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Confused
I dated a guy for almost 2years he was my everything and he was my first. We fougt aloot but we always made up and we knew we loved eachother. things got bad to where we would fight and i would scream and cry every night but there was always something that kept us together. We lived about 20min away driving. But he would sometimes WALK to my house just to see me or get things straigted out no matter the weather. I cant explain our feelings and what we did for eachother. Finally i got tired of the crying and screaming and we broke up. I got a new bf whom ive been with for 2 and half years hes great and we barly fight i love him alot and i know he loves me more then the world and would do anything for me. However, i cannot stop thinking about my ex! hes in my dreams alot and i miss him terribly i feel guilty because i have a bf now but i cannot stop thinking about my ex i do notknow why hes in the military and i always told myself i wouldnt date a military guy but i would for him i dont know why...ive hung out with him be4 and things didnt go too smooth but no matter what i just cant stop thinking about him and i dont know why my current bf is great but my ex just wont leave me mind..
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Don't do anything drastic; like leaving your boyfriend for your ex. Your boyfriend makes you happy right? Then don't throw that away for a chance that isn't in your favor. You broke up with your ex for a reason, because you would constantly fight and make you feel bad. Why would you want to go back to that; when you have someone that you rarely fight with and would do anything for you. What else could you ask for in a relationship?
Stop yourself from thinking about him. If its what your doing then do something else. Write out a list of pro's and con's if you have to. If you have someone other then your boyfriend who you can tell anything to, then tell them what you've said in this question. Preferably someone older and who's had some good long relationships
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Divine...
okay I understand where you coming form
Im still in that situation but I know my reason why. you may don't notice but your inside is trying to run away from the fact that it over
like you don't want to believe that it over so inside your running away, but in your outside
you look ready.
also because your new love is in your life
and he better then your ex it also make it worst
for you because again on the inside you just don't know how to accept that your not screming and crying at night no more that your actually happy so it make you think even more about how different things was between you and your ex.
so what you need to do is just stop putting half of your time in which you used to have and be glad for what you got now it the same thing I doing and it working fine for me but you have to really mean it when you do this or else it just going to stay the same.
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