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im in love with my stepbrother.. what do i do?

Question Posted Wednesday December 16 2009, 7:07 pm

I am 16 years old & from Florida.
& so is the guy in my story.

here's the story...

Last October(2008)I met my stepbrother.
when i laid my eyes on him, I was immediately attracted. He was taller than me, finally! someone taller.. he had long hair and was/is skaterish looking. When we met he was formally dressed. He was on his way to church. Which is one of the things I love about him. He's christian and saving himself for marriage like me. Its so hard to find somebody like that these days.. He also plays guitar,sings a little, and is learning piano. Great, a musician. could he make it any harder me?! Anyways, his mother and I are the best of friends and she tells me everything about him. she and her daughter, my stepsister, even once compared us because we supposably have the same personality. which is awesome because i find myself kind of interesting. But the problem is that we are extremely shy around each other. If we have the same personality then I imagine him to be goofy and funny. But whenever we're around each other its just akward. So akward that we dont even talk. Not to each other, not to anyone. Thanksgiving the whole family was their and we were the only ones not talking at the table. Everyone was asking us if we were okay at times but I really wasnt. I'm falling in love with boy that is supposed to be like a brother figure now that my dad and his mom are married but I cant help it. I cant control my feelings, or what my heart desires. I daydream and he pops out of nowhere; I can't get him out of my head. We're related but not blood. Is that wrong? What should I do?

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Symbolizer answered Sunday December 20 2009, 4:12 am:
it feels really akward because you both like eachother even though you both know its wrong.

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DiVine answered Thursday December 17 2009, 2:33 pm:

yes this is directly out the question
only because you being his step sister is alomost
like being his sister plus it in the law
also in the bible {i think don't want to get to lying on that part} but it is completely worng
and if you and your stepmom is close then you should ask just don't inform her that it about you till you hear what she have to say on it
casue some family say it okay but it not good

and don't feel bad or whatever cause everyone always catch them self in that kind of positions
some an up being in that position till the find out the news.

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MsB answered Thursday December 17 2009, 12:45 pm:
Its wrong, because technically your not related. If you were blood, then that would be another problem. If you think you'd like to start a relationship with him, then you need to talk to him about it. And then talk to your step mom or Dad about it. But, it is definitely not wrong to date your stepbrother. May be a bit awkward, but, not wrong.

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