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I'm a female that is 26 this is my second question but this is totally different from the other... Well in bout 2007 I met this guy... Quickly we jumped into a relationship and I felldeep in love with him... He was always around my family... And I have a daughter and she grew a close attachment to him... So in may of 2008 he left me... He never gave me closure he never even really explain why... He just dodge me and never answered my phone calls or anything else... And as a result my daughter was deeply hurt... and my family were to because he developed a close bond with them... And days later after he left he started dating others going out etc etc... And he ended up back dating his sisters best friend which was his ex the girl his mom liked better than me.. And when I found that out i was deeply hurt... I became very bitter and resentful towards him and I even build up hatred in my heart towards him... And you know it took me about a whole year to get over him... But anyway his sister and I are friends on Facebook... And I dound out that about 4 months ago his cousin and father died just weeks ago... He didnt tell me nor his sister but I read it on her facebook wall.. So heres this I feel sorry for his family but I really dont have remorse for him... I kinda happy that he suffered like I did for so long... But deep down inside I'm a better person then that... So I know I shouldnt feel that way... But he was so coldhearted towards me so in my heart I really feel no sympathy towars his feelings... Before you say that I'm wrong When he left me I was three months pregnant and as a result I lost my baby...
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You were hurt, you have a right to not feel bad for him. You WOULD be wrong if you decided to just be rude to him if he tried to call you or facebookchat you. If he did do that, and you were nice, but sympathetic, that would be the right thing to do.
Now, you are not wrong. He hurt you, and didnt even tell you why. He ignored you and he left you when you were pregnant with his child. You totally have a right to start cursing him out and give him a hit in his "private parts", but quite honestly, this is not the time to do so. I would recommend just not talking to him. If he tries to contact you, be polite and say, "Im sorry for your loss, but i have to go now".
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