i know this is a weird question to ask, but how do you know if a guy is using you?
like what are some signs to know?
guys/girls can answer, but i really would like some help! thanks! anything is appreciated!=)
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? Jessica13 answered Sunday July 8 2007, 2:40 pm: 1. he wont be excited when you start dating
2. he wont tell any of his friends that he is dating you or he might just tell a few
3. if alls he wants to do is makeout or just do sexual stuff
4. if he wont sit down with you and have a real close conversation
5. if he doesn't look at you alot
6. if you look into his eyes and his pupils don't get big hes not that interested in you
7. if he told you he loved you when you first started dating hes using you
8. if he didn't really know you when you started dating then he is probley using you
9. if you call him and he makes up excuses to get off the phone fast hes using you
10. if he calls you hot or sexy instead of pretty or beutiful hes using you
viito07 answered Sunday July 8 2007, 1:55 am: OK LISTEN CLOSELYYYYYYY...
1: he wont hold your hand in public
2: friends seem more important
3:friends can ruin ANY and ALL plans you guys make
4: he asks for sex or making out or anything sexual ALOTTTT
5:wont make romantic dates
6:doesnt call at night to say goodnight and that he loves you
7: he doesnt kiss you wen people are looking
8: if you need anything else or need clearification on one of them, ask me...viito07 ur welcome.. [ viito07's advice column | Ask viito07 A Question ]
-nikki- answered Saturday July 7 2007, 9:23 pm: umm yerr well he doesn't sound like he is cheating on you at all and he does know how to communicate he may be busy ... kk :)
i think you need to talk to him about it if you are worried and are unsure but make sure you say it smartly ok
thnx for your feedback [ -nikki-'s advice column | Ask -nikki- A Question ]
kittaytoro answered Saturday July 7 2007, 9:19 pm: hm.. some of the signs i can think of are:
-only wanting to be physical with you when you guys hang out.
-not really wanting to talk or anything like that.. like i said, only physical
-not bothering to talk to you, other when you're on dates
-only wanting to hang out somewhere where you can do 'romantic' things.
-not wanting to hang around other people/friends/family when you're around
-ignoring you when friends are around
xXxpinky615xXx answered Saturday July 7 2007, 9:14 pm: Oh this is a good one!!! Cause I just got rid of the guy that was using me!
-They will only call/text you the day before or the day that they want to hang out.
-When you make out/have sex/ do whatever it is that you do he seems to ignore you after that.
-They generally won't call for a few days.
-You find that you are always the person to start conversations with them.
-They give you one word answers when you talk.
-They start to "drift away".
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