Member Since: July 8, 2007
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Last Update: July 8, 2007
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my friends grandfather died this morning. hes really hurt. but i dont know what to say to him. im scared ill say something wrong. what should i tell him? (link)
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this is a hard onee...
i have had some of my friends loose a loved one and it is a very hard thing to cope with...but a friend can help alottt.. yuou might not want to mush them up too much but sit down and say
"i know you might want to be alone right now or you need time to think but if you need ANYTHING i mean ANYTHING..you can call me and ill talk to you on the phone or come over right away...also tell them that you are there for them and that you will be there for them till the end..if they dont want to be alone then stay with them if you can ask to sleep over or have them sleep oveer your house to get them away from a house that has memories in it that might hurt them or make them even more sad....talk to them about something either ont he topic or away from them..this depends on how they react to the topic when you do talk to them about it... be there for them when they need you...hope this helps..viito07
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i know this is a weird question to ask, but how do you know if a guy is using you?
like what are some signs to know?
guys/girls can answer, but i really would like some help! thanks! anything is appreciated!=) (link)
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OK LISTEN CLOSELYYYYYYY...
1: he wont hold your hand in public
2: friends seem more important
3:friends can ruin ANY and ALL plans you guys make
4: he asks for sex or making out or anything sexual ALOTTTT
5:wont make romantic dates
6:doesnt call at night to say goodnight and that he loves you
7: he doesnt kiss you wen people are looking
8: if you need anything else or need clearification on one of them, ask me...viito07 ur welcome..
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our son just turned 16 and was sneaking around with a girl that was 18 at the time and is now 19
he was told that he was not to see her anymore our we was going to press charges well now we got papers in the mail saying that i had to take him to get dna testing she had a baby this is in ohio wondering what we can do we know that its both there faults but my son is a straight a student in school has 2 more years and we heard bad things about this girl after the fact and the sneaking around. (link)
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i think you should sit down with your son and have a heart to heart...with the right words you can understand where he is coming from and have him understand where you are coming from..you say he is a straight a student...which means on the whole he is a really good kid and has his priorities in order... i think you raised him to make good decisions and i think if he says he loves her you should accept that... because if you dont then it will drive him from you and he will do it any way..then he wont feel safe to tell you things and one day he might be in trouble for making the wrong move and cant tell you because he knows how you will react to it...give him space but keep an eye out... and about the baby.. if it is his the morally correct thing to do is to have him support and stay with it..i know from experience that a absent father can ruin a child's life..it wouldnt be fair to the baby to take him away she/he didnt do this the parents did and she/he shouldnt have to suffer for it..like i said though...let him make his own mistakes..
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