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Why can't i let go?
Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 4:55 am
i been with my man for 3 yrs. i love him still i think, but there is so much pain in our relationship no matter what i do i end up crying every day. i don't have any friends any more any rarly talk to my family.i don't no where to turn it scares me because my hole life i've never had any thing good, i loose it. i don't no if i'm happy any more, i dont know if i even still know myself. Everything i do is for him, why do i do so much with nothing but pain in return. He won't let me leave him and even if i did i always go right back. Why? I just want to be happy with my life again, I don't want to cry any more. But i don't have any one to turn to any more i lost everything and one for him, and i don't think i ca get them back. why do i stay wh...
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am i getting bored or what exactly is going on?
Posted Sunday December 27 2009, 4:45 am
16/f
i actually don't know how i feel about my boyfriend anymore, i don't know why but when i see him nothing really pops up, it's just normal.. it feels like it's an everyday thing or something. he even started noticing that i didn't seem so happy to see him or be with him, so now i act like i am. usually we get into arguements, but i'm tired of it so i end up avoiding any sort of conflict and stuff. i don't really want him to touch me as much or a kiss just seems like a regular kiss. i'm not sure whether my mind is just bored and wanting something new and if i'm just acting like i'm happy. or if i really am happy but i think that i'm bored, if you know what i mean. for example, you don't know what you have until you lose it...
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AHHHH.
Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 10:07 pm
OKAY. Had the same boyfriend for..4 1/2 months now. I'm really starting to have these intense passionate feelings for him. We're even starting to talk about having sex. Like, i feel like i love him. But i CANT trust him. Like, i have this friend. she's seriously..the biggest slut you will ever meet. and i guess he was with his friends and they all hung out. so when this happened i TOLD HIM UPFRONT i don't like him doing that, and that it makes me real upset..so..now..on facebook..hes TALKING to her. like honestly, WHAT THE FUCK. Also..whenever im with him..his phone goes off like 200 times. and its all girls. and it just like..i don't know! He gets mad at me for not trusting him..but honestly, how can i! I talked to my bestfriend about this...
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Where do all his hormones go!?
Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 8:58 pm
My boyfriend, 15 and I, 14 are very close. We've been together for a year and a half. He's NOT gay. I'm just wondering why we don't do anything. We've never been on a date. Well, football games but nothing specified, "date" material. We HAVEN'T KISSED. We do some things though. We touch each others legs? I've kissed his neck? We hug (: haha. I just want to KNOW that i'm turning him on. He says I do but... I'm just not too sure. When we're at lunch, I'll touch his leg and as my hand gets more "up there" (not his penis just upper,upper thigh) He won't let. He'll move his legs closer together and he'll move to holding my hand instead. What does this mean? Do I turn him on? I know this is a good guy, but... seriously?
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Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 3:30 pm
is true...i think am just going to let things go..if he actually wanted something with me he would come back..back he never did..and i give him a chance he is going to do it again ;(
--there is this other kid i liked, we started texting since novemnber,my friend told em his ex cheeted on him too. but then i found out he was talking to another girl..i was really dissapointed because he always askes me to go to the movies with him and stuff...and 2 days ago he asked me to chill this weeked..so am kinda confused..but he really wants to meet me which is a good thing, and he calles me sweety and in the night if he fallas asleep he text me in the morning like at 1pm telling me he is sorry that he felled asleep..maybe he just wants to see what girl is right for me...humm what do you think?
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Long Distance Relationship
Posted Saturday December 26 2009, 1:14 pm
hey im a female and 17 years old. I am just wondering what anyone thinks of a long distance relationship? You think its not a good idea or do you think it couldnt work out? Long distance,as in 4 hours apart? but still in the same state. Because this summer I had this thing with this guy up north and we got to hang out when I took time to drive up there and stuff but I liked him and he liked me and I dont know, I just want some opinions. Please itd be great.
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Say something to make me stop loving him.
Posted Friday December 25 2009, 9:45 pm
I don't even want to say I love him, but I think it's true. I don't want to think of him this way. He is my best friend. I can't tell anyone, "Hey, I lied I still like him. Hey, I'm not over him. Hey, I feel empty inside because he said he was going to love me forever, but he doesn't." I can not especially tell him. I told him a month ago that I would never mention "us" anymore, and I've kept to my word. By now he must believe that I am over him. I hope he does think that. But if he truly does, then it truly means he does not care and that he has moved on. It's so easy for him to mope about other girls and talk about them and me to give him advice, to cheer him on, to tell him to not give up. I tell him that he'll meet t...
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Telling her...
Posted Friday December 25 2009, 8:44 pm
17/m
Ok, so I really like this girl, and I want to tell her how I feel. I feel that she needs to know this. I want to know a good way to tell her this. If she doesn't feel the same way, that's fine, I just want to tell her, but I don't want to ruin our friendship, because we're really good friends. So, what's something I can say so she can know how I feel, but not ruin our friendship if she doesn't like me too?
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Worst Situation with a guy.
Posted Friday December 25 2009, 7:55 pm
So Ive come to realize I'm in a nigtmare of a situation with a guy. For the last 3-4 years ive liked the same guy on and off,but mostly on. He liked me on and off as well but i liked him more than he liked me. We were young...about 14 and we had sex. I thought that meant he liked me(my ignorance) yet I didn't realize that he was just trying to get some action. He had many girlfriends and it hurt me to see him with them,but he would cheat on them with me so it made me think he liked me (again my ignorance). Then at a time when he didnt have a girlfriend he told me "im his girl and one day we will eventually go out" and then i hooked up with someone else and he got mad and got in a actual fist fight with the kid i hooked up with,so ...
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dont know what to do
Posted Friday December 25 2009, 6:46 pm
hey..i been struggling for 5 months after my boyfriend broke up with me..i been really sad and dont know what to do :(...
here is my story am sorry if its too long..
ok we we lasted 2 yrs and 2 months going out but then he left to the dominican republic and he cheeted on me overdere with another girl...he posted pictures on myspace and when he came back i confronted him about it..he told me that was his cousin..but i actually got to talk to the girl and she told me that he was her boyfriend.my heart just dropped...i cant believe he actually did this to me because he loved me and he did alot of things for me...now he is here and he tells me to go to his house in the night so his parents wont see me ..but its just to have sex..i...
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Guys..
Posted Thursday December 24 2009, 9:37 pm
I really need to move on from my last relationship. It's been almost 5 months and I still can't. I went out with him for more than a year, and he is over me completely while I am not.
Also, we have a baby together. He was just born, I need to know how I can meet people if I'm always stuck at home?
I don't go to public school, and I have lost contact with a lot of my friends :(
I really need to know how to meet new people, also if you have any stories at all similar to mine please tell?
Thanks
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my girlfriend.
Posted Thursday December 24 2009, 2:41 pm
she says she likes guys giving her head compared to her girlfriend. and the only guy that gave her head was her fucking uncle. that incestic.
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what am i supposed to get!?
Posted Thursday December 24 2009, 2:30 pm
Im 15f. ok there is this guy i have been texting. He likes me and told me he loved me, but i dont trust that easily. he is shy and barely ever talks to me in school, but he will txt me. everyone in school knows he likes me anyways but i think its becuase he is just shy. he told me he bought me a necklace for christmas. i dont know him real well so idk wat to get him. i dont think i want to get him candy so i jus have no idea. can someone please help me with ideas? please give as many as you can!
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Is it Normal?
Posted Thursday December 24 2009, 1:44 pm
14/m
Sometimes i feel like i want a girlfriend sometimes i don't care. Is it normal?
Also why can't i find someone? I think im ok looking or just below that. Im not fat im 140lbs and im very athletic and i lift weights im also tall. I haven't done anything with a girl and im shy like really shy. What could i do? I don't really talk to girls, not even my friends that are girls i just txt them. I've had one girlfriend and it lasted a week and it was this year in September.
Any advice would b helpful thanks!
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boy troubles..
Posted Thursday December 24 2009, 2:44 am
So ive been dating this guy for almost a year, and things are going great! Except for the fact that i sometimes find myself thinking im not over my ex.. my ex and i had dated for almost 2 years, so its sorta obvious that it took a bit to get over him.. but i cant understand the reason ,that almost a year an a half later, i still catch myself falling for him... i sometimes think that i ant to be ith my ex again... i kno its not right to be feeling like this since im in a great relationship, ho can i get over this, or do you think itd be best to go back ith the ex, since i cant seem to get over him? any advice is appriciated, thanks! :)
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i really like a guy i work with
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 11:24 pm
Ok, im 18 and a girl and there is this one really cute gy that i work with, hes kinda my brothers friend but they never really hang out. he's 2 years older than me and i like everything about him especially his personality. i just dont know if he likes me or not, we recently just had a class together. he did talk to me a few times but they were about our college class, i dont really know how to tell if he likes me or not, please help
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no butterflies
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 10:36 pm
i've felt that butterfly sensation before when I saw people i liked...all fluttery and happy
i like someone else now and i've noticed when i see him its not that light fluttery feeling, it's more of a queasy, out of breath sensation. i love it just as much as i love butterflies though, but i was just wondering if it was normal...haha thank you :)
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I need to learn how to kiss someone
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 5:21 pm
Help plz
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am I being greedy with him.
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 5:02 pm
Okay well me and my boyfriend just made a year on december 4th . And we haven't been a going out anywhere since the summer . And brought me perfume on our anniversary but before that he hasn't got me anything since september .we haven't been going 2 the movies or out to eat or anything . I just been goin to his house to chilll. Do you think im being a little to greedy of wanting things . I mean cuz I dnt mind going to his house but I like to do other things besides cuddling up and watchin t.v at his house I think im worth more then that . I feel there is other ways to show that you love someone.so I just want to know am I being greedy . Or should I tell him he needs to make some changes if he wants us to last any longer
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Dance and ditch
Posted Wednesday December 23 2009, 3:41 pm
I've been invictemed to a harsh and suprising dance and ditch. That's all I have to say to describe that. I was wondering if anyone had some tips on overcoming this. Thanks a bunch!
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