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Distance is not what I want
Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 10:56 am
I am 17/f and i have been dating my b/f for almost a year and well i am still in school and he has already graduated. It is really hard for us to see each other bc of his working and me having school, anyways these couple of weeks it has seemed when i text him that he is distant and we have such a hard time trying to figure out what to talk about. Any suggestions? I want the distance to go away. like yesturday he told me he had to get off the phone and i asked him why and he said it doesn't matter and i told him that wasn't right why won't he tell me and he said never mind about it. Then he texted me a sarcastic remark and said shouldn't i be doing school work, what is that all about? We were completely fine talking about nothing and everything before he had to leave, what was his deal?
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he stopped talking to me, what can i do?
Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 9:17 am
Hi,
i met this guy on facebook,i'm 39 hes 37, we chatted on line for a couple of weeks and he was txting me everyday, then we arranged to meet up(hes a photographer so offered to take my pics)he was charming and i got the impresion he really liked me. the next day he text me. in the evening my husband came home we wernt getting on to well he was shouting at me so i text this guy and arranged to go over there that night, we jumped straight in to bed but did'nt go all the way, he was texting me all the following week and we arranged to meet up again, the next time we met up we jumped straight in to bed with each other, he asked me if i was still sleeping with my husband and i said yes, after i felt he went cold on me making out...
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what's this girl's problem?it's tearing me up!
Posted Monday December 14 2009, 11:29 pm
go to the encino bally's which is a really middle-eastern area.Ever since i went there 3 years ago,the whites and others have taken a likng to me,even though i'm an eastern-asian-person.During that time,me and her didn't really hit it off,because we had some differences,but i just keep getting people taking a liking to me,and she(even though at times i tried to patch things up and vice versa)still always tries to stab me in the back at times.I don't know if this is a racial issue,because no one else there has a problem with me even thoigh i'm kind of an outsider in a different area(not alot of east-asians there)What;s her deal? I went off on her a few times in the past,but that was because i thought she was being unfair in her actions towar...
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uhmm, to the guys? tall girls?
Posted Monday December 14 2009, 9:10 pm
Okay so I'm a freshman girl. And okay I know I'm pretty attractive but one thing that really bothers me is that I'm like 5'6/5'7... and I'm a lot taller than all the other girls. Like, Ive always wanted to be a cute little petite girl. LIke I am already really skinny, I just want to be... not so tall. like I still wanna be skinny but haha, like I don't know. Luckily my boyfriend is like six foot but still. My height really bothers me. So my question is, guys? do you have a problem with tall girls? Is 5'6/'7 that tall for a girl? Just wondering.
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I love him. But he's never there.
Posted Monday December 14 2009, 8:49 pm
I've been with a college guy for almost two months..if you could even call it that. He's been "ignoring" me for a month and he says it's because he's studying for finals. I know this is a complete lie. Well, the first night he talks to me I'm supposed to meet my sugardaddy. I need the money, but whe he was talking to me he said he was "heartbroken" because i sent a guy's nude pic to him. Since i was talking to him again, only for that night, i cancelled on my sgardaddy. Was that a bad choice to make?
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i want to break up but then again i dont
Posted Monday December 14 2009, 9:50 am
Okay 15/f here might be long but okay. Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now and my mom doesnt like him at all. Well the other day me and her was talking and she told me that she didnt want me seeing him now that i really like him i just want him to know that i love him and everything she told me that if i am seeing him when im not allowed to then i am grounded but i really like him and i want to stay with him but i want to break up with him to just for a couple of days and then i want to get back together with him so should i end it or should i just stay with him and just say to my mom we are broken up?
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dated ex's childhood friend
Posted Monday December 14 2009, 2:10 am
i dated this guy for a year, it was lovely.. But we had to break up because he was leaving the country for uni. We barely spoke and we sort of ended a little rough because i was angry he had to leave and all that, it was just really hard. We were each others first love.
After 2 months i began talking to 1 of his childhood friends, lets say his name's John.. I was still single, sad, lonely and very low.. Sort of just fell out of everything. But this guy, John.. I felt good talking to him. I started liking him too! He made me feel all good and it was something i needed. And so after 4 months from my break up, we started dating.. I didnt tell my ex about it and when he asked, i denied it.. I guess i didnt want him to know because i fel...
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too many plans
Posted Monday December 14 2009, 12:23 am
m/18 my gf says i need to live my life without planning everything out and just kinda going with the flow sometimes, im not rly used to doing it though. anyone have any ideas on what i should do?
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so alone and confused.
Posted Monday December 14 2009, 12:14 am
Okay so im in this relationship that ive been in for over 5 years. i love him very much and i always have. here a couple of months ago we broke up and i went around with friends pretty much partying like a rock star (not literally but kinda. nothing BAD). well anyways we got back together and we moved to new schools to be together and get away from the drama. well now all we do is sit at home and do nothing. and i dont have any friends now. like literally all i have is him. and not that i dont mind just having him its just i feel so alone. and i feel like we're to young to be just sitting at home. im about to turn 16 and we're gonna be able to drive and work so i need some ideas to what we can do to be more like teenagers and less like old ...
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i have to act like i don't know.
Posted Sunday December 13 2009, 8:55 pm
i just got off the phone with my boyfriend's mom. she said he has a kidney disease that is sort of like AIDS but it's not, and it's not contagious. apparently, she wasn't supposed to tell me because my boyfriend didn't want me to know, i guess he didn't want me to worry or react like she is. but she thought she should let me know, since we've been together for almost a year. we love eachother so much and i plan to marry this guy and spend the rest of my life with him. she said he should be okay, but you never know. she's putting most of her faith in God, but as we know, God can't cure everything. He let's innocent people die all the time.
but the point is, she made me promise not to let my boyfriend know that i know. and that...
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Age;
Posted Sunday December 13 2009, 5:11 pm
Well, i'm a 15 year old girl. But i think i'm starting to like a 13 year old boy. But the thing is, i'm really worried about how others in my school might see it. Like when an older boy goes out with a girl 2 years younger it seems natural. When a girl goes out with a boy 2 years younger, you get looked at as if your a pedo. I'm not sure whether, i should ask his opinion and give it a shot, leave it to prevent accusations of being a pedo, or wait until i like someone my age / till i kno i deffinatley like him.
Help.
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Starting Over...Is it just as hard as ever?
Posted Sunday December 13 2009, 4:48 pm
I've met someone fabulous and who I think I may have fallen for. We ar both in our 40's, met on the internet, exchanged a few e-mails regularly for almost 2 months, until I had enough nerve to finally call him and we've hit it off pretty good. Although I have dated a few men since divorcing a man after 20 years, this man seemed so different from all others. How often do we find special ones who are only intrersted in what is on the inside more than on the outside? This guy is one of those types. He didn't care what I looked like. When we finally met in person, we hit it off very well, because I fell attracted to him. He called daily afterwards, even when he was out of town for a week with friends. He even told me that he loved me and he...
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can't move on.
Posted Sunday December 13 2009, 1:19 am
well your gonna think I'm Crazy but Ive liked this guy for 3 years and he's way older then me by 7 years and he always stares at me and despite how people say "oh staring means nothing" well i think it does with him and I think he broke up with his gf and I haven't seen him for like a month he goes to my church and I love him even tho we've never talked I just feel a strong connection. you know the saying "love at first sight" well Ive felt it. I remember being in fourth or fifth grade and in children church and he helped out since he was like way older (not like over 18 but like maybe 16 or 17) yea he's really older but I can't help it even though i know we will never be together something in me wont let him go.
so what should i Do
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Online Relationship
Posted Saturday December 12 2009, 10:32 pm
Okay, i have a huge problem. I met a guy online (i know how this sounds), and we absolutely hit it off. We talk everyday for hours at a time. We've sent eachother pictures and we are starting to really like eachother.We haven't met face to face, and we live 765 miles away. My problem is that im scared i might get too attached. It would be impossible for either of us to see eachother. Im fearing that if i say 'fall in love' with him that it might be pointless because we may never meet. I'm so scared, and im not sure where this is going. Please help!!!
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christmas present idea...will he like it?
Posted Saturday December 12 2009, 6:50 pm
My boyfriend and I have been going out for 3 and a half months and I can honestly say he's my best friend and I love him completely :) Neither of us really has enough money to buy each other something big or fancy for Christmas, but I told him I wanted to make him something. I have an idea, but I don't know if he'll think it's cute or just corny haha... I think it's a bit cheesy personally, but I hope he will think it's cute :) My idea is to get a small heart shaped box and write down 50 reasons why I love him on pieces of paper and put them in the box. Do you guys think he'll like that? If there are any 16 year old guys on this site, I'd prefer if you'd answer this. But input from everyone is good :) Also, if you have any other cool ideas ...
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What to do!?
Posted Saturday December 12 2009, 4:30 pm
15/f
ok so heres the thing... i have an amazing bf i love him to death. i really do but i have no idea wat to get him for christmas! i wanna get him something special but i dont really know wat he likes. he said he already got me the perfect gift but i cant think of anything for him and i dont have much money so wat should i do? wat can i get him? something thats a great all-around gift that everyone will like but not ordanary. plz give me some ideas or tell me some things you guys have givin ur past bf/gf that they really liked
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long distance relationship
Posted Saturday December 12 2009, 12:08 pm
is anyone in a long distance relationship?i want to know how people make it work and keep it going.what do you guys do when your apart to make your relationship stay strong??
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He Said I Was Boring To Talk To?
Posted Saturday December 12 2009, 12:48 am
I've known this guy for about two weeks or so, and recently we've been talking a bit more than we normally do. Well, he told me I was boring. Yes, it's offensive to a point, but I'm afraid that I may come across as boring. When I first start talking to a person I'm not totally comfortable, so I can't think of anything to say, but I don't want to bore him away before I get a chance to become comfortable.
When I'm with my friends I can be very talkative, but I'm just awful at coming up with things to talk about. My conversations always involve a lot of awkward silences. It's awful. =(
Any advice on what to say/do or conversation starters, etc.?
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ahh
Posted Friday December 11 2009, 5:58 pm
For christmas, im getting my boyfriend of a little less than a year sunglasses for driving, he asked for that, a cookie monster shirt as a joke, and a massage oil as sexyy. haha but i want to get him something meaningful and romantic. no rings or necklaces, he "doesnt do jewelry" and i got him a watch for his birthday. any ideas? thanks!
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DEAD
Posted Friday December 11 2009, 3:32 am
Ok,Im asking this for my friend!
Iam 14/female and my friend is the same age ...
Ok my friend alley had a boyfriend who died(Joe RIP)He was really nice and stuff but she swears he is haunting her...She can like feel him when she is in the shower and when shes going to sleep at night.I never really believed in that kinda stuff but you can definatly feel him there! Its kinda weird...DO YOU GUYS THINK WE ARE INSANE???
I mean we have tried talkin to him but i dunno what to do...She really loves him...still..hes been dead about a year...WHAT THE HEK DO WE DO??
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