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am i a psycho?


Posted Saturday March 6 2010, 4:21 am

so my boyfriend and i have this agreement that when we go out and party we tell each other first and then call each other when we get back to just say a quick goodnight and to make sure we got back fine because we live far apart. He has been going out a lot lately and i haven't. And he keeps not holding his end up but it really hurts me because i expect it and then it doesn't happen. We have been through it and i threatened to break up with him over it before. I don't want to end our 2 year relationship over something this stupid because i know he hasn't cheated or done anything deliberately to hurt me. He gets home and passes out. Meanwhile, I wake up and then cry myself to sleep. I know, pathetic right? Anyway it causes a lot of emotio...

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what does tight hugging mean


Posted Friday March 5 2010, 10:40 pm

Can anybody tell me what it means if someone always hugs you really tight?

Does it mean you are more than friends? Does it mean they want to be more than friends? For real, what does tight hugging mean?

Anybody?

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I love your son letter to your boyfriends mom?


Posted Friday March 5 2010, 8:37 pm

Hi everybody,

I would like to write a letter to my boyfriend's mom basically just telling her how much I love her son. I guess the big problem is that I don't want to sound stupid or come across like a psychopath!

She is a great lady, and I can definitely see her son and I getting married someday. My boyfriend has dated a few girls before that treated him very badly. He has suffered a very broken heart more than once, so I really want to do this to help her stop looking at me like I am just the next girl to try and break her son's heart.

Does anyone have any suggestions? Is there anything I should not say?

I thank you.

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Guy going down on a girl?


Posted Friday March 5 2010, 7:42 pm

Okay so I am a 23-year-old female who has never had a guy go down on her. It isn't that there haven't been offers, I guess the thought just terrifies me!

I have all the usual fears that girls have about these things, you know like smells and tastes... things like that. I am about to get married to a man who says he wants to go down on me, but I am more terrified of that than I am of getting married!

Should I just relax and let it happen? Is it everything that they say it is?

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Scared to break-up with boyfriend.


Posted Friday March 5 2010, 7:08 pm

I need to break up with my long-dist relationship boyfriend. We've been dating 7 months. There's no real reason to break up except..I sent him a pic that wasn't me. I know, I know. I'm too ashamed to tell him the truth, and I'm supposed to be 'visiting' him in a month. I need to end it, what do I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings, so nothing like 'I don't love you anymore' or whatever.

I was thinking of saying something along the lines of my dad disapproves, and I have to end it with you, or he'll kick me out or something. I know, just lying more. But seriously, I just want to get out of this now, it's my own fault and I know now to never do it again. Any help would be appreciated, thanks.

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how to give a guy a signals that you like him


Posted Friday March 5 2010, 6:24 pm

hi everybody!

So I guess you know the story, there is this boy and I like him. My problem is that I don't just want to come right out and say "hey I like you" so what do I do?

What I really need to know is how to give a guy signals that you like him?

Can anybody help me with this? If you can I would be truly grateful.

Thank you!

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Friends but I wish more


Posted Friday March 5 2010, 1:02 am

Ok here goes... I am a 26 year old female... And it's this guy that I've known for about 6 years now... We first started dating six years ago.. We dated for about three months and then he dumped me... We were broken up for two weeks... when he asked me to be friends with benifits... So we were that for a while... And it didn't work out so on again off again we dated... and remain friends... He's currently single and so am I... I got in a relationship with a guy for a year and I was madly in love with him... He ended up breaking my heart and... My friend/ ex was there by myside... But for about the last 4 years I really didn't look at him for like more than a friend but lately I say the past month I have been starting to catch feelings again...

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Taking long to respond?!!?


Posted Thursday March 4 2010, 12:24 pm

Hi Guys
Me & my Boyfriend have been dating for a few weeks now & at first we used to text eachother quite a lot, not LOTS but y'know. Now when I text him he replies like 4 hours later. I Mean im not acting all crazy like what is he doing, who is he with etc, I Understand he could be doing things, but its jus that he didnt take this long to reply before so I think hes purposely replying to me late on. By This time I dont have much time to talk, Its Late etc. Do Guys just do this???

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ExXx love :'(


Posted Wednesday March 3 2010, 11:27 pm

So there's this guy.. i like him alot, we text literally non stop we hang out, we vid chat allll this and he's admitted that he likes me.. like as a person not just for pussy, and ive nevver had that before.. but he's caught up on his ex still and they're kinda starting to talk again.. idk what to do... he still constantly talks to me and wont date his ex again cuz somethings holding him back and everyone says that something.. is me.. ! ugh what to do ?

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Do you think the feelings are mutual here?


Posted Wednesday March 3 2010, 7:00 pm

Hi,I'm an 18 yr old female from Canada
okay so there's this guy who I like for almost 2 years now, this all started when we had 2 classes together in grade 11 and I would notice that he would stare at me all the time. I didn't like him then, but then I started to have a crush on him because I thought he was cute. so I decided to tell him that I liked him through a secret admirer e-mail and he later found out that it was me. So he told me that he didn't want to waste my time b.c he had a g.f..o.k fine, but after that, he would still stare at me...whenever i would walk by him, he wouldn't look at me until i would turn around to look back at him, then I would see him look back at me at the same time. So a yr passed and we didn't really ...

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How do you know if you're in love?


Posted Wednesday March 3 2010, 3:04 pm

I know you can't tell me whether or not I'm in love, but I was just wondering what made you know for sure that you loved someone?
I'm only 19, so I feel like I'm not sure that I know what love is. Then again I know people my age who are getting married (crazy, I know).

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Can't find the time/privacy to have sex with my boyfriend!


Posted Wednesday March 3 2010, 2:47 pm

Hello! Here's the introduction: 17 (almost 18)/female and my boyfriend is the same... except male...
So, we have a real problem. With lots of little problems interspersed. My boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year and we believe we truly are in love. We have a very stable relationship and have tons of fun. However, as it is being in most relationships, we want to have sex. We've had sex twice before and it was AMAZING! Better than either of us expected, lol... but now... Now we can never ever seem to find the time/privacy to do it. There are so many problems that prevent us from doing it!
1. My parents work from home so they're basically ALWAYS home.
2. His parents don't trust us to be in a room alone ...

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Wanting out of a bad marriage!


Posted Wednesday March 3 2010, 9:37 am

My husband and I have been married for almost 3 years now. We have a 2 year old son and another on the way. However, I am not happy anymore... He is such a little child and doesn't want to man up to anything! He doesn't work (or doesn't "want" to work i should say). All he does is sit at home all day and play video games and spends all my hard earned money on CRAP! I'm so sick of it! He doesn't help me out with the house or kids and acts like he doesn't care.

Anyway, I have been miserable for a long time, but never had the guts to actually leave him... until recently, I have met this really awesome guy who makes me feel so good about myself and is totally bringing out my husband's flaws in a brighter light. I'm not...

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"I love you."


Posted Wednesday March 3 2010, 1:33 am

We're both in our mid-20's; female here.

I have been completely jaded for at least a year as far as love is concerned.

I was in a terrible, on-and-off relationship with this jerk, who I finally got rid of. I've started dating this new guy about a month ago, and I feel SO strongly for him, it's kinda shocking. We've been friends for a few years, and I know he really likes me, and he has for awhile. I just hadn't grown up enough to appreciate a good guy VS a jerk. This guy is an incredible man. He's on my level intellectually (which is really important to me), I can really be myself around him, he thinks I'm beautiful even with no makeup on and tears streaming down my face, I say stupid things and he thinks it'...

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what's this guy's deal!?


Posted Tuesday March 2 2010, 11:56 pm

hey i am a 19/f. i've posted 2 questions about this guy in my class. well anyways, he's weird. he doesn't really talk to me. i can't seem to ever seem to start a conversation. and outside of class as well. whenever he sees me outside of class he always smiles at me. i mean ALWAYS. we talked on facebook a few times but about art appreciation class. i was in his group one day when we had to to do review groups. this girl was asking us what painter painted this piece and i answered it partly & then he gave the rest of the answer. & i noticed in our group he was trying to take charge, which usually something i like to do. and also when i asked him what imperialism was he told me what it was, and i kind of was texting someone. & then...

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ex's daughter?


Posted Tuesday March 2 2010, 11:53 pm

So the past 2 days I have been at home because I had surgery I usually go to my gfs house. Well lately she has been going to her ex's house and picking up her daughter, because her daughter and my gfs son was close. Thats cool but she goes to get her and then shes there til like 10pm my gf barely texts me and the little girl lives 5 mins away but it takes her an hour to text me back. I am not jealous but concerned and she said she texted her ex sayin thank you for letting "mary" come over is she texting her more and if the girl is there for my gfs son then why is she barely texting me? she says shes not doing nothing wrong and dont seem why im upset??

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What do you guys think about this?


Posted Tuesday March 2 2010, 9:54 pm

Hi, I'm an 18 yr old female, just had a question, What if you found out the guy/girl you like, has been constantly viewing your profile on facebook with profile checker, they were in your top 10, what would you think of this?

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is it wrong?


Posted Tuesday March 2 2010, 7:28 pm

ok i'm a female, 18 years old..so theirs this guy, and he is asian. He is kinda short and i'm taller then him. i know that relationships shouldn't matter on physical elements but i just don't know if that is weird or wrong.. i mean i don't know if i like him..but would it be wrong not to like him because of the fact he is shorter then me. He is also one year older then me . i just don't know what to think. Please give me your opinion! thx

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pregnant


Posted Tuesday March 2 2010, 6:35 pm

My ex bf 21 and I 20 were together for a yr and a half on and off. we finally broke up for good. but i just found out im pregnant! yes, it is his kid. i have not dated or had sex with anyone since our breakup. how do i talk to him about it. i know i should do it in person, but ive never been pregnant so what do i say? Thank you!

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I'm in love with my best guy friend.


Posted Tuesday March 2 2010, 4:18 pm

Okay so theres this guy (lets call him Bob) that I have slowly began to really really like throughout the year. It all started out with me liking this other guy, but then I found out he liked my best friend (lets call her Trish)So I
was upset about that for a while, but then I noticed that one of my friends that I've known since 4th grade, is really cute!

Bob and I weren't the best of friends yet but we still talked to each other, and we ended up trying out for the school play together and we both got in. Thats when it started, we started talking everyday and going out with friends every weekend. He would call me and ask what the plans were and he was also in numerous of my classes during school. He plays this game th...

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