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should we date? total oppasites in every way.
do oppasites really attract?
this guy i like is soo sweet and such a gentleman and a total musclehead and he does football and hunting and all, hes never been to a concert and has never played an instrument, he is totally against any type of smoking or drinking. he stays home most of the time and his parents are extremely strict though, he lives in the middle of nowhere and is a freshman. but he is extremely tall and built.
me on the other hand i live for art and music, i paint draw sculpt n all and do so much, for music i do guitar and know how to do piano n clarinet. i sing n write music and concerts are my favorite thing to go to. im always out with friends n never home and am very outgoing as he is quiet. i smoke but not cigaretts which is a battle to him. i live in the center of everyone and everything. im vegetarian and a pacifist. my parents are protective yet not strict at all and im a sophmore.
he makes me feel so important and loved and tiny compared to him which i am skinny but im tall and thats the thing i hate the most about myself but im only to his shoulders he has to bend down to hug me :)
does anyone think this would work? we both like eachother but i just got out of a bad relationship of which i was emotionally or mentally abused and also cheated on many times, so i said i dont want to date yet, also gives me time to decide. ..but i dont want to be held back like i want to go to concerts and still be able to party with my friends and not be went off on for it like my ex always did to me, so im paranoid. and i would never ever cheat or even get with a guy im not dating. help?
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Opposites can attract. But this isn't so much about your differences, as it is about the fact you've just stated you recently left a relationship filled with turmoil.
You need to take care of you before you can take on any other responsibilities. Sure, keep him around, but don't get too involved in anything too quickly. My advice to you is maintain a friendship with him and test the waters before you decide anything.
You're young and life is filled to the brim with possibilities.
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You both liking one another is advantage for you i think you should date him once your ready it's worth a shot if things don't work out for some reason then you'll know you know you tried trying is better then not doing anything at all even though both of you are different that doesn't mean that you won't have things in common in the future it could happen once you get to know one another better i think you should go for it just because your last boyfriend cheated on you and did other things to you doesn't exactly mean that if you date the boy you like now he will do the same thing all boys are different and aren't the same i'm sure if you date you'll still have time to do the things you want & be able to balance your boyfriend too(:
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Hey there :)
Okay i feel i can somewhat relate to this question as while reading it i was instantly reminded of my own situations.
This sounds exactlyy like me and my boyfriend.
Im like you in the relationship,he doesnt drink lives in the middle of nowhere too! and is taller :)
we are complete oposites and yet we have been hapily going out for over 5months.
It took me a long time to decide its what I wanted though.
I kept holding back convincing myself we wouldnt work out before I had even given it a chance.
Youl never know unless you guys try. :)
I was messed around quite a bit before my current boyfriend but im so happy and greatful i gave it a go. He doesnt mind me going out with my friends he loves me and trusts me :)
by the sounds of this guy im sure he would be the same.
Take it slow step by step day by day whats the hurry?
hes not putting any pressure on you.
hang out more as friends see if more feelings devolop and if you can see it going somewhere :)
it took me over a year to finally get with my bf.
sometimes people ask me do I regret not realising it sooner,and I say no.
because I had all that time to think who I really wanted to be with was him, even though were so different.
So youve nothing to loose really have you :)
Id say give it go! its totally up to you though,I hope this helped good luck and feel free to inbox any time.
Much <3
Jess 16/f x
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