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Distance is not what I want
I am 17/f and i have been dating my b/f for almost a year and well i am still in school and he has already graduated. It is really hard for us to see each other bc of his working and me having school, anyways these couple of weeks it has seemed when i text him that he is distant and we have such a hard time trying to figure out what to talk about. Any suggestions? I want the distance to go away. like yesturday he told me he had to get off the phone and i asked him why and he said it doesn't matter and i told him that wasn't right why won't he tell me and he said never mind about it. Then he texted me a sarcastic remark and said shouldn't i be doing school work, what is that all about? We were completely fine talking about nothing and everything before he had to leave, what was his deal?
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Unfortunately people change because of the situations in their lives. They act different because they are in a different setting or hanging out with different people. Some do it to even fit in and may act differently towards people who have been there for them all along. You should talk to him let him know how you feel and tell him you don't appreciate his sarcastic remarks. Good Luck! Happy Holidays!
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Have totally been there!! I can see you are already going to be the one trying to talk to him more than he probably wants to...
He has adjusted to this new distance rather well apparently. It could be bugging him at the same time as well, but it will do you a whole lot of good to give him this space, merely to find out what's to come from it.
Say for instance, you give him a week, (I know it sounds long) of no contact, and see if he calls. Perhaps he will call and say, hey, what's the deal? You will have a justifiable answer by saying he had been acting different and it made you very sad, so you decided to give him some space to grasp what's really happening with himself.
I know this is probably not what you wanted to hear, because it is the hardest thing to let go of something you want so bad, but if it happens like it did for me, my man came back to his senses and vented his feelings.
Guess the saying, if you love something enough you have to let it go. If it comes back then it was meant to be....as well as if he does not come back, there is something else waiting for you for the better.
Patience is key.
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