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so alone and confused.
Okay so im in this relationship that ive been in for over 5 years. i love him very much and i always have. here a couple of months ago we broke up and i went around with friends pretty much partying like a rock star (not literally but kinda. nothing BAD). well anyways we got back together and we moved to new schools to be together and get away from the drama. well now all we do is sit at home and do nothing. and i dont have any friends now. like literally all i have is him. and not that i dont mind just having him its just i feel so alone. and i feel like we're to young to be just sitting at home. im about to turn 16 and we're gonna be able to drive and work so i need some ideas to what we can do to be more like teenagers and less like old married couples. we cant go to some places because thats where the drama is. so no places like the movies bowling allies, and etc.. and another thing is he's asked me to do alot such as give up my friends and my old ways. is he being to controlling by not wanting me to hang out with my old buddies?? 15 female
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in a sense, yes he is being controlling and that will only lead to bad things if you don't say something quick. i understand that you don't want to lose him, but friends are going to be there forever (atleast the true ones) and a guy(no matter how long the relationship) shouldn't come before yourfriends. they are the ones that will be there as a shoulder to cry on because we all know that n relationship is perfect. but to the real question at hand, you shouldnt have to feel that you have to give up everything that is fun because of little hating .....people.... (dont want to curse) trying to skrew up you and his happiness. but if you do go to the movies or bowling etc., just stay as far away from conflict as possible. just know when it is time to go when tension starts to get to high. but some other places could be like a museum, the mall, icecream parlor, skating (even if you cant skate, it will be a nice laugh for you 2), or go to an arcade like dave n busters, boomers, etc what ever is close. and water parks are always fun =
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Well, forgetting the past is the hardest thing to do, because sometimes, we just never forget. It's only a matter of finding some inner strength to not allow this negative incident or drama make what your future is going to be.
WE all have control of our lives in the end. It is what we decide to make of it.
If you two are going to keep your love alive, just focus on the future you want for each other. Compromise, conformity, communication and understanding all play a huge role on what you guys will end up doing together in order to find new friends and a new beginning to your fruitful future.
I hope this helps.
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