i've been dating my boyfriend for almost six months now. we've gotten in MANY fights however most of them have been because of me. about a week and a half ago he broke up with me because we were fighting and hooked up with a 17 year old girl in the back of her van (he's 15; he met her on myspace the day before) it's the first thing he's really done wrong, but it isn't even that wrong because we wern't dating? anyway, i forgave him and everything's seemed perfect lately.. did i make the right choice? what could i do differently to avoid fighting? what's a good idea for a sixth month present for a guy that his parents buy him 349838348 dollars worth of clothes everyday, and he doesen't need any cd's or anything. i just can't think of anything haha
oh and by the way dennis, if you know who this is, call me tonight?
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Even though your boyfriend broke up with you, He went and "hooked" up with some other girl? Well, If you ask me isn't that cheating? Although you two weren't technically dating at the moment you two WERE dating and the fact that you two were broken up for such a short time makes the issue so bad. Basically it's no different than him thinking "Well, I hooked up with this girl from myspace so now I"m going to dump my girlfriend so I can do whatever with this other girl and she can't call it cheating" The red flag is there, It's NOT okay. The fact that you forgave him... (In my opinion) you just told him what he did was okay.... Sounds like a jerk [ OhMyLucyDarling's advice column | Ask OhMyLucyDarling A Question ]
sml111992 answered Saturday March 13 2010, 8:08 pm: well this whole situation feels like your making excuses for this boy. and you only think that you start the fights is beacuse he said you did. you dont it takes two otherwise why would you BOTH be fighting you do realize that him hooking up with another girl breaking up for one night?! is gonna bother you for the rest of your guys relationship. what happends if one day you guys get in a huge fight and break up is he gonna hook up with someone everytime? if i were you if he can hook up with someone the night of the break up or day after i would NOT take him back. not worth your time trust me. but your wondering what to get him get him like colugne or does he have a favortie baseball team football? does he play a sport? make him cookies or cupcakes get him a chain write him a note. [ sml111992's advice column | Ask sml111992 A Question ]
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