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Friendship or crush


Posted Friday December 18 2009, 5:20 pm

ok so my two friends are going out. Before they started going out my guy friend would flirit with me a lit I knowhe had a crush on me. When they started going I thought this was all going to stop but it didn't. So I told my friend about what her boyfriend was doing. I think she told him to stop and he did for like two days but then he started flirting again. He texted me after school two days ago and I didn't reply because I didn't have my phone but i found out he tested me because my brother told me and he had my phone. So after i didnt text him back the flirting stopped but he didn't seem mad he just dosnt flirt. I think I am getting feelings for him I miss him flirting with me. I want to tell him so badly but I can't he is going out wit...

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Boyfriend going away gift


Posted Friday December 18 2009, 2:47 pm

My boyfriend is graduating highschool a semester early and starting to go to college in January. He is 17, almost 18. Im 16,gonna be 17 in june. I want to get him a really nice gift because we have been together for a year and a half but i dont know what to get him...he will be 5 hours away so we wont see each other much, and he cant have his car the first year and i wont get my license until summer. I can spend up to $150. I have already gotten him:

1-a nice $140 watch for our 1 year anniversary
2-a photoalbum for our 6 month anniversary
3-an interesting alarm clock for his birthday because he cant wake up in the morning. ever.
4-a shirt of his favorite band for valentines day
5-the first 3 pokem...

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Question please i feel so down right now


Posted Friday December 18 2009, 11:06 am

Ok i now i usually give da advice, but when i give advice to myself bout guys i usually end up pickin the wrong thing but when i do it for other people i give da right advice and they dont have any regret it so please help.

Ive told my bf (19 year old) that i feel like he dont love me anymore because he never talks to me and when i email him he dont email me back he says he has a lot of emails like a 100 or some sh** and deletes all of dem and when we do talk much we have a short converstation unless i contiune it and it always takes him bout 2 mins to answer. He said hmm am i sure its him losing love and not me i wanted to slap him cause i love him so much and dont wont to lose him but on the other hand it doesnt seem like...

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I'm Confused


Posted Thursday December 17 2009, 8:45 pm

Okay so I think I might be gay. How do I know for sure?

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My bf hates my mom


Posted Thursday December 17 2009, 3:24 pm

Hi,
my bf and I have been together for 2 years, and have been living together for about 6 months.. 3 months at his dad's house and the rest at my mom's... long story short, he has anger problems and everything my mom does bothers him.. we got into a fight and he ended up saying he will move out and for me to stay with my family.. in a mad way.. should we try and work this out and move out, or should we just let it be? please help... thanks



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Does this mean what I think it does?


Posted Thursday December 17 2009, 9:44 am

So I met this guy Kirk at a bar the other night and I thought he was so sexy. I thought he kept looking at me but then I turned and he'd be looking elsewhere. Well my friend works with him and he asked my friend if I was in a relationship with my guy friend I was hanging out with. He told my friend I had a lot of spunk and that it was a great asset. I take it as he likes me what do you think? How should I pursue this further with him? Any ideas? I just got this news today and it made my day!! Thanks! :)

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need answer by friday pls im desprate


Posted Wednesday December 16 2009, 10:19 pm

ok i had sex with like only 4 guys would you be able to tell. i mean would i be super loose or no if so is there anything icould do to make myself tighter again

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Confused


Posted Wednesday December 16 2009, 7:59 pm

I dated a guy for almost 2years he was my everything and he was my first. We fougt aloot but we always made up and we knew we loved eachother. things got bad to where we would fight and i would scream and cry every night but there was always something that kept us together. We lived about 20min away driving. But he would sometimes WALK to my house just to see me or get things straigted out no matter the weather. I cant explain our feelings and what we did for eachother. Finally i got tired of the crying and screaming and we broke up. I got a new bf whom ive been with for 2 and half years hes great and we barly fight i love him alot and i know he loves me more then the world and would do anything for me. However, i cannot stop thinking about...

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Lonley As Ever.....


Posted Wednesday December 16 2009, 7:55 pm

I Need Advice. Im Fifteen Years Old And Has Only Had A Couple Boyfriends In My Life. I Do Have A Low Self Esteem Issue, But I Need To Find Ways To Like Myself So I Know Guys Will Like Me....


I Really Want A Boyfriendddddd!!!!!

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im in love with my stepbrother.. what do i do?


Posted Wednesday December 16 2009, 7:07 pm

I am 16 years old & from Florida.
& so is the guy in my story.

here's the story...

Last October(2008)I met my stepbrother.
when i laid my eyes on him, I was immediately attracted. He was taller than me, finally! someone taller.. he had long hair and was/is skaterish looking. When we met he was formally dressed. He was on his way to church. Which is one of the things I love about him. He's christian and saving himself for marriage like me. Its so hard to find somebody like that these days.. He also plays guitar,sings a little, and is learning piano. Great, a musician. could he make it any harder me?! Anyways, his mother and I are the best of friends and she tells me everything about him. s...

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So Distraught and Devastated


Posted Wednesday December 16 2009, 12:42 pm

I am 25 and have been in a relationship for two and half years. I recently told my girlfriend that I would be leaving for a week on a trip with my parents. She has a big test to give while I'm gone. This has led to her getting very upset with me and I believe she is now deciding on whether she wants to continue a relationship with me or not. I feel sad/awful/confused. I don't know what to do...

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Gift for boyfriend


Posted Wednesday December 16 2009, 9:50 am

(boyfriend is 20 soon to be 21)
We've been dating for about a month, we plan on a long future, we're in a 'serious' relationship, and have sex.

As everyone knows christmas is coming up, I need ideas for a gift.
I know I'm definately getting him a ring pop & a pack of gummy bears. (Inside joke between him & I.) I was wondering if it'd be okay just to do like a little box of candies/desserts. Like get a small cute little box, put a bunch of candy and homemade cookies and brownies, etc in the box and wrap it, and get him like a gift card to go with it? Does that sound like too little? Any ideas of what kind of candy, or desserts? (And on sort of a limited budget.)
Thanks!

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He's trying to break my defense.


Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 9:25 pm

So i recently got a new boyfriend(lets call him M*xx), and a super sweet guy behind his "gangster" act. We have been dating for about three months now. Anyway after a dramitc experiance i made a vow to myself to keep my virginity as long as i can without any boys bribing me into it. M*xx has a diff. plan in mind. Yes, he holds my hand and kisses it, making me blush...but sometimes he tries to reach for my breast iwth his free hand when he thinks im not looking. And of course i push himm away. Sttubborn..he keeps trying. He tells me that one of these days im going to give into him, and i have fears that my vow will be broken before the year has ended. How do i keep the sensual mood going but not resulting in sex??
Thanks in advance.... 14/f

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I really want to know.


Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 9:09 pm

My girlfriend just broke up with me because im starting to act like her. The truth is i just do the same things she does. Ive been like this for a long time. But she says its creepy and that its over. And yeah i want to cry but then again I'm wondering if that's a justified reason to break up with me, She told me not even 6 hours ago that she loves me and I'm her world and she wants to live by me. I find now that she lied to me or at least that's how i feel :\
-15 m

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love


Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 8:05 pm

say you've dated someone for 1 year and 6 months...can love just fade?

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what do you guys think?


Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 8:04 pm

hey so i'm just wondering what you guys think of my situation and if you thought i was really in love or if i was just too nice to see the bad in someone.

ok so me and my bf are 17. we dated for 15 months then he broke up with me, then got back together. then he broke up with me again, this time its over for good because i'm not going to keep going through this (even though i secretly hope someday when he grows up a bit we'll get back together)...he was amazing to me...like the perfect boyfriend..he would text me cute notes in the morning, give me his coat when i was cold, all the adorable things you do to someone when you really care about them.(we broke up because he said he didn't like doing these things anymore cause he f...

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Just Got married 5 weeks ago, things are bad.. help!


Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 7:50 pm

Well, We have been together for 5 years and got married in November. He has been depressed since a week after the wedding.I think he is upset because I cant perform the sexual acts that he wants. He wants me to be with a girl so bad that if I dont "go out" with girls he will be silent for days.A week after the wedding it was all he talked about. I am quite a homebody. He is 45, I am 32. The fact is, I will never sleep with a girl. It was a thing of fantasy for us. He went as far as to text a girl from my phone for a coffee date yesterday behind my back and I cancelled, He is really dpressed now. And of course, everything is my fault. He downloads tons of porn,I have found 3 videocameras around my house, I know he is a sex addict,b...

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Guy Troubles


Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 7:33 pm

I really like this guy. Problem is, I barely know him, plus he does drugs. Bad thing, I know. Have you ever felt that like when you see someone you feel like something is there and sometimes you just want to help him? I don't know if I should go for it and not even try so I don't end up hurt in the end.

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Mixed signal


Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 3:46 pm

and here I am again. A New guy. I work with him and hes 22. I'm 18. We only work together for about 2 weeks. Hes really quiet and shy.
On thursday while we were loading (Picking up ppl to bring back to the cruise ship) We talked in the van a little bit, and he kidna opened up. And then he like stroked my chin. when getting back into the van my supervisor is like "Go sit with your boyfriend." ????....and then after work..he came up to me with arm wide open and gave me a 1 minute hug. On Monday I got to see him again..and he didnt say anything. He just looked at me and raised his eyebrows like usual. (You kno when someone looks like they have sumthin to say) well he looked like that. And right b4 work class my supervisor (wom...

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Inexperienced


Posted Tuesday December 15 2009, 2:17 pm

18/f

I just turned eighteen. I have never had a boyfriend before my current one and am very inexperienced. He isn't very experienced either, but he is starting to want to do more than just kiss. I am ready too, I just don't know how to do anything. Can anyone give me advice as to how to go about this? thanks. I really appreciate it.

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