Question Posted Thursday December 24 2009, 9:37 pm
I really need to move on from my last relationship. It's been almost 5 months and I still can't. I went out with him for more than a year, and he is over me completely while I am not.
Also, we have a baby together. He was just born, I need to know how I can meet people if I'm always stuck at home?
I don't go to public school, and I have lost contact with a lot of my friends :(
I really need to know how to meet new people, also if you have any stories at all similar to mine please tell?
Thanks
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? justaskrandee answered Friday December 25 2009, 11:45 pm: Maybe for now, you need to focus on raising your child. You are in school with a baby. Concentrate on your school work and becoming a good mother. You'll have plenty of time to meet someone. Just be patient, the right person will come to you. But you must be careful in deciding who is right or wrong for you. You have someone else to think about besides yourself now. There are a lot of sick people out here, be carefull; and please, make sure you are comfortable and know as much as possible about someone before introducing them to your daughter. [ justaskrandee's advice column | Ask justaskrandee A Question ]
krisdee2010 answered Friday December 25 2009, 8:40 pm: all you went out with him little over a year and you cant get over him... do you honestly think you would want to spend the rest of your life with him honestly think about it like... i know your young but from what it sounds like you didnt live with him and you probably had sex with him that means the d*ck was great if you say you cant get over him.. the friends you have now will be the ones that will always stick to your side forever just keep tight with the friends you have now... and hang out with them go to parties go to the mall.. your young and beautiful dont let some loser ruin life for you [ krisdee2010's advice column | Ask krisdee2010 A Question ]
christina answered Friday December 25 2009, 7:33 pm: This guy doesn't really sound too great. You guys have broken up despite having a child together, so you know he isn't fit to be a father. What you need to realize is that you're better off without him.
To be honest, meeting people is the last thing you should be worried about is meeting people. You have a son to care for now. It isn't all about you anymore. When having a child, friends are no longer a priority. They're fun to have, but your child is something you should be focused on, not a friendship.
Take care of your son, take some time to grow up as well, and once you're settled (with a steady job, etc) then go back out into the friendship thing. As for now, worry about your son. He is the priority here. [ christina's advice column | Ask christina A Question ]
Farrah123 answered Friday December 25 2009, 12:58 pm: Alright honey for the guy problem, from what i heard he isn't a great guy. Relationships are hard to just get through fast, i know but you need to see that you are an independent women with a baby. You will see that throughout time you will see that he wasnt good for you. Dont try to get over him too quickly because it wont work. About you meeting people, i have two suggestions. First i suggest you stay at home for a while. You have a newborn that needs you right now. I am sure you still have contacts with some of your friends so if you do contact them and have them come over. If they are true friends they will come. If your determined to meet new people if its a nice day take your baby out for a walk in the park where new people are always at. Also the mall is a good place too. Either place you can go with or without your baby.
I hope i helped,
Xoxo, Farrah G. [ Farrah123's advice column | Ask Farrah123 A Question ]
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