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Should I dump him?
15/f
Well,me and my bf have been together since last month.But then he had to go back to London,where he lives,because of school.I live very far away from him,but he insisted on trying the long-distance relationship thing and we both agreed.He's 16 btw.He started college recently and I think it could be a problem (if he meets another girl,he won't have the heart to break up with me,he's like that) which will basically result in him cheating on me,and I really don't want that.Also,he's seems uninterested in me now.When we chat on Facebook,he would suddenly log out and not come back online,or finish the conversation without telling me he loves me.To be precise,I don't trust him.I'm really getting fed up.I love him,but I feel this just won't work out till when he comes here (July next year).But I don't really want to dump him,it's just that I don't know what to do.Should I be patient and give him a chance,or dump him for good?
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In the end its your choice. But don't let your doubts let you two break up. Let it be the choices you two make determine that. To get to the bottom of it, point blank you need to ask him do you think we can do this any more and be honest. Tell him all the pros and cons.
Lillian
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You're 15, he's 16, you were together for a month, and you're doing a long distance relationship? Dump his ass on principal. You're too young and weren't together enough to have this long distance relationship.
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You're 15.
This is the time you should be dating as much as you and your parents will allow so you know what type of person you will really like when you are mature enough to handle a real long (both in distance and time) relationship.
I know adults that can't handle a long distance relationship. So on that note... Tell him that you want to be his friend, but you don't want him to be tied down to you (this will set you both free and you don't want to resent each other) this doesn't mean that you're shady or anything, if he returns in July and you are both single, than maybe you guys can give it a shot, but honestly, I'm twice your age, and I can't even remember most of the names of the people I dated at your age.
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