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I'm Confused
Okay so I think I might be gay. How do I know for sure?
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Well you could never get someone to just tell you if you are gay, but there are experts looking to help people just like you! Trust me I hear about them all the time. There are testings,catalouges,and even talk shows that talk about this. I really hope you find whatever you think is the right answer. :) GOOD LUCK!!!
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Just think. Who are you attracted to now? And REALLY think about it; you might not be gay if you caught yourself looking at a guy's crotch or something (it coulda been an unconscious thing; maybe you were jealous, i dunno). Consider all possibilities.
Don't just watch a porn flick and see what happens.
But, you won't know for SURE until you find someone you're physically and emotionally attracted to. To be honest, I wasn't sure if i was bi, straight, or lesbian until I got a boyfriend. Then I knew what gender I was comfortable with and could never see myself being more than just friends with people of the same sex.
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Hey,
Okay. Sexuality. Woah. Big Topic.
EVERYONE IS DIFFRENT IN THIS WORLD.
Falling in love can Be With anyone, A Guy Or Girl.
Now If You are a guy or girl who likes both guys are girl, Than you are BI.
Which Is Perfectly Okay.
Just Find Your True Self. Do Some Soul Searching:)
Hope I Helped A Tiny Bit.
-Cassidy xoxo
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Ok well, watch gay porn and if you get turned on by that then yes you are gay
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I am a great deal older than most of the advisers on this site, so my advice will be somewhat different from what you have received and may continue to receive from others.
If you are confused about you sexuality, then in my opinion I would say you are not gay. You are at an age that you are still experimenting with your sexuality; still trying to find out just who you are. Your hormones are changing rapidly and sending mixed signals to your brain.
Society has conditioned us that we all have to have a comfy little pigeon hole to fit in. Given you current age trying to put yourself into one pigeon hole or another is somewhat self-defeating. My advice is to allow yourself to explore your sexuality and not worry about finding the proper pigeon hole or placing some name tag on it.
Everyone matures at a different pace, some people know exactly who and what they are from the very start. Others are more inquisitive and like to explore and make choices. Still there are others that feel safer being with their own kind, not yet ready to venture beyond themselves. If you want to be self-analytical you can find yourself within one of these choices; I would not bother. Just be yourself and one day you will know, then you can put a label on your sexuality and find the comfortable pigeon whole society requires of us.
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next time you're masturbating, think of somebody who's the same sex as you. if you're not turned on by that, then you're not gay.
-Gunner
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When instead of being attracted to the opposite sex ur attracted to the same sex as yourself and if your attracted to both then ur bisexual so basically if you have stronger feelings and sexual attractions to the same sex as yourself then your gay if not then your not :)
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