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Quin
Posted Friday December 11 2009, 3:03 am
I realllly like this guy called quin we are both 13 and heres the thing i havent seen him in like months.becuase we changed schools well u know but i have chetted to him on yahoo! How do i get him back??
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ily.
Posted Thursday December 10 2009, 10:19 pm
ok, well, i was just hanging out with my boyfriend a couple hours ago and we did our typically goofing off together, watching tv, kissing kind of stuff, nothing different and then as normal when he leaves my house, i walk him to the door and hug and kiss him goodnight, well tonight as we were hugging he went "bye i love you". and then right after was like "hhaha ohh my good/wow" ( something along those lines )so i wasn't exactly sure what to say/do so i just kind of looked at him and he was like "byeee" and left. so i've just been sitting here going over and over again in my mind if he was being serious or not.
what do you guys think?
and do you think it was ok if i didn't say it ...
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Catholic/Christian dating rules?
Posted Thursday December 10 2009, 9:07 pm
Basically, how far are you allowed to go?
I'm sure kissing would be allowed, but would kissing with tongue be allowed? What about kisses on body parts such as the neck?
My bf is Catholic and I'm a (not very devout) Christian, and it's just something I was wondering.
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my sex life
Posted Thursday December 10 2009, 5:28 pm
ok. i'm a sixteen year old girl and my boyfriend is eighteen. we've been together for 15 months. well it will be 15 months tomorrow! we've been having sex since april (seven months ago). he usually doesn't last long enough for me to finish so i was wondering if there was some way, that doesn't involve pills or medicine that will help this problem. thank you!
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A guy at school, should I say something?
Posted Thursday December 10 2009, 3:31 pm
Well, there's this guy at school and we're friends..
I wouldn't say we went out before, but we had a kind of 'fling' it wasn't very serious, so I won't really count it as a relationship, and this was about a year ago, so it's old now.
Anyway, the point is, I don't even know what brought it on, but we were talking one day and I felt myself starting to think about him again afterwards, and I'm pretty sure I'm starting to like him in that way again..
I just wanna know if I should say something about liking him, or refrain..'cause I don't want it to seem like I'm messing him around, since the last thing that happened with us was a year ago... but at the same time, I'd kinda like to tell him and see if he fee...
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Boyfriend's Best Friend
Posted Thursday December 10 2009, 9:33 am
16/f
This may get very confusing. Names have been changed...
I used to hang out with a guy named Donald, Donald and I hung out a LOT, and did everything together, including sexual stuff. Well I wanted a relationship and Donald didn't, so we stayed as friends with benefits. (Donald had girlfriends the whole time I was talking to him, very bad idea, but I was definitely falling for him and he knew it...)
One day Donald picks me up and he had brought his friend Brandon with him. I was always hanging out with Donald and his friends. They all knew me, and they all liked me. (They're my second family now.)
Well when I met Donalds friend, Brandon I immediatley thought he was good looking! And there was just some...
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A promise we made today!
Posted Thursday December 10 2009, 1:10 am
Today, my boyfriend and I decided to not have sex anymore for many reasons! I'm happy for us and think it will better our relationship! =)
I asked him to dinner for tomorrow. I am going to give him a card, write in it AND something that will show our new promise. It feels like a new beginning and I want to give him something.
No rings because he does not wear them, it seems femininine, (I can't spell it! hahaha!) and it would seem like I was proposing in a way (even though I kind of want to! wink wink! haha). No necklace either.
I just want it to be something that lasts, maybe he can wear it, see it everyday, something! I really don't know! Thanks for the help in advance!
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I like this guy but he is a bad boy !
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 11:53 pm
I am an 8th grader he is a 9th grader and he is definitely not the goodest guy to like. He smokes weed,drinks,smokes,sex and shit like that.I am not no goodie goodie.But yah what do you reccomend? stay away or what
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divorce or not?
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 10:54 pm
my husband and I have been married for 2 years now and I am happy being married to him. Since he has come back from a 15 month deployment we have been fighting alot. Alot more than normal and it usual ends with me crying and him pissed off and we hate each other and it's always the same thing we fight about, him not helping me around the house I feel like I have to do everything. I'm tired of the fighting and so is he I want to go to marriage counseling but I'm afraid he wont make the effort. Yesterday he brings up the discussion of divorce and asking me if we ever did get a divorce what would I do. Does this mean he wants a divorce? I don't know if we should go to marriage counseling if he already believes our marriage is over. Should I ju...
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narrowing down xmas gifts for bf:)
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 7:30 pm
my boyfriend's 18 & i've narrowed down what i want to get him for christmas, either-
- new earring
- new sweatshirt / pair of jeans
- cologne
in addition to (all of these)
- homemade cookies (he LOVES to eat... like, obscene amounts..)
- a giant hershey's kiss
- a hemp necklace (he loves them, i'll make it myself)
- and possibly an 'inside joke' gift... funny boxers ;)
im afraid cologne will be one of those "oh.. again?" gifts. same with the clothes. but the thing is, my boyfriend doesnt exactly switch up his wardrobe that much... he pretty much wears the same three shirts, which arent bad, but ruins them by wearing this gigantic sweatshirt, which i wouldnt...
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Arguing with husband.....HELP
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 6:27 pm
My husband and I have only been married for a few months. For about the past month we cannot get along but maybe for 24 hours. We argue over everything. We just bought a house, and can't seem to agree on anything. I feel ike I compromise constantly because he gets so angry if he doesn't get his way. For instance, he doesn't like flouresent light bulbs and I do,, but in order to avoid extreme arguments all the fluorescent bulbs have to be changed back to regular. Also, I have a 4 year daughter that calls him daddy, and he allows this to happen. When he gets mad at me he tells me that he is not her dad and he wouldn't care if we got a divorce. AFter our fights he will come to me later that night and act like everything is okay and nothing hap...
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Not over his ex
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:50 pm
19/f
I've been dating this guy for a little over two months, we spend quite a bit of time together, and hes asked me to be his girlfriend twice. I wasn't ready then, but right when i was starting to feel like i was, something happened. I wanted to see his phone to look at his texts, because i do this a lot jokingly because most of them are from me anyway. But this time he like hid it from me and deleted all the sent folder, and then gave it to me. and when i looked in the inbox, all these texts were from his ex girlfriend (they dated for two years, and broke up sometime in July). Basically the gist of it was that he had brought me up to her randomly, and so she brought up her boyfriend but my guy got all offended and didn't w...
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so confused
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:11 pm
so i just got together with this one guy and things are great
our whole school things we are the cutest couple
and we agreed to be together for the remainder of highschool
(cause we've been friends since 4th grade and we're juniors in hs now)
but i can't help but think about some of the other guys in my school
and how things will never work out with them cause i have a bf
like.. i don't know i'm so confused
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good bf gf song?
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:09 pm
my boyfriend and i are trying to pick a song
any ideas?
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New boyfriend troubles
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 5:03 pm
Ok so I'm 14 and in 9th grade. Last weekend I met this boy at a friends party. We immediatly hit it off. I told my best friend Taylor that I liked him a lot by the end of the party. She and Bobby are friends so she told him for me and he felt the same way. And at the party he was so cute we went outside. It was raining so he gave me his jacket. And then the next day he asked me out. This was over aim. I said yes and that's that. During the weekend we talked a lot and we have so much in common. We both love horror movies, like shakespear, have most of the same friends. Pretty much we agree on everything. Monday after school I stayed after with him and we watched a volleyball game. We talked and talked and he's really great because he just ke...
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i like this guy but he doesnt like me what should i do
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 3:33 pm
Okay so I like this guy. We danced alot at our school's Winter Dance. And then the next day at school he wouldn't talk to me or even look at me. And he kept telling people he doesn't like me, that he likes my best friend. Should I keep trying for him or just give up?
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Getting to know her. things to ask. how to get started?!
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 3:11 pm
ok well theres a girl who works at the ski center i go to. out of the blue she randomley gives me her number and this cute smile, i had no idea she thought of me in anyway other than i go snowboarding there everyweek and she worked on reception.
well to be honest im only 18 and iv had... a very very short relationship with a girl and before her its been 7 years before any ones shown interest in me. how do i get things started? iv asked what shes in to, she loves motorcross and thank god i know something about that so i could ask her a few things. but now the msn conversations are getting a little mundane if im honest we both want to talk to eachother and get to know eachother but its coming to "umm yeah so im still bored...
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for people in on and off relationships
Posted Wednesday December 9 2009, 12:47 pm
what do you do?
i need advice badly. me and my boyfriend broke up and then got back together and now we broke up again. its a couple months after everytime he says "i love you" to me..he has commitment issues because he grew up with his parents fighting so i understand why he's like this ( he hasn't actually told me that but i know it's it because my dad had divorced parents and went through the same thing). i've seen love die so many times when it deserves to live and i don't want this to be another. he tells me when we're apart (we live 20 mins from each other) theres times when he doesn't want to hang out and he'll make up an excuse why he cant but then when he's with me, he won't let me go... i know he loves me ...
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it is too late?
Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 9:46 pm
I haven't seen my girlfriend in 6 months. I didn't realize how long 6 months was. she isn't doing bad, I mean she misses me, but her happiness outweighs her loneliness. Me on the other hand, I've never felt this lonely before. I love this girl. but its gotten to the point where when I think about her I cant conjure up any happy thoughts. it just feels empty. I feel so far away from her right now, emotionally and mentally. am i just being negative? It used to be fine. when i would start to feel lonely i would just think about holding her in my arms and it would ease the pain. now I feel nothing. I see her in two weeks. I SHOULD be excited but Im more nervous about it. I'm scared we spent too much time apart and now its too late. I'm scared t...
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love or lust
Posted Tuesday December 8 2009, 2:35 pm
whats the difference between love and lust?? what do i have..like when me and my guy chill we ussually get intamte we dont go out or anything its just always in his car doing you kno.. we have been together for 2 years and ome months and never did we do anything fun and when i do mention to go out he doesnt like that idea because were keeping are relationship on the downlow for now and i dont even know its so confusing? can somebody help me out with this.. id appreciate it thanks
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