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hello!
um ok i used to have this huge crush on this guy but he had a gf and she hated me so much anyways that was 2 years ago (elementary grade 7 him and her grad8) now im in high school with them and evr since shes been giving me terrible looks and she even gives my sister terrible looks (who which ,there would be no way she would know her) and he actually had the nerve to smile at me and now she thinks there is something going on between us but i cant even look at him i can NOT stand them ( i have no feelings for him) and i dont look at him at all but i can see he IS looking at me ( sorry if confusing!!) well anything you do will help!!
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Girls are bitches. So she has a problem with you. Who actually cares?
She won't do anything, otherwise she would of confronted you. Be happy that your the one with your head on your shoulders, and she's the posessive and controlling one.
And the guy, he smiled at you.There's nothing wrong with that, it's not a sin to smile, its callled being friendly. Maybe he wanted to break the ice, clear up any tension that is there between the both of you.
As long as you don't pay them attention (as they are not worth your time) things should be fine. If you ignore them, don't give them eye contact, you wont even realise when she is glaring at you/when he smiling at you. They will both give up when they see you don't give a shit anymore.
Just don't waste your time on them. Show them you don't give a damn, you're the maturer person in all of this, so show them.
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It's hard to say what would be best to do in this situation. You haven't done anything wrong, so if you can, just ignore her looks. She probably thinks that you still have feelings for her boyfriend, but if you keep ignoring both of them she'll get the picture. If she keeps giving you dirty looks, and you're sure she's actually giving dirt looks to you, you can talk to her about it and let her know that you don't like her boyfriend and that you don't want any fighting between the two of you.
Good luck,
Darby(:
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Hello Miss,
Find a way to disfuse The evil eye (GF's) insecurities with diplomacy & a touch of professionalism you should be sucessfull in solving her creepy behaviour. Do not swear or loose your temper if it's to hot you'll talk another time when she's calmed down. just exuse yourself and leave quietly. remeber she's the one with the problem not you. O.K. Ask her if you can talk in private (Be sweet & non offensive)in the play ground common grounds, Soften her up get her on side first by saying something nice about her like: say her name.... your hair, skin, is so shiny today it's beautiful. say her name when you can, people love to hear there own name said to them. Proceed to discuss your concerns that she not fear you. You have no interest in her partner, NOW here is your TRUMP CARD. Say something like... infact I like a guy in another school make up a name David Brand put his Initials on your arm and then show her see I like D.B. little white lies don't hurt anyone. if she or you feels her partner (Your EX)is oggling you she should take it up with him. Thank her for her time & leave it at that. If she wants to cuddle to seal the deal thats even better. Remeber to keep cool and in control of the conversation if she blows off let her tell her to calm down then have your say. I am pretty sure she'll come round your way. Wear mascara to make your eyes pretty. Good luck Sweetie.
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