my boyfriend and i the first 5 or so months was very patchy it was very dramatic and we even brokeup once for less then a month. well his mom like loved me always asking me to go over for dinner and go watch a movie and all that. well my boyfriend started coming over to my house and being with me everyday and he doesnt go home til late like 1 or 2 am. well he doesnt even live with his mom but he will see her at least once or a day or something or at least every two days. well jus recently i guess he hasnt really been going to see her even tho i tell him to do it. he jus goes to my house then bak to his house. and now shes like telling me how im keeping him from her basically. and it makes me feel really bad. cuz i tell him to go see her and he says no. and by the way im 17 and so is he. male and female. what woudl you guys do if you already appologized to her and told her your part and everything. im going to talk to my boyfriend later today when i go talk to him. thankyou in advance
What can you do?
Don't stand down when you tell him to go see his mother. You say he's always at your house? You're 17, and about to become a "grown up" and sometimes we "grown ups" have to suck it up and tell our boyfriends to go the fuck home. Yah, that will probably piss him off, but he needs to start becoming a "grown up" too.
It may actually get him off his ass about going to see his mother...
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