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i really like a guy i work with
Ok, im 18 and a girl and there is this one really cute gy that i work with, hes kinda my brothers friend but they never really hang out. he's 2 years older than me and i like everything about him especially his personality. i just dont know if he likes me or not, we recently just had a class together. he did talk to me a few times but they were about our college class, i dont really know how to tell if he likes me or not, please help
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I've always liked the direct approach. If it were me, I would just ask him if he would like to go out to the movies or dinner. Sometimes the only way to find something out is to just ask.
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There are lots of ways of finding out if someone likes you, but some people are very subtle about the way they show you. Generally, if guys, in particular, remember some detail about you and repeat it back randomly, they might be interested in you; their subtle way of showing you they care about what you say/who you are. Also, if a guy makes an effort to talk to you often, they may be interested in you- guys, unlike girls, don't usually go out of their way to talk to you or make plans with you, unless they like you in some way (girls might just think the guy is nice, for example, and just want to hang out as friends). You might notice if a guy looks at you in a certain way at times, like a shy sort of glance. There isn't a sure fire way of knowing if a guy is into you, but sometimes you can just tell. In your case, it might be a good idea to suggest meeting for coffee or something outside class- see how he responds. Either he likes you, and will not turn down a chance to meet up with you at some point, or he only sees you as a friend, and will either A) meet for coffee (or whatever) but only as friends, aka, no flirting, asking you out, etc., or B) not meet up with you, so as to not give you the wrong impression. I am no expert, believe me. But I have been in enough situations like this, in which I have sensed patterns. You will too- people generally do similar things/act in certain ways when they like someone. It's up to you to figure out for sure if he is attracted to you, and if so, would like to maybe go out with you. Just remember- many things in life are intuitive.
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