Question Posted Thursday December 17 2009, 9:44 am
So I met this guy Kirk at a bar the other night and I thought he was so sexy. I thought he kept looking at me but then I turned and he'd be looking elsewhere. Well my friend works with him and he asked my friend if I was in a relationship with my guy friend I was hanging out with. He told my friend I had a lot of spunk and that it was a great asset. I take it as he likes me what do you think? How should I pursue this further with him? Any ideas? I just got this news today and it made my day!! Thanks! :)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? gr8fruit answered Friday December 18 2009, 9:46 pm: Hi,
How do you know he was really looking elsewhere? Maybe he wasn't... maybe he was... I think he may like you, but you will never know for sure unless you see him again and make a move.. such as looking him in the eyes and holding his attention for a minute. First you have got to talk to him though to make sure he is interested or is at least a suitable (single!) candidate. You don't want to get yourself in too deep if its not worth it. But, I would definately talk to him. If it goes out well and you get along with him, you could flirt a little, wink at him, touch his shoulder, and maybe one time you could order him a drink from across the bar ;) Just be friendly and outgoing.. It should go smoothly from there <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
laynemayhem answered Thursday December 17 2009, 5:13 pm: i wouldn't get too ahead of yourself. i mean, you only saw this guy in a bar once. you guys didn't even talk. i think you should tell your friend to "casually" mention you're going to the bar again on saturday, or whenever you plan to go. and then if he DOES want to get to know you, he'll be there again. and if he is, then you can go up and talk to him. [ laynemayhem's advice column | Ask laynemayhem A Question ]
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