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Age difference.
Posted Monday March 15 2010, 12:44 am
I'm a senior in high school and this boy who
I kind of like (and clearly likes me) is a freshman. If he was my age or older I would 100% want to date him. But I feel like that is too big of an age gap for where we are right now. I know when we are older it won't be, but now I mean when I think of myself from freshmen year to now I have really matured. I can't even ask any friends about this because I'm embarrassed. And in the summer I told my best friend and she didn't approve and such. It's not so much I care of my friends opinions but my family. It's my brothers good friend and yeah. So I don't know. What do you think?
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Does my husband really want a baby?
Posted Monday March 15 2010, 12:41 am
When I told my husband I was pregnant he really didn't get too excited he just kept watching tv. Then not long after that I had a miscarriage and he said that it was for the best and not the right time. I was so upset. We have been married for 3 years and I have been desparately wanting a baby. He keeps saying we will try in a few months but when the time rolls around he keeps saying we will try soonbut not now. Now he says he wants to wait until we can afford a baby. To which I said, " If we wait until we can afford it we will never have a baby!" Sometimes I think he doesn't want a baby. Could I be right, or am I being selfish about wanting a baby now?
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Its Complicated
Posted Monday March 15 2010, 12:35 am
Hi.
15/f
So, i think this will be kinda long, sorry.
I have recntly developed feelings for my best guy friend (lets call him Tom*). So in year 7-8 me and tom went out for about 4 months but it was really awkward and strange.We have both gone out wiht other people since then. We became best friends again last year and its been really awesome. So now i like him and he likes me, it should be as simple as too go out like my friends said but i don't want to runin our friendship by doing this, i also don't know if i WANT a boyfriend right now as I'm in year 10 this year so i have heaps of assignments etc. He also won't talk to me about his feelings because we're never really alone, we only get to talk during maths and...
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brother's girl
Posted Sunday March 14 2010, 10:41 pm
this is about my brother.
-He really likes this girl and she is so sweet to him. he has only had one girlfriend because he is shy. The thing is that she is older than him and has had a lot of expierience. we live in the middle of nowhere as she lives towards the city, but they go to the same school. She is very outgoing and somewhat a rebel child as my brother is a quiet good boy. She wouldnt hurt him she is the sweetest girl you could meet and puts others before her, but he says she doesnt want a boyfriend right now but wants to go on a date. they like eachother and he is absolutly crazy about her. i dont know how she does it but he says she is so mysterious and leaves him wondering so often. he is so much more confident latley he e...
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i like this guy but not sure he likes me back?
Posted Sunday March 14 2010, 10:07 pm
well there is this guy that is like one of my best friends! im always flirting with him and he flirts with me back! Its just that hes always flirting with all the girls!so i dont think its anything "special"!! one of my friends keeps telling me he llikes me? i was just texting with him 2 days ago and said he liked this other girl? that really put me down!! what should i do?? im sooo confused!! :'(
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guys make me nervous..
Posted Sunday March 14 2010, 8:55 pm
14/f
for some guys have started making me nervous.
like i'm a social person and for some reason like a week ago when ever i've been around a guy a find attractive i get really nervous and i feel red. (i don't turn red but it feels it.)
so why did this start happening all of a sudden?
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boyfriend + other girl.
Posted Sunday March 14 2010, 6:09 pm
My boyfriend & I have been together over a year.
A couple of years back, he really liked this girl Cindy & his feelings were not returned. Thing is, they were really good friends then, and, because he never told her, are still good friends now.
However, it really brings me down whenever he mentions her. I guess it's partially because I've heard that Cindy looks a lot like me, and partially because I know he has more in common w/ her than w/ me. And my paranoia is probably playing a big part in this, too.
So is it normal for me to feel this way? If not, what should I do about it?
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communication.
Posted Sunday March 14 2010, 5:29 pm
If a couple has been together for ~1 year, how often should they see / talk to each other? Yes, every relationship is different. But not talking for months at a time is clearly .. not good, and neither is calling each other up every two minutes of the day.
So what's the happy medium?
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helpin and ex and getting went off on for it..
Posted Sunday March 14 2010, 3:28 pm
i broke up with my boyfriend of two years because i found out he was cheating on me for the last 4 or so months of it. then he went out of his way to turn people against me and break me down with all my weaknesses he knew, it was hell. but now his mom is in the hospital and not getting better. i was tryin to be nice and tell him shel get better n itl be ok and all. he went off on me, it just hurts i went out of my way to try and help them but now im hurt again.. how do i just give up on him? i love his family i dont want any thing to happen to any of them. what do i do?
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should we date? total oppasites in every way.
Posted Sunday March 14 2010, 3:23 pm
do oppasites really attract?
this guy i like is soo sweet and such a gentleman and a total musclehead and he does football and hunting and all, hes never been to a concert and has never played an instrument, he is totally against any type of smoking or drinking. he stays home most of the time and his parents are extremely strict though, he lives in the middle of nowhere and is a freshman. but he is extremely tall and built.
me on the other hand i live for art and music, i paint draw sculpt n all and do so much, for music i do guitar and know how to do piano n clarinet. i sing n write music and concerts are my favorite thing to go to. im always out with friends n never home and am very outgoing as he is quiet. i smoke but not c...
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fighting more with my husband
Posted Sunday March 14 2010, 12:15 am
Hello i asked a question about a month ago about my husband leaving for Afghanistan and how i was super emotional. He leaves in a few weeks and I've been noticing we've been not really fighting but arguing a lot more than we usually do, even about little things. I feel like I'm the one disagreeing more and in a sense causing the start of the "fight" Can anybody explain to me why this is happening? I know you don't know our relationship but we've always had a very strong and open one. Its just these past couple weeks everything is building up on me, stress, emotions etc. why am i taking it out on him? I dont want to fight with him as he leaves :( Somebody help!
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get him to kiss me
Posted Saturday March 13 2010, 11:33 pm
ok so this guy and i like each other. we have talked about it before, and we hang out all the time. The thing is, he is less experienced than i am ( i dont think he has even kissed a girl yet...) and that is totally fine with me but i think it is part of the reason that he hasnt kissed me yet. I know i could always be the one to initiate our first kiss but i kind of wanted him to be! Plus, he is a foot taller than i am so it would be a little difficult to kiss him without pulling his head down to mine. What are some ways i can make him want to kiss me when i am looking at him or sitting with him that arent too obvious or direct? thanks!
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About liking a boy who doesn't know me.
Posted Saturday March 13 2010, 8:37 pm
I'm a girl in 8th grade, (13) and I like this boy in my grade but he has no idea who I am. What do I do.
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im stuck in the middle..
Posted Saturday March 13 2010, 8:36 pm
h3y h3y im realli stuck becuz well i like this gurl and shes been my best friend since forever and she has a friend who i realli like too.. and i just cannot seem to decidie who i like more..and i dont wanna hurt some1 cuz they both like me wut should i do..am i a bad person for liking both?
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Posted Saturday March 13 2010, 8:35 pm
umm well i like this girl and umm weve kissed but as a dare and im pretty sure she likes me but idk shuld i ask her out?
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boyfriend of 6th months
Posted Saturday March 13 2010, 7:43 pm
i've been dating my boyfriend for almost six months now. we've gotten in MANY fights however most of them have been because of me. about a week and a half ago he broke up with me because we were fighting and hooked up with a 17 year old girl in the back of her van (he's 15; he met her on myspace the day before) it's the first thing he's really done wrong, but it isn't even that wrong because we wern't dating? anyway, i forgave him and everything's seemed perfect lately.. did i make the right choice? what could i do differently to avoid fighting? what's a good idea for a sixth month present for a guy that his parents buy him 349838348 dollars worth of clothes everyday, and he doesen't need any cd's or anything. i just can't think of anything...
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Is what I'm feeling normal?
Posted Saturday March 13 2010, 2:34 pm
15/f
Well,here's my story...after so many failed relationships(I've been hit,cheated on,lied to...the list goes on),in a row,I began to realize I couldn't care less about having a boyfriend.Now,when some of my friends even mention love and relationships,I feel sick...it makes me wanna throw up... I don't believe in love anymore...the more love I gave,the more I ended up being hurt.Don't say "You're really young and you have a life ahead of you".... I know that... but I've been disappointed too many times.I've even developed a fear of entering a relationship ever again.I feel as though my heart is slowly turning to stone.Then yet,deep down,I want to find someone who will love me unconditionally...but I keep closing up,more a...
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First Date- Sort of
Posted Saturday March 13 2010, 11:40 am
18/m.
Last saturday it was my friends 18th birthday, and we went to this restaurant for dinner, then hit a few clubs. During the restaurant, my friend introduced me to her friend (kate), who was at the restaurant, but for another party. My friend gave me kate's number, and i was texting her for awhile, and we've been talking on facebook abit since.
Today however, our mutual friend (who introduced us) arranged a sort of first date. Me, kate, and out mutual friend, all going to see a movie? My friend rang her, and asked if she wanted to see a movie, and then she told kate i 'might' be coming. Kate then said "should i be scared?", my friend said "no, dont worry, i'll be there". What the hell ...
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Is it possible?
Posted Saturday March 13 2010, 4:20 am
Okay well me and my boyfriend hasn't had sex or anything and I'm still a virgin, and I was wondering if it was possible that I can get pregnant and still be a virgin, but the reason I was asking was because the other day he got off and as soon as he got off he put some on his finger and the he fingered me and I have heard and thought it was true that when sperm hits air it dies then I read different today and I really thought you couldn't get pregnant from what we done but I really don't know I have read like a bunch of different things and I am so confused, but please answer this I'm really confused.
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Do i really need him?
Posted Saturday March 13 2010, 4:20 am
So me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two monthss and alittle more. We've broken about 6 to 7 times. And he was only sad the first 3 times we broke up after that he made it seem like it was whatever. And he is a jerk! He always says things to me like if he doesnt value what he has but at the same time his a sweet guy and i love him alot because thats the first guy i ever really really liked and had a connection with him. Every night i cry because he makes me feel like the bad guy which am not because i always try to work things out but when i tell him about my feelingss all he says it whatever or wow bye or something immature like that. I dont wanna let him go what can i do to change the way he treats me?
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