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they said that she hates me
well 15/f and sorry if long . but me and my bestfriends we all chill and hang inside and outside of school well when they all got mad at me for breaking up with my boyfriend and they told me that i was stupid for it and the fact that i did it i told them to leave me alone and then they finally became my friend they said that they wont get mad well someone said that i said something about them and now that i said that they were a slut they said they dont want to talk to me and that they hate me should i confront them about some of the stuff i heard that came from there mouth about me or should i just leave me alone.
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I think you should confront them and stick up for yourself don't allow them to talk badly about you
they aren't real friends if they say things that hurt you he was your boyfriend and you could do whatever you want since it's your life your in control approach them and say that breaking up with your boyfriend was your own decision you don't deserve people in your life who are going to put you down just confront them and say what you'd like to say and move on you'll always have the chance to meet new friends
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1. its really stupid for them to get mad at you for breakin up with your boyfriend. its your choice, obviously... thats just stupid.
2. if theyre your true 'best'friends then they would believe you over what other people say.
i think that you should just leave it alone and make new friends. you dont need people causin drama in your life. if they bring it up to you then tell them that if they were real friends they wouldnt say that they hated you and stuff. i know its hard but itll make your life alot easier.
(also try to use punctuation more, its hard to read when its all one sentence)
good luck !
x sweeethoney
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those girls are not your friends. friends support you with every decision you make, which it seems like they don't. you shouldn't be the one trying to hold the glue together. and did you notice that they gang up on YOU? you can't fight alone, so don't try. and don't try to "explain" anything to them. it might have been a misunderstanding, but its mostly their fault. if i were you, i'd be trying to find some new friends.
take care.
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