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15 and still haven't developed ANY boobs?
and i'm not exaggerating, there's nothing there- i have hips, started my period, etc. and my chest is completely flat as of a 10-year-olds. im 110 lbs, almost 5'6, and i'm really starting to wonder if i will ever get them. is it possible i'll just stay flat-chested the rest of my life and have the chest of a man? as you can imagine i'm really starting to hate and feel completely self-conscious about my body, even though i wear padded bras, etc. i can't do that my entire life and i'm starting to be really really concerned because i've been waiting for them to grow for about 6 years now (some of my friends started developing as early as age 9.) now every single girl my age has them and as much as people tell me i'm "just a late bloomer" and i "still have time" well guess what? i have a woman's body (hips and all), but absolutely no chest what-so-ever. every. single. girl. i. have. ever. seen. or. met. has. boobs. my. age. not only that, but all other signs of puberty are there. so how can i accept myself like this or continue to wait it out? my mom started developing when she was in junior high, and i'm in TENTH, yes tenth grade. i can't even go swimming because guys and girls will plainly see my non-existant chest and it will be it's completely repulsive. please help if you have any advice at all i would really appreciate it :(
thank you
p.s.: (sorry if this is really long), and please don't give me answers if you're gunna say something like "you're only 15 stop being so god damn impatient", it's easy to say coming from someone who's not in my position, believe me. when you're surrounded by people who all have something you don't and are supposed to have, it's a bit destructive on your self esteem.
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well if your completely flat chested like a dude then id be worrying too because its getting kind of late. you know what I have heard works.. Beautifull, its a pill that helps grow your boobs to their fullest potential. your boobs can stop growing or not grow due to various reasons like stress or something that causes it to slow down the process. look up these pills called Beautifull they have a website and they arent dangerous or stuff like that. See what your mom thinks or you can even buy it yourself by sending the money in the mail and will come in a discreet package. Its said in about 3 months you'll definitely notice a difference and they could get up to 1 to 3 cup sizes bigger. good luck and if you need any more info ask away.
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If it helps Im a month away from being 17 and i barely have anything either. haha its natural and its okay. 15 is really young, on average a lot of girls "bloom" in high school, or college possibly. Dont stress about it, any guy you get will like you for who you are (thats how I think about it!) Buy yourself a good push up bra for now :-)
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well yeah i get it, it does ruin your self esteem. but you still have time, i mean you got until your 18. everyone is different in their unique way. maybe your boobs wont grow, but hey you got your other parts of your body like your hips and your butt...boobs arent everything. but im sure you will get something :)
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Well, I Can't Really Relate Cuz I Started That Shit When I Was 9. But My Sis Did!! She Didnt Get All That Shit Till She Was 16. Oh And Believe This, You Might Be Flat Chested Now but In A Few Months You Could Just Start Growin At once. And Plus. You Are never Just Gunna Have NO Boobs. SOMETHINg Will COme. No Doubt. Dont Worry You WILL Get Them. My Friend Was The Same Way!! It Was Funy As Hell To See Her Complain But The Next Year She Was Bigger Than Me XD
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Continue to wait it out. Just because your mom got her boobs in junior high doesn't mean it's the same deal for you. You're 15. Your body hasn't stopped growing yet. You'll get your boobs. You just need to be patient.
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omg you poor thing!!!trust me i went through the same thing.i got my period when i was 16 and extra large bras. it was soo frustrating and i know exactly where your coming from. everyones body is different and grows in different ways. by the sounds of things your going to grow up to have a smaller top and a bigger bottom just like a coke bottle shape. It alot more sexier than having big boobs and small bum. guys love the coke bottle shape!you will grow boobs oventually but they may not be bigger than your other friends. When you turn sixteen you can talk to your mum and doctor about going on the pill which in some cases can make you grow boobs.
for now learn to love your body. who cares if you dont have boobs youv still got a great figure and you have curves!!!alot of girls dont have that so your very lucky. i mean if youv got no boobs now you may aswell learn to live with it and learn to love it and just remember you will get boobs oventually. you cant change your body it changes you.
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