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Arguing with husband.....HELP
My husband and I have only been married for a few months. For about the past month we cannot get along but maybe for 24 hours. We argue over everything. We just bought a house, and can't seem to agree on anything. I feel ike I compromise constantly because he gets so angry if he doesn't get his way. For instance, he doesn't like flouresent light bulbs and I do,, but in order to avoid extreme arguments all the fluorescent bulbs have to be changed back to regular. Also, I have a 4 year daughter that calls him daddy, and he allows this to happen. When he gets mad at me he tells me that he is not her dad and he wouldn't care if we got a divorce. AFter our fights he will come to me later that night and act like everything is okay and nothing happened. He will apologize for saying dicvorce but we never work through anything. I have tried to explain to him the need to work through our issues but he refuses. I have suggested a marriage counselor and he refuses. I don't kjnow what to do and I think that I am headed toward divorce very quickly. Any advice? I don't want a divorce and I love my husband, but I can't live like this much longer.
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That sounds horrible. I'm so sorry you have to experience this. Maybe you could talk to a counselor on your own. Maybe a preacher or someone in that field could help if you go to church. I don't that's a good environment to raise your daughter in. I wouldn't want her growing up thinking love is to be that way. You could try leaving for a few days and show your husband that you mean business. If he doesn't straighten up, he'd be alone. Were things like this before you got married? Marriage brings about much stress, but it shouldn't be this bad especially so soon. Good Luck!!!
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Ok, well i've been dating my boyfriend for almost 15 months and we have this problem. I almost gave up the relationship because EVERY little thing became a fight,and he just never seemed to want to talk things out. The way I got my boyfriend to talk was pretty simple. I asked "Is us fighting all the time and not working things out worth losing all the love and memories we have?" Also, compromise, but in a different way. Ask him if you can have a few flouresent lights in the house, because it is YOUR house too.
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