Can't find the time/privacy to have sex with my boyfriend!
Question Posted Wednesday March 3 2010, 2:47 pm
Hello! Here's the introduction: 17 (almost 18)/female and my boyfriend is the same... except male...
So, we have a real problem. With lots of little problems interspersed. My boyfriend and I have been together for just under a year and we believe we truly are in love. We have a very stable relationship and have tons of fun. However, as it is being in most relationships, we want to have sex. We've had sex twice before and it was AMAZING! Better than either of us expected, lol... but now... Now we can never ever seem to find the time/privacy to do it. There are so many problems that prevent us from doing it!
1. My parents work from home so they're basically ALWAYS home.
2. His parents don't trust us to be in a room alone when they're in the house, much less when they're gone.
3. He has a 4 little brothers that follow us around everywhere. I adore them... but they never leave us alone!
4. I drive, but I don't have a car and my boyfriend doesn't drive because of an accident he had when he was 15.
See?! Everything that could prevent us is put into play. It's so messed up. The two times we had sex were under fluke circumstances that probably can never be created again. What do we do? I don't think we can wait til we're in college because that's still about 6 months away...
Additional info, added Wednesday March 3 2010, 8:30 pm: It has come to my attention that people aren't answering this question because in the "about the questioner" section, it states I am 13. Now, I started here on advicenators when I was 13... and it says that in my advice column. However, since I NEVER use my adivce column, I have yet to change it. But, let me assure you (and please, trust me... because all I can give you is my word), I really am almost 18, going to college within the year, and am very responsible with my sex life. So no, you're not giving advice to a pre-pubescent girl. . Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Swiftlyhope answered Monday March 8 2010, 2:03 pm: Well the only solution I can think of is get a bus to a hotel and say your going to your friends you could do it someone remote if you can't find a hotel or just do it in the toilet of a shoppingcentre [ Swiftlyhope's advice column | Ask Swiftlyhope A Question ]
orphans answered Thursday March 4 2010, 10:00 am: wow...ive never noticed this "about the questioner" feautre...and i cant find it. Maybe you can tell me when you rate, if you choose to COUGHRATECOUGH...lol just joking
But, you can just book a hotel/motel room? Me and My girlfriend used to do that, and there was this hotel where rooms were only 9-18$!!!!! maybe you can find something like that? thats all i can think of? and also when his parents are out, cant you just say that you're going to be watching tv or something and go to his room? i dont know though [ orphans's advice column | Ask orphans A Question ]
WittyUsernameHere answered Wednesday March 3 2010, 6:54 pm: You claim to be 17, however in your about the questioner it says that you are 13 years of age. It is not kosher to give kids your age advice on sex, as it falls loosely under the criminal heading of corrupting a minor. [ WittyUsernameHere's advice column | Ask WittyUsernameHere A Question ]
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