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Bf trouble, that's unusual?
Well, ok lets start off by saying I'm 16 female, and my bf is 18. We've been going out for abt 8 months basically...we've broken up three times. U.U Those three times due to my older sister, she's 24 and pure evil! >:T Well my bf and I have done the nasty (lol) ummm...shush I know I'm young and it's considered rape, but we love each other and blah blah, I'm not the only person who's done it I'm sure. So lay off the age thing yes? Well the first time we did it we protected our selves of course, but it broke...>//> So then we were worried the stress probably caused me to be late and he chatted it over with a friend on myspace, since we were both bugging about the chance of me being pregnant. (I wasnt just an f.y.i) Well both of my older sisters were stalking me or should I say us since they added him the minute they found we were together. T^T They were stalking his comments and both saw what had happened, my oldest sister (26) simply asked me if it was true I said yes, she told me I was stupid but she understood and just told me to be safe, then spoke to my bf about being serious and looking out for me. Of course I was ok with that. But now my other sister...(24) The second she found she threatened to tell my dad, my mother knows I told her myself, I tell my mom everything since I know I can count on her and we have a fairly good relationship! She didn't tell my dad since, he'd leave the second he found out...SUPPOSEDLY...U___U So my sister comes out with the insults about me being stupid and that he raped me and took advantage (which he didn't since I had my part in it too, at my own will) and that she was going to tell my dad and she was stuck on telling him until my mom had a firm talk with her on why it was important for her not to say a word to him. Our dad is an a-hole type of man, so yeah. My sister (24) is bipolar, so I guess thats why she acts so rash and angerly toward situations, well we ended up breaking up since she threatened to hurt him if she ever saw him. But I couldn't stand it I loved him and he loved me we missed each other dearly. We ended up getting back but then shortly broke up since problems where still accuring. >.< My sisters never found out up that time when we got back together then broke up again, my mom did and my dad of course he didn't know the reason why but eh. So I dated this other guy for about two weeks, a very close friend actually he was begging me to give him a chance, he very very cute better looking then my actual bf but, I was/am in love with my bf so thigs didnt work out. He knows about the whole deal and is happy the other guy and I ended, I couldn't stay away from him, we eneded up back together, which we are now, my sister (26) knows she doesn't care much I think. But when my other one found out, well she barely fount out like 2 days ago and she called my mom threatning to call my father once again. T____T My mom again...had to convince her to stop, well days have gone by and no one has spoken to her. What can I do? I want to talk to her but I'm scared she won't listen and run off and tell my dad. :/ It's annoying, we have family get togethers and I can't invite my bf just because of my sister (24). >:Y I'm getting sick of it and so is he, any help, ideas? Greatly appriciated! "Don't mind my type-o's I'm to lazy to do corrections. :P"
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From reading this, I can tell you're not too stupid like most little girls; You have a sense of maturity like 20 yr olds. It's really none of your sister's business and I think you should just let her tell your dad. If she's going to be that SUCKY of a sister, then forget it because she will be holding this over your head forever. And once she hears you say, "whatever, just tell dad." She's going to be shocked because you hit her with the unexpected. Whether she really does tell him or not is the thing that probably bothers you. You should have a talk with you dad about the issue. Just use hypothetical questions without making it obvious. Unless you want to lose your relationship again over something so stupid, then you might as well bring it to light. I mean, he had no problem saying it for everyone to see on myspace, he should take credibility for his actions. I hope I helped at least a little...Good luck.
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It's all understandable, just do what your heart feels and do what you feel. It's a hard decision to make because you don't want to hurt your friend but your still in love and have feelings for your ex. Well I have an older sister too so I definetly understand what you have to deal with just tell her that it's not of her buisiness and maybe you should tell your dad the truth now so he won't here it by someone else other than you. It may hurt him and upset him but it's better to tell him.
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