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everyday's a fight with my boyfriend
Every day's an argument with my boyfriend, and it's only on ONE topic: my really good friend who happens to be a guy as well. I think that makes him uncomfortable. We've talked about it before, this has been going on for weeks. I've tried to make him understand he's strictly my friend and nothing else, and that's it.
Example: I went out with my guy friend & a few other girl friends, and we saw a movie my boyfriend wanted to see with me. He spazzed the fuck out saying that I went against my word when I didnt promise anything. Everyday's a fight over my friend. I can't do it anymore but I'm not gonna drop my friend over this since they didn't do anything to me or him.
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well he's jealous. this means he really really cares for you but he doesnt know how to express it. what you need to do is talk to him NOT ARGUE but talk. say "look,____ is my friend. i would NEVER think of him that way..i love you too much to ever do that to you" that would be really good to say. it'll help things work out. arguing doesn't do jack. you may not realize this but going along with the argument is making him think that you DO like ur friend. just calm it down and TALK it out. Hope I helped :]
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If your boyfriend is really that mad over your friend, then he's gotta go. There is no reason for him to be so jealous & out of control. Fighting is healthy for any relationship, but when you're fighting over day about something that's already been established & made clear, it's unhealthy & bad for the relationship.
You give your boyfriend an ultimatum. Either he accepts that your friend is just that; your friend, or he can stop being your boyfriend. There's no relationship if there's no trust. Obviously your relationship doesn't have any when it comes to him.
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tell your boyfriend that the way he is acting is really hurting your relationship. if he cares, he'll try to see this situation from a different angle. he doesn't have a reason not to trust you. but maybe you should have invited him to that movie too lol.
hope things works out!
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If you were to drop anyone in this situation, it should be your boyfriend. tell him you can't have a relationship where someone doesnt trust you or gets jealous over a best friend. either he changes his ways or dump him. why be together if its going to be a constant fight. thats not love.
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