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try no love life.
16/f
My first and last boyfriend was almost a year ago. And i know you shouldn't need a boyfriend to be happy but i have a big group of friends only 2 of them are single and i just feel really left out. We always hang out and its all couple except me and the 2 other girls(who by the way don't like me,long story). I just want that someone. and i dont know what to do. I'm sorta shy when i first meet people, or i just right off the bat think they don't like me. What should i doo!?
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Honestly, being patient is the key to getting a boyfriend.If your looking too hard.. you tend to make bad decisions.Just be yourself and have fun.Don't go out and look for one.One will see you and only you and have a connection with you.Just build that confidence and have a decent conversation with a guy your interested in.Yet, I will say that you don't need a boyfriend in order to satify you.Just because everyone else has a boyfriend , doesn't mean your bad or should be left out.That just means they get to be in a commited relationship and can't flirt with guys.So take that opportunity and have fun.Don't worry about guys.They will come and go.Have fun.And good luck! :]
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I COULD KICK YOU!XD Don't take that the wrong way haha sorry sorry!Let me explain. Your problem is soo simple! It is your confidence! Guys like the girls that are out there. I had the same problem until one day I walked up to a cute guy said your missing something me! Then I said just kidding and he asked me out right there! Be confident! Act like your the prettiest girl in the room and you have the greatest personality! Guys may seems shallow but they go for a girl who looks like she'd be hard to tame! Guys like girls that don't seem desperate to talk to them and they hate clingy in my experience! They like girls who look like they don't need someone else to make them whole!
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well, first off i'd like to tell you that you're not alone! I don't have a love life either.
My first and last bf was almost a year ago as well. Wow it's amazing how alike we are. lol.
I used to be really really sensitive about being single and i used to be upset ALL the time about it, i mean literally ALL the time. But then after a while, like months later I just decided that there's no use in worrying about who your next bf will be and when it'll happen. And you know what? In the long run- relationships don't matter in the least. Because someday you will be married and then it won't matter who you were dating at 16! Not saying I'm happy being single, but i don't feel as bad as i used to about it.
And about the right off the bat not liking thing, I feel the same way all the time. It's like guys will look at me and seem interested, then we start talking and i feel like their interest just disappears. :(
I always feel like "why is everybody automatically unattracted to me?"
you could try to talk to a guy who goes to ur school on myspace and get to know him on there, and then you two might end up dating.
I really hope i helped.
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Find a guy that you think is cute, and funny and stuff and get one of your bestfriends of the group to introduce you somehow like do the classic drop your books or something that will get his attention or you can even just go up to him with you bff and say hi. I know you said your shy but whenever im with my bff I am a lot more outgoing because it always helps if you have someone there with you. Then get to know the guy better and sometimes even flirt with him you know get him to like you. Then in time you might go out. Good luck.
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