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Girlfriend in Egypt.
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 10:09 pm
This question is mainly for the guys:
I'm female/16 and I really like this guy. He's from Egypt, but he's lived in the states now for over 5 years. He's 18, and we both go to the same school. I can tell he's starting to like me as more than a friend, but there's a problem. He has a girlfriend in Egypt that he got when he went back last summer to visit family.
Would it be completely ridiculous to believe he'd dump her if he started liking me, or knew I liked him? I mean, I know she's of his culture and he must like her, but now he's countries away, and he's not moving back to Egypt. Ever. He just visits. I'm here. And I don't want to give up on him because we're so great together. I know he likes me...
Any advice?
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Confused and obsessed
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 6:51 pm
I cant help myself over liking my friend. Ive tried ignoring him but i always look @ him n try to talk to him i just love being near him. I thought about dropping him n telling him off for that joke he did to me but hes the type of guy who would look u in the face n laugh if u tried to talk crap to him. Hes one of those funny guys who probably wouldnt even be able to shut his mouth to save his life N the worst thing is i have in my gym class tomorrow y is it so hard to face him or get over him?! im so confused???
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what did i get myself into?!!!
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 6:31 pm
17/F.
Okay so i jus started datin this guy from another school cause he asked me out n i like hiim so i said yes...well that was only a week ago but i dont like datin. at all. i like to be able to do what i want when i want to n talk to whoever i want. i like the "im not datin you but basically am" kinda thing bc it doesnt restrict. dont get me wrong i like my bf a lot but i dont know!! we talked for bout a month before we started datin n i saw some odd things he did but didnt think he was a weird kid. Well now im thinkin he might be on the weird side. ahh! i dont know some things he does is jus straight weird n immature n im thinkin really? the times i really like him is when its jus me n him wi no one else round cuz he d...
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romantic after-homecoming ideas. on sep. 26th! please help
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 6:04 pm
hi well i'm 17 and my boyfriend is 16, and we're going to homecoming this saturday. it's my senior year and last homecoming, so keep in mind i'd like it to be really special :) he lives right down the road from the school, and theres a little park not 200 ft from his house, with some really pretty spots such as a manicured field and a nice wooden bridge over a stream. i want to take some hc pictures there. leading up to my question...after homecoming, i want to do something really romantic, such as laying in the grass in our formal-wear (haha) looking at the stars, or something. (he's like me, so i know he'd enjoy something like this) does anyone have any ideas as to what else we could do? preferably outside - parents inside ruin the mood l...
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My heart is torn and conflicted ... literally
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 4:24 pm
I fell in love with my ex-boyfriend but I didn't realize these strong feelings until after we broke up. I told him of these feelings and he said to give it time and they would go away when I found someone else.
We continue to be friends and speak on occasion. I haven't seen him for 8 months, during this time he found another girlfriend two weeks after breaking up with me.
I have entered into a new relationship myself, but still after 8 months my ex is all I can think about and I am still hopelessly, utterly and completely in love with him and I don't know what to do about it. I do like my current boyfriend a lot but my heart is with my ex.
I have told him again of these feelings that won't go away. My head knows that...
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What does this mean for us? Thanks an advance.
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 2:23 pm
15 Female, He's 18. USA
We've been best friends for a few years. I've had crush on him about 2 months now and well yesterday while we were hanging out I started to get so irritable with him (dont even know why). I blurted out "I have a crush on you..." he just seemed so proud of himself then he said "I'll have to think about that for awhile." then he had to leave... What does that mean?!
-Gabriella
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Should I dump him?
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 8:33 am
15/f
Well,me and my bf have been together since last month.But then he had to go back to London,where he lives,because of school.I live very far away from him,but he insisted on trying the long-distance relationship thing and we both agreed.He's 16 btw.He started college recently and I think it could be a problem (if he meets another girl,he won't have the heart to break up with me,he's like that) which will basically result in him cheating on me,and I really don't want that.Also,he's seems uninterested in me now.When we chat on Facebook,he would suddenly log out and not come back online,or finish the conversation without telling me he loves me.To be precise,I don't trust him.I'm really getting fed up.I love him,but I feel this just ...
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I shouldn't be tempted but I am..
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 2:26 am
19/f
I've been with my bf for almost a year now, and he's incredible: kind, funny, sweet, smart, ect. We have a healthy sex life and it feels like I'm in love with my best friend. Our relationship isnt lacking in the least.
Recently, though, my ex asked me to be back on speaking terms with him. He's known as a man-whore, and the whole reason we broke up in the first place was because he's a known cheater. We've begun talking and I feel really weird about it.
I have no romantic attraction to my ex at all, but there's something that's compelling me to get physical with him (which he's trying to do). I've been able to deny him for a few weeks but I'm really afraid my resolve is getting thin.
I do NOT want to cheat o...
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engagement?
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 12:19 am
Is it normal for an 18 year old guy to be thinking about marriage and kids? My boyfriend and I have been dating for 8 months and at the begining of the relationship he knew he wanted to get married and maybe have some kids but he never put much thought into it and now suddenly this week he's been asking how I would want to be proposed to in the future and kids and what our house would look like. I didn't know teenage guys thought about this. I know we wouldn't get married for years but I love knowing how committed he is. Any other guys like this?
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what are we?
Posted Thursday September 24 2009, 12:11 am
I'm very frustrated right now. This guy and I have this thing between us. I can't really define it because it because no sense to me. So we have these moments that are so sweet. He can tell me what he's thinking and what's going on in his head. But when I have a bad day and he asks me I just shut him out. Were not together but i guess we are close. I like him, idk maybe love him. Ok i love the kid so mcuh. But than their our days like this when we fight all the time. He teases me so much and so different than any other girl. To other girls he just sweet and charming. To me his two different ppl. I'm so confused and I've decided to tell him how I feel. So i just need to know a clue or hint or whatever. I just want to know what he thinks about me and why acts so bipolar with me.
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Getting over your ex while falling head over heels for your crush
Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 11:02 pm
Im a 14 year old girl who still loves her ex-boyfriend but is majorly crushing on a guy that might or might not like her. Id go with my ex but he died in a car accident a few months ago i miss him alot but i really like my friend who probably doesnt like me my hearts broken either way but i dont know what to do
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Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 8:34 pm
hello!
um ok i used to have this huge crush on this guy but he had a gf and she hated me so much anyways that was 2 years ago (elementary grade 7 him and her grad8) now im in high school with them and evr since shes been giving me terrible looks and she even gives my sister terrible looks (who which ,there would be no way she would know her) and he actually had the nerve to smile at me and now she thinks there is something going on between us but i cant even look at him i can NOT stand them ( i have no feelings for him) and i dont look at him at all but i can see he IS looking at me ( sorry if confusing!!) well anything you do will help!!
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boy's perspective
Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 7:41 pm
so i am 16/f and have never had a boyfriend. i don't really talk to boys that much and im a little awkward. but boys have liked me before and people tell me often that im pretty. how do i gt boys to like me more?
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how do i talk to him?
Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 6:11 pm
17/f. i'm very shy, & so is this boy that i kind of like. (well, i really just think he is insanely gorgeous, and want to get to know him, but yeah.) he is an art aid, in my art class. i really want to talk to him, but i don't know how. haha. like, how can i flirt with him? how can i even start a conversation with the guy? i was thinking asking for help, & i go up to the art teacher when shes busy, & i hope she suggests that he can help me, but this girl i know always says oh i'll help her. -__- & i ask a billion fake questions, hoping she'll tell him to help me, but she doesn't. hahaha. i catch him looking at me sometimes, he seems like my type, & i mean, what can i do to get him to maybe come talk to me...?
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how too stop thinking about my ex when i have a bf?
Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 5:29 pm
Hey! 14/f
Well, ok i was dating this older guy ( Jimmy)well he's a freshmen and im a 8th grader so its not that bad, but well i thought we were in a good relation ship he treated me pretty good, well until he unexpectedly broke up with me because he THOUGHT i was cheating on him which i don't know where the hell he got that from! I was ONLY dating him, i fell hard for this guy when we first met and i thought we were meant 4 each other. Apparently not. :/ Soo i want to know H.O.W do i stop thinking about him? Just last night i started crying on the phone with my best friend because she played jimmy and i's song (well use to be song.. hanging by a moment by life house :/) She said i cant help being sad over it he broke up with...
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Three guys (or so)
Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 5:10 pm
well, i was dating this guy, josh and then we broke up nd then i dated this guy named Alex, who trun out to be a total douche and then i started dating this guy i kno from england bt i live in thuh usa bt im still dating him. He's moving here in 2010. and then there's this other guy whom i really like a lot, brett, he nd i had a fling quite sometime ago nd he told me he loves me about 20 mins. ago.. and i still really like him. bt there's a lil promblem, josh and i got back together bc i thought that there was no hope at all for Brett and i due to the fact that i thought that he didnt like me nd even when i tried to tell me , he still acted like he didnt like me :( and then i tried to move on. bt now there's this other guy Joe, he says that...
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Should I break up with him? Or try harder?
Posted Wednesday September 23 2009, 11:50 am
I have been dating my boyfriend for just on fourteen months now. He is perfect. When I say this I mean it. He treats me with more respect I could have ever thought possible there is never a moment he isn't complimenting me or telling me that he loves me. He does everything I ask of him and never ever complains. He never yells at me, has never ever called me a bad name, not even stupid or idiot - nothing. But having him has come at a price, he is so attached and so in love with me that we often spend most of our free time together, this has resulted in me losing the majority of my friends and even had friends present me with an ultimatum, them or him. I'm nearly 20 years old, so immaturity really shouldn't be an excuse for my friends. But I ...
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This guy
Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 11:52 pm
15/f
So I liked this guy since about May. We are good friends. It's just the fact that he is 17. So it's like a 2 year difference. So I didn't want to do anything about it.
Then about 2 weeks ago I found out my friend liked him. She is the same age as me. I was fine with it. I'm not the kind of girl to get jealous. Especially if he isn't mine. So she told him. She told me that he said he liked her but didn't want to do anything about it because he is a senior and he is graduating, plus he is on the football team. So he isn't allowed to have a girlfriend. Stupid new rule they made recently. If he gets caught with one then he gets kicked off the team.
I asked him about it. He said he didn't like h...
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My ex
Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 11:44 pm
15/f
I thought I was over my ex. I am. But I haven't seen him in forever since Sunday. We broke up like 7 months ago. So this big thing happened between us and we don't even talk anymore. There was this huge lie that went on. He thought I cheated on him the whole time we went out because my friends told him that because they were mad at him. It's a long story. But I started drooling over him when I saw him. But from what one of his friends told me he is still mad at me. I understand why he would be, but it was never true. To be honest I still care about him, but I don't like him. I'm just wondering what I can do to fix things. His friend wasn't sure if he was still mad but that he gives me these looks. His friend is going to ...
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PPO
Posted Tuesday September 22 2009, 9:49 pm
PLEASE READ! ITS LONG BUT I WILL RATE!
Im 18/f and my ex boyfriend is 19/m i put a restraining order on him last year because he was threatening me and it was just horrible. Then somebody told me something happened to him so i was stupid and made the biggest mistake of my life and decided to IM him on AIM. Things were okay for like 3 months and we were hiding the fact that we were talking. The past several months have been horrible. More threatening and saying if i dont do something he's going to the cops and telling them that I broke the restraining order and how im going to jail etc. I dont want to get into trouble. over the past few months i spent the night at his mothers house and everything was okay again and we still ha...
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