration of a long distance relationship and has decided to split up with me. Ill be honest i saw it coming a few days ago... but i didnt think it would hurt this much while wanting her so badly. i havent stopped crying for the last 4 hours.
we both still love eachother very much and are going to stay in contact but just not be together. I think its a good idea but as much as i hate to admit its a good idea i hate to see her go too.
really im asking what do i do now? wait the 2 years out till she comes back from University? or do i just try to move on, we have such a connection i havent felt it this much with any other person ever and im not exaggerating.
Ps: thank you very very much for your help in previous question's. the last 3 weeks have been the happiest i have had in a long long time.
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awww your most welcome, your such a sweety!!
when i read this i laterally yelled out NOOOOOOOOOO!!! im really sad because your sad. i could just tell from the beginning you loved her.
you dont have many options. i mean did you think about moving with her to where shes going?i know you cant just drop everything and leave but its something you can consider.
long distant relationships are really hard and theres a very slim chance theyl work outbut then again distance is a test to see how far love can travel. really dont want to be telling you this because i know how much your hurting.
what if she settled down at uni and you joined her later on. i mean if you love her then shell be worth it. Talk to her about this there has to be another way!!
on the other hand your the only person that knows whats best. if you think its a good idea to break up and go your seperate ways while staying intouch to find out what the future has instore for you both then go with that. i mean right now things are a blurr but i think deep down you know what to do but to afraid to admit it because whatever option you choose its going to peirce your heart. just remember that time heals everything.
im really sorry about this and i wish i had some majical powers to make this go away but instead ill just promise you that ill always be here for you...you should add me on msn just incase
sia.d.sus@hotmail.com or if you have facebook let me know what it is and ill add you
PS smile for me k theres still a future to come and who knows what can happen
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Hey,
You don't necissarily have to "let her go" just because she is going to be a (few) miles away. Long distance relationships do work out! I personally wouldn't move on so soon, expecially since you have a connection with her. You could keep in contact by having conversations through email, you can send her cards,letters,and special things though snail mail, and you can call her anytime she is free :) Just because a person is not right in front of you, does not mean that you can't be with one another ;) Good luck! I'm sure things will work out <3
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Awww, you're very welcome, anytime :]
But look, if she decided that it's best you guys split up, and you respect that, then don't wait 2 years for her. Imagine 2 years of your life; lonely, wating for a girl who isn't waiting for you too.
I know you've never felt this way before, but you'll feel it again, and maybe even more intense with someone else. But you'll never know if you don't try. Maybe, after 2 years, you guys can be something.. if you both aren't involved with someone else, but until then, enjoy your lfe, try to move on and have FUN ! :] totally keep in touh with her though, but don't wait for her, thats 2 years of your life you'll never get back. so be friends with her for now, cherish the bond you have, but keep your options open and experience other people. yuh never know.. ;]
whatever happens, happens. and if it's meant to be, it will be.
good luck ! have fun, hope i helped, and if you need anything else, im always herr. xxo.
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