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a guy asked me if i wanted to try smoking with him and i said sure because i like him a lot. and so we were walking to his brother's apartement and he started making out with me really randomly,,he was going a little too far and i told him to stop. he got really mad and started yelling and then he walked away. wht am i supposed to do, i dont want to ruin our friendship!!!
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He ruined your "friendship" already for encourging you to do something that you really didn't want to by smoking, and then by trying to take advantage of you.
He should apologize, and you should keep your distance.
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hun if he was yelling at your and stuff just because you told him no he is not a friend and you don't need to be treated that way. he just wants to have sex with you. you may not feel like that is what he is going after but it doesnt always look that way at first. I know you really like this boy but he doesnt care about you enough to respect your decision it is not worth the pain and suffering you will go through when he hurts you. im sorry and good luck.
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okay if he did all that shit he's either not your friend or he had a major hormonal problem XD. what you need to do it try to talk to him. if he gets smart with you or doesnt wanna talk to you them leave him alone. you are better than that
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You didn't ruin your friendship.
He did.
In fact, there probably was NO friendship in his mind, you were just a peice of ass.
Be grateful that this jackass showed you his true colours so early on. Now, you can see him for percisely what he is: A horn-dog with no respect for you, an anger management problem, and no affection for you either.
He ended the friendship when he walked away from you when you wouldn't submit your body to his will.
Be strong, and never speak to him agian. Such people should be completely beneath the notice of an intelligent, confident young woman.
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
Good job saying NO to your friend.
You should not be friends with someone who will only be friends with you if you do something for them or give them something. That would include anything from doing their homework for them to being a sexual playmate. You were right to say no and he was wrong to get mad. If all he is interested in is what he can get from you sexually or any other way then there is no real friendship with him.
You have the right to set your sexual boundaries, if you like you can tell your boyfriend(s) just what those boundaries are. If all they are interested in is satisfying their own over active hormones (which is normal for teenage male) they will seek out easier pray. For those that stick around do not let them force you beyond them.
I am not going to say one must wait until they are married to have sex; the majority of us parents did not and it would be hypocritical to tell you to wait. What I am telling you is to wait until you are old enough and mature enough to accept and appreciate that while sex serves as a recreational activity it is also one that is shared best in a loving relationship. This is where maturity comes in.
Given your age, your question and the way you handled your boyfriend shows a great deal of maturity. Continue to use the maturity you have shown here and you will know when the time is right to take the next step. With the maturity I see her I also see a bright future for you.
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The friendship is already ruined because he ruined it. He took things too far, and then when you denied him, he acted like a little bitch about it.
You shouldn't be friends with someone like that. End the friendship. Good job saying no. Some girls don't know how.
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he got angry because you didnt want to go further with him??firstly id like to say...goood on you for standing your ground and not feeling like you had to go further just to impress him!
if hes going to force you to do soemthing your not comfortable with then hes not really being a true friend hes kinda using you. tell him how you feel and let him know that your not ready to go further. if he likes you and not using you then he will respect that if he gets angry then dont feel guilty id advice you to keep your distance because its obvious what his motives are
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