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Freeze up around him..
So I'm 19/f and the guy is 18. We've actually known each other for a long time,so we're friends but I have a bit of a crush on him and whenever we see each other we're usually with a group of people. I'm fine with him when we're with other people but when it's just me and him I completely freeze up .. YES even at 19!
If this is long, sorry! I'll deff return the favor :)
He's my cousins neighbor and for example, last week I pulled up to my cousins house and he was outside and I hadn't seen him for like a month. I decided to go over and talk to him and oh my goshhh he was so adorable and to make things worse he had his shirt off. I walked up and he gave me a hug & I just never know what to say! I was like whats up :) where have you been! and he was like hahaa I've been here, where the hell have you been? And i was like busy .. really busy and he was like doing what? And I was like just everything. Then things got silent like we didn't know what to say next and my dumb self said so hows your girl situation? And he was like what girl situation and I was like i dont know do you need help with any girls and he kind of laughed and was like nahhh. And he was cleaning out his car so I was like what are ya doing with your car and he was like putting my baseball stuff in and I was like ohhh do you have practice? And he was like in a little bit and then it got silent and I was like uhhh now what. We both kind of just stood there haa talk about awkward!! I HATE leaving him its so hard but I didn't want it to be all awkward so I was like well I'm going to go to Nates (my cousins) and then I could see him looking at me the whole time I was walking next door to my cousins.
Well then a few hours later me nate and him were outside playing basketball and we were fine. he was constantly flirting with me and touching me and so it's like we have this comfort when other people are around and we talk so much more. ughhh this is not normal is it! haha seriously, how can I not be such a geek and just talk to him normally when we're together!!
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Well when you like someone and go on to talk to him, you are naturally nervous so that's normal. And when I say nervous, it includes lack of words and awkardness in a conversation.
When the other person is in the same position that just means he likes you back. I am just asuming though.
All you need to do is relax, try to be chill. Like don't give short answers, even if you are going to talk too much about something so not important while you get to a point of babbling. It's alright as long as you are talking, and I guess he'll try to ease it to you and say something interesting, you can call it practice so you guys get used to the fact that it's okay to talk while no one is around and it's okay to hang out too.
Good Luck =]
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It actually sounds like he's into you. You know? That shy boy next door type thing.. but be cautious. If he is that type of boy it's hard to tell if he likes you or if he's just really nice. And also if he is this type you will probably need to make the first move (shy boy.. remember?). Ask him if he wants to get some pizza with you and your cousin first.. then ask him to a movie.. just the two of you.. Movies are great for hanging out with someone you don't know. You don't have to talk, but you can look;] If after hanging out a few times he hasn't made a move or nothing has changed, you need to tell him how you're feeling or do something so he knows how're feeling.. or else you will be stuck in the friend zone. Be careful!
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