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too many plans
m/18 my gf says i need to live my life without planning everything out and just kinda going with the flow sometimes, im not rly used to doing it though. anyone have any ideas on what i should do?
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I think what your girl friend is looking for is a little spontaneity. You might call her one night and say I’m bored sit here all alone, how about we go bowling? You know anything that is not planned out three weeks in advance. I do not think she is looking for you set the world on fire, just something unplanned. It could be as simple as asking her to go for a cup of coffee or ice cream.
I think you get the idea; spontaneity can be fun because it has an element of surprise to it.
Good luck
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lol..this question is sort of contradictory.
I agree that you should go with the flow..but planning is an important aspect. I guess going with the flow just means...doing something when you cross that bridge. Which can sometimes be foolish..but..i dont know.
Just ease up...relax...and take life as it comes...
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