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i want to break up but then again i dont
Okay 15/f here might be long but okay. Well me and my boyfriend have been dating for almost 2 months now and my mom doesnt like him at all. Well the other day me and her was talking and she told me that she didnt want me seeing him now that i really like him i just want him to know that i love him and everything she told me that if i am seeing him when im not allowed to then i am grounded but i really like him and i want to stay with him but i want to break up with him to just for a couple of days and then i want to get back together with him so should i end it or should i just stay with him and just say to my mom we are broken up?
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you really shouldn't lie to your mom, but she isn't thinking about your feelings. your 15 so you shouldn't have to date who she wants you to. but because she is your mother she does have some say-so. but don't end your relationship with him...especially if your feelings are just that strong, then you should find a way to make it work. and let your mom know how you truely feel.
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Okay you're 15 years old...its not your mother's decision for who you should and should not date. Talk to your mom and say you understand that she is just protecting but that you aren't a little girl. She can't have control of who you date thats just silly. If you love him then be with him unless he isn't treating you right which is something you concern yourself with. You can't break up with the kid to satisfy your mom and then get back together with him. What if he doesn't go for it? The only reason you're breaking up with him is because of your mom. Don't let your mom control your personal life. Do what YOU want to do! Good Luck! Happy Holidays!
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Don't lie to your mom. It would just get you into a whole other mess, plus it would lose her trust in you. If you really like this guy tell him what your mom said. If he really cares for you he will understand.
Tell your mom that you really like him and don't want to lose him. Ask her if you can still see him, even if it is just as friends. Maybe even try to negotiate. Ask her if you can go on group dates or something where there are some other people around.
Trust me, if he is a keeper he'll wait until you are able to date him. If he doesn't want to wait, he isn't worth the trouble. :) I hope I helped!
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I think your only option is to break up with him
you should listen to your mother and not lie or disobey her plus if you do end the relationship you won't get grounded nobody likes being grounded
there are plenty of other boys out there if you lie to your mother you'll feel horrible and you'll end up regretting it it's better to tell the truth then to tell a lie (:
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