Question Posted Thursday December 24 2009, 1:44 pm
14/m
Sometimes i feel like i want a girlfriend sometimes i don't care. Is it normal?
Also why can't i find someone? I think im ok looking or just below that. Im not fat im 140lbs and im very athletic and i lift weights im also tall. I haven't done anything with a girl and im shy like really shy. What could i do? I don't really talk to girls, not even my friends that are girls i just txt them. I've had one girlfriend and it lasted a week and it was this year in September.
monstergirl answered Friday December 25 2009, 4:39 am: Invite a girl/girls out to lunch/dinner/bowling/movie at your house/hang in your town with some of her friends and some of your friends. You'll be able to open up easier to the girls without feeling pressured and your friends will be there to back you up. Afterwards texts the girls a little bit (it shows that you're interested) just like casual "hey BLANK was really fun today we should do it again" or "hey what are you doing next..." set up plans. If you become friends with girls it'll be easier to talk to girls you really have feelings for and then you can go and date them. But don't rush it you're young.
Niinakins answered Friday December 25 2009, 1:33 am: heyy. dont worry its normal what your feeling. if your looking for a girlfriend i think your problem is that your shy :):) although i thinks its cute some girls might not like shy boys. so try to amp it up a bit. and if your in one of those moods where you dont want a girlfriend then just look hot and dont worry about it. dont rush yourself. hope i helped. -niina. [ Niinakins's advice column | Ask Niinakins A Question ]
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