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My Awkward Life Needs Some Help
Posted Friday April 9 2010, 12:03 pm
16/F
Alright, so I have a friend who's all cute and bubbly and she flirts a lot without realizing it (it's in her personality). The guys tend to flirt with her a lot, too, and she just got her first kiss this week by a guy she only likes as a friend.
It made me realize that I would like to be more carefree and stress-free like her so maybe I can stop being intimidating around guys and stuff.
I'm sort of the opposite of her: serious, sarcastic, stressed (lots of stuff to manage in my life right now), and sort of intimidating, I guess. People say I can be arrogant sometimes, but I never realize it and I really want to change.
I can talk to guys, but I don't always know what to say, o...
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I don't know what to do with these guys..
Posted Friday April 9 2010, 3:44 am
15/f
It's kind of a long story. I started dating this guy. Still had a crush on another guy. This other guy is my friend. Still talk to him..and I still like him. He just turned 18. My boyfriend is 16. Just extra info.
So I'm kinda confused what to do because I love my boyfriend. But you know how it is, you're attracted to other people. I found out my boyfriend liked another girl too. We ended up talking about it. Fixed it. And its fine. But it still kills me.
This other guy, we've been friends for about 2 years. Friends with his sister, so I mean, we're pretty close. I know he's into me and all that. We wouldn't really do anything about it anyway though. So I'm not planning on leaving my boyfr...
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What do I say to my ex?
Posted Friday April 9 2010, 1:46 am
So my boyfriend broke up with me a couple weeks ago. He said he needed to clear his head. We were still talking, still friends.. and then he just stopped calling.. when I would call him he would say he was busy. He just called me.. no idea what to say. help!
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Girls can be evil
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 11:30 pm
Okay to make this very long story short, my boyfriend of two months cheated on me. We were bestfriends at first for over a year and a half before we dated. I'm 17 btw. I've always cared so much and beileved in him when no else did, his reputation for being a man whore always bothered me. His phone had been "broken" for about two weeks and I get this text saying hey. I started to notice it wasn't him and whoever was on the phone was beating around the bush about what they were doing. So "kate" let's call her, starts saying that my bf is hot, that he wants her a whole bunch of bull that I simply ignored. Kate ends up sending me a text saying I I shouldn't be happy because Im not the one making out with him now. I broke dow...
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Don't know wat to do
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 11:18 pm
Like I had dis problem with my girlfriend see I really don't like my girlfriends to drink cause who knows wats gonna happen when they get drunk :( and like my new girlfriend now we been going out 4 3months now and we love each other to death and like she used2 drink but she stopped becuz of me but she is gonna go to dis birthday party dis week 4 her cousin and I know it's gonna be alcohol there but she said she wasn't gonna drink any but her cousins might pressure her or she might just sneek and drink some and I can't go to da party so idk wat to do I'm just scared she might get drunk I told her already but she said she's not how do I know she will never tell :(
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Getting To Know A Boy
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 8:42 pm
I met this boy from another school a couple years ago, we talked alittle, asked to be friends on facebook (All that Jazz). Well, once a year our schools visit each other and stuff, well we talked like we usually do and then the next thing I know he's IMing me. He must have gotten it off my facebook or something but I said something like "Did you like today? Did I make it interesting?" and his reply was "Kinda... and yesss you did! =)" I took that as a little flirting so we've been flirting on AIM and I kinda want to see him again and hang out to get to know him a little better. Right now he's on a class trip til like Saturday or something. So what do you think? Do you think he likes me? Do you recommend us hanging out? H...
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Freeze up around him..
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 8:22 pm
So I'm 19/f and the guy is 18. We've actually known each other for a long time,so we're friends but I have a bit of a crush on him and whenever we see each other we're usually with a group of people. I'm fine with him when we're with other people but when it's just me and him I completely freeze up .. YES even at 19!
If this is long, sorry! I'll deff return the favor :)
He's my cousins neighbor and for example, last week I pulled up to my cousins house and he was outside and I hadn't seen him for like a month. I decided to go over and talk to him and oh my goshhh he was so adorable and to make things worse he had his shirt off. I walked up and he gave me a hug & I just never know what to say! I was like wha...
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How do I get him to notice me?
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 7:39 pm
I like this guy who I go to school with, and I've known him for a while, but never really noticed how cute and nice he is until a few weeks ago. The thing is, we barely ever talk. At all. I talked to him more today than I have for 8 years (Ha) and it wasn't even that much. I look at him quite a bit, and notice him looking at me sometimes, too. But that might be nothing more than just glancing. Maybe I'm just hyper-sensitive to it now. He's in my phys/ed, biology, and pre-calculus classes (Just as some extra info...). I want to start talking to him more, but don't really know too much about him. How can I get him to really notice me and possibly get interested in me? Thanks so much to anyone who can help :)
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black rose?
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 5:49 pm
Hello, my boyfriend recently told me he loves black roses, and for a date, i wanted to get them for him, then i read that they symbolize the death or farewell of something so would that be giving a bad idea? i was thinking 12 roses-6 purple, 6 black. would that be okay or be sending a bad message? thank you!
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best friend /boyfriend
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 4:54 pm
My "best friend" seems to get in the middle of all of my relationships,crushes,men,etc.I guess its shame on me for staying friends with someone like this,but we've been friends for 6 years so it's hard to just drop someone and she hangs out with the same people as me.But ,one time while i was sleeping she hooked up with the guy i liked (we werent dating) and ofcourse i was younger and immature,and it made me feel like crap but i got over it.Then this year,there was this kid i liked.He wasn't very good looking but i still liked him and he liked me..i talked to him almost everynight and we started to hangout and stuff. I would bring my best friend (val) and he then started flirting with her! She took no interest in him,but she gave ...
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will my ex and I ever talk again
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 12:37 pm
My boyfriend broke up with me about a month ago. He was going through a depression and cut off all connections with everyone. He says he needed time alone and that he was no longer happy with anything. First he stopped talking to his best friend. Then all other friends, then he broke up with me. I tried to still be there for him and told him to call me whenever he needed me. But after a couple of weeks of roller coaster emotions and not being sure if he was going to call or not, i decided to end the whole thing. He kept telling me that he will come back one day and that I just need to be strong and move on for now. So thats what I told him that I needed to move on and not to call me anymore unless things were going to be different. he told ...
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Ex Boyfriend
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 12:12 pm
me && my ex boyfriend have broke up, we broke up last year after 3 months, then 3 months later we got back togehter....we got back together when he saw me in the mall, we got talking && i told him i had just gotten back from a holiday with some friends && he said he knew, he had heard from other people etc. he noticed that a lot of things in my life had changed...got a new job...etc. do you think thats what drew him in? the fact i had done different things and he wanted to be a part of it?
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I think he said 'I Love you'
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 11:27 am
Im 21 and my boyfriend and I have been dating for 6 months. Last night while having sex i heard him mutter "I Love you". I wasnt sure so I asked him what he said. He just ignored the question. We've never said we loved eachother before and I didnt want to say it and look stupid if that wasnt what he said. Is it possiable i heard him right and he was too embarassed to say it twice? I love him but i've been to afraid to say so.
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Does he not wanna talk to me?
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 9:56 am
17/f
Okay so I kinda like a guy at my school, he's a freshman and i'm a senior but I don't see age as an issue. We've been texting back and forth but ever since I got on my vaca he jus randomly stops answering. Last night he told me the guy that walked up to me thought I was hot and said he had good taste. So basically he told me I was good looking. I said aww thanks :) ur sweet...and I didn't get an answer...so wtf is he not interested?! In tired of the mixed signals like that!! Also I wanna ask him to my prom but now I'm afraid he will just say no. What do I do to make this better? I need to know if he's interested bc sometimes he makes comments like he is and other times he either doesn't answer or outta nowhere says um I'll let you go. Ahhhhh help! Thanks.
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Can guys switch off their feelings?
Posted Thursday April 8 2010, 4:43 am
I know its a stupid question. But me and my boyfriend broke up last week, he initiated it. I know I have to move on because I dont think we will get back together. Only a week before we split up he was saying how hes the happiest hes ever been with a girl, saying I am perfect and that he is falling in love with me. After a few days of not really speaking to eachother he says he thinks we should break up and its going to be really hard to get over me and he does really like me but he doesnt see our relationship heading anywhere. Im not going to beg for him back or anything like that, but do you think his feelings about me were genuine? We dated for 4 months and we were good friends before that. Even though we arent together I would like to think he still thinks of me.
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Ex Boyfriendddddd
Posted Wednesday April 7 2010, 10:14 pm
We'll call this guy.. Nate. So Nate and have dated a few times, it all adds up to around 6 - 8 months. I'm 15, he just turned 16. We dated this summer for a month or 2, and well, I took his virginity. He wasn't my first, but I had my first real like, moment with him, like it actually felt special. So, shit happened, this guy kissed me, roumours spread, he broke up with me. We got back together a couple times within the next month, but it never lasted more than a month because the trust wasn't there. So, in Janurary, he msged me and said 'i miss us' and we got into a long conversation, and he told me he still loved me still had feelings for me and everything. I was over joyed. So, from there.. we started dating in March. It lasted a week, a...
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my ex
Posted Wednesday April 7 2010, 10:12 pm
i was like my ex boyfriends first for everything.we had sex (it wasn't my first time but it was his ,yes i know i should have saved sex til marriage..etc.) i was his first REAL girlfriend ,he told me im the best girl he's ever been with,everything! He was so innocent too.We've only been broken up for less than 2 weeks and he just broke up with me randomly,because he felt as though he wasn't liking me as much because we were together so much and he started seeing me as a friend.but he still said im the most amazing girl ,and im cooler than any girls he's ever liked and i actually meant something to him.All his friends told me that he talked about me all the time and he really did like me.For the last two weeks,ive thought about him like craz...
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a question to guys..
Posted Wednesday April 7 2010, 8:58 pm
let's say you break up with your girlfriend ,what would make you want her back?
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Posted Wednesday April 7 2010, 8:57 pm
I have a simple question that could have a lot of answers. What is a girl's favorite scent on a guy? Specifically, please.
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help
Posted Wednesday April 7 2010, 8:56 pm
hey,
i have a boyfriend but he doesnt really act like my boyfriend. What do i do?
Help Me
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