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Friends but I wish more
Ok here goes... I am a 26 year old female... And it's this guy that I've known for about 6 years now... We first started dating six years ago.. We dated for about three months and then he dumped me... We were broken up for two weeks... when he asked me to be friends with benifits... So we were that for a while... And it didn't work out so on again off again we dated... and remain friends... He's currently single and so am I... I got in a relationship with a guy for a year and I was madly in love with him... He ended up breaking my heart and... My friend/ ex was there by myside... But for about the last 4 years I really didn't look at him for like more than a friend but lately I say the past month I have been starting to catch feelings again for him... I really starting to like him but he haven't made any move towards trying something special with him so all we do is like talk on the phone and we live bout five minutes from each other... My question is... Do you think that it's cool to back track or do you believe that it will never work... Should I continue looking at him as a friend or should I just foget about it... Please help me!
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In my opinion, i think your just trying to re-light a candle that has allready blown out so to speak. Maybe its because you are getting lonely? because you did get your heart broken?
If it didnt work out the many times you tried, i dont think it will work again? But then again, only you can trust your instincts. I say, If you try to meet new people, then you may realise someone else thats actually for you, wont break your heart, and that you love.
But then again, going for it with this guy, could be the last chance with him, and if you REALLY REALLY love/like him, then go for it. Maybe he thinks you're over him, because you were in love with another guy for a year, and you obviousely didnt have feelings for the other fella during this time.
Only you know if you should go for it. Would it make sence to try again and again and again? Or are you just giving your heart more attention that your head?
Hope it works out :)
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